Your measurements & actual responses from women

I COMPLETELY agree with that last sentence. I know women who consider me the biggest they’ve ever had even though they’ve experienced longer (but thinner) dicks or fatter (but shorter) dicks in the past.

Personally I love my dick because size-wise I feel like I can please almost any woman. I’ve yet to meet an extreme size queen that couldn’t enjoy me, and the tighter women I’ve had have all been able to accommodate over time. That being said, I’m starting to get hesitant about pushing to get bigger than 6in girth. Since passing 5.5, ive noticed an increase in the amount of soreness complaints I get from women after sex. My drive is high, so I hate having to sit on the bench for a night while she recovers.

It is odd, but I’ve had many girls tell me I’m “big”, or “huge”, even in my pre-PE days. Even when I was about 4 I was told by my mom to be careful when I got older because she could tell I was going to be big and not to hurt a girl (weird, but at least it was positive in some sense). It didn’t make me feel better to notice that her prophecy didn’t come true in my early teens. By the time I was with my first woman, I was about 6nbpel and 6.25bpel. I was always girthy, apparently. In my early 20s a girl once said “damn you’re big” and I could tell she meant it. I could never take those comments seriously, as I was already thoroughly conditioned to suspect it wasn’t, so I suspected she was probably saying that because either it was just “big to her”, or else she was being nice. I had enough experience with women’s mind games to believe they could tell many a curious tale in order to manipulate a man’s ego.

One chick sized me up and bemused that I was “wide”. I thought that “damn, do I have to start fucking chicks sideways?” None of the women I knew talked directly about my dick, not one. Go figure. I’m sure it was considered big by THEM at least, for crying out loud! Then again, whatever. By this point I was in my later 20s and early 30s and was more about getting with a woman if I liked here, and cared a lot less for what she’d think of my dick because I figured if I liked her that much then I’d just happily take the risk and let the chips fall when we hit the sack. Besides I had gotten more evidence that women weren’t unsatisfied by my dick, and in fact the better I got at USING it, the more they enjoyed sex with me. The better that worked out, the more my confidence and creativity could emerge, and this fed back into the mix in such a way as to really create some magic time and again, so I was outside the insecurity zone even before I was taking PE seriously. Really, that’s the main thing for most of us, to get over this internal image and get with direct reality and its multivariate dynamics! Sex is a whole lot more than penis size! Having said that, increasing penis size as the only variable we have to spend so much effort and time to alter in the equation is still a very important goal, and a very potent one, both for our egos and experience, and our partners’!

Turns out that unless only big dick guys are out there fucking, average dick guys must be setting the norm. Now that I’m on the bigger side of average, I almost want to say “and they are”, but some modesty please, as I have larger goals! So in proportion to how twisted all this is in the heads of both men and women, there is a huge need of a reality check somewhere in all this. Men need to stop thinking that average is small, and that big is average! You’d think it would be that way, but certain cultural and psychological forces can get so distorted that it is almost beyond belief!

I guess most of us can make the 10min window, but sometimes I get a little wordy or spell-check/sentence structure picky, so this was meant to be an amendment to my previous post.

But back to that “women’s reaction” part. As women have enjoyed sex with me, and some have commented about how big I am, or at least seemed pleasantly surprised or at least pleased by it, I’ve gotten an impression that they can handle my girth generally with some reservations until they get used to it over time, and so I’d say about 70% of women find it a discomfort at first, but as we know that is something they can adapt to. I’ve also developed techniques, both general as to lovemaking, and specific as to thrusting, which offset the worst of this issue. But regarding length, I’ve gotten the impression that this is something they can handle plenty more of, especially when they are highly aroused. I get the sense that they could handle a couple of more inches safely and well, although it would imply they’d be stretching and accommodating toward the limits of their proper comfort zone at that point.

Well, I’m going to see if I can’t take them to that limit, then! I’ve had enough experience at lengths between 6 and 7 inches, so I have some data to go on when I reach 8 to 9, and can perform my own experiments concerning this and have more to report when that data comes in! I’m looking forward to it!

At 7.5 by 5

“I love you” awkwardly spouted out during car sex

“Yea, that’s going to hurt” as she was feeling around making out in a walmart parking lot

“That thing isn’t going anywhere near my ass” just talking sex with a former partner

“I guess you are pretty big” one girl getting the long stroke

“No… definitely not complaining” one girl after a backseat stint.

So high average girth and decent length maybe counts for something. But going bigger just to be safe, or evil…

Let me just say I found this forum by looking for Criss Stokes online. It is not my mission to defend him like a fan-boy or open up a huge penis size debate but I will say a few things.

Height and body build come into this. Strokes is 6ft 3. Mandingo is 5ft 7 at the most. If you put Strokes and Mandingo in the same scene together, Mandingo would not be much longer. People who try and undermine Strokes are confused. He has one of the biggest dicks in porn.

As for his real penis size. Criss Strokes did a joint scene with Sean Michaels and Casey Calvert. There are photographs and the video itself and both Strokes and Michaels are side by side. They are both basically the same length or at the minimum within 0.5 inch of each other. They are both huge. If you are claiming Strokes is less than seven inches then so is Sean Michaels and so is Lexington Steele. Does that make sense? It doesn’t. Sean Michaels has one of the biggest dicks in porn, he has been measured at 8.5 inches fully erect in one of his scenes with a beer bottle. Lexington Steele is also 8.5” (measured in Lewd Conduct 3 incorrectly from the side at 9”). Danny D (Matt Hughes) is also 8.5” (measured by Tanya Tate). Most of the biggest dicks in porn are around this size and Strokes is not far off.

Strokes is a legit 7.5 inch, maybe 8 inch at a full blown maxed out erection like we saw in the Calvert scene. He is not under 7”.

But yes I do know there is a photograph of Criss Strokes being measured by Kara Novak at allegedly “only” 6.5 inches. But the measurement is bogus may have even been a joke release, it is from a set of pictures released by a porn company that heavily edits their photographs. The tape starts at the 4” mark and runs to just over 10” and his penis is pointing up-wards from a very strange angle. If you look online there are six other measurement photographs for Strokes. One of them is more reliable, measured in a more correct way with a ruler. He is a good 7.5”. And yes I know the porn industry uses all kinds of tricks like fish-eye lenses, dodgy camera angles, small women etc to make the dicks look big as possible but even without all the trickery you can see Strokes has a big dick.

As for Shorty Mac he has measured himself with a video tape. A standard video tape is 7.2 inches long, he was shorter than the tape. He is no longer than 7”. And Rocco and Nacho Vidal are not 8 inches. They have never measured themselves on cam but you can work out that both are around 7” long. Regards.

In response to what this thread is actually about. My measurement on top with a ruler bone pressed is 7.2 inch exactly (I am also uncut but my foreskin does not retract when I am erect) - That is my max length, I have never been anymore than that, I don’t do PE and never will. Not interested in girth. I consider myself bigger than some porn stars and most women I have been with have said I am big. I am happy with my size. Criss Strokes is bigger than me though :)

marinera - The Size Myth In The Porn Industry

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I think everyone should say their Non Bone Pressed measurements when it comes to this kind of things. No one can see the total length of the penis.

Marinera, if I search “Non Bone Pressed” on Google images I can find your avatar. :D

I own a small (in my opinion, I know I’m average) dick, which is BP 5,51 inches and EG 4,72 inches, but good erections when it’s sex time with my gf. I always had an insecurity about it, because obviously I don’t own a pornstar size, or even a proud-to-be size.

But I am with my girlfriend a year ago, and the positive in this relationship is that she maked me wait like 9 months to start having sex. She was a virgin and I was the first, you know how girls are sentimental about that stuff.

The thing is that I never got a simple complain from her. I always do an amazing and very long foreplay. Kissing her passionately, then start to dress off kissing each other’s body, then I give her long, sweet and sexy oral sex. And I don’t penetrate her until she begs me for fucking her. Trust me it works every single time. And when I finally penetrate her slowly and changing the rhythm constantly, the lack of inches (to be a good large dick) are not even in the room. She loves the way I make love to her. It makes her travel, and moan and move, it shakes her head, we switch position (last position is, she on top and, me, touching her vagina as she moves, works always, strongest orgasms I’ve ever seen) a couple of times and she already cums (it takes about 30-45 minutes this whole process). After sex, she’s the sweetest and happiest girl on Earth, she hugs me kisses me and tell me how much she loves me. And I’m very happy with this girl (even when she still a young girl who doesn’t wanna blowjob me or doesn’t accept many sexual position yet) and I firmly believe for what I have witnessed that she really likes my dick.

ANYWAY, I’m doing the PE for a personal goal. I WANT, a bigger dick to be proud of. I’m proud of the way I make love to my gf and her reactions and multiple orgasms. But I’m definitely not proud of my penis size. And that’s the improvement I gotta do.

That’s my experience. Hope it is useful to somebody.

You have a really positive outlook, you really deserve a bigger size and I bet you will get it. You have the attitude of a winner :)

The porn thing has just messed with guys minds all over the world and it is getting worse and worse. We need to remember porn is fantasy, never full-on reality. Since the early 2000s and the obsession and propaganda about ‘monster’ cocks in porn it screws with the average guy’s head into thinking they have a small dick and brings about insecurity and shame. I have seen from porn, people break up relationships because the guy thought he was small or his girlfriend did. It is a very sad world we live in and porn is to blame for this thing about dick size insecurity. It is not possible to wake many people up out of the porn delusion. They need the fantasy that mega oversized dongs exist. There is even a sadistic stupid genre in porn now where guys with an average or small size dick degrade themselves by comparing themselves with a ‘monster’ size dong in a room or watching the man screw a girl. This is the way porn is turning I am afraid. The obsession with monster cocks is almost on a popular level in society.

In truth all those ‘monster’ cocks in porn are in the 8-9 inch range. Not 12, 13 or 14 inches like the porn industry attempts to fool people into believing. You should check out the porn thread on this forum.

Look at Lexington Steele or Danny D, they look like foot-long dongs on camera and both claim to be 11 inches, but when they measure up with see they are around 8.5”.

An average 5.5 inch cock may seem to be ‘small’ but in reality it isn’t. A real inch is very big in real. If you add 3” or 4” onto an average size then you have a monster dong. But yes a real 8” will look huge compared to an average 5 incher but in reality it is “3” inches difference not 6, 7 like some of these people who watch porn seem to believe.

Maybe I am ‘lucky’ because I have a natural 7 incher without any PE, but even when I watched porn before I found out the real size of some of those guys I was fooled into thinking I was small. Porn is addicting but I find my sex-life is much better without it when I don’t watch it for months.

That’s not really new. Large dicks have been a focal point of many societies for thousands of years. It’s not an illusion that a large dick is just plain more appealing most of the time. Both to have and to behold.

Having been average I can say with some certainty that being large is worth the effort. That’s just how it is. I can also say that I really don’t know where I’d want to quit either.

My girl, who was initially opposed, is now supportive in my efforts. She claims now that greater than 9 by 7 would be a max for her. She also said 6 in girth was ridiculous before I got there. My sex drive has improved. The sex is more intense. I’ve been going so many extra miles she drools like a porn star when she gives head, and she’s gotten into trying to deep throat it. I can swear she’s getting better every time.

So all that being said, I really have no intention to stop until I hit 9. And if she is open to more after that, I’m all for it. Not because I’m even a shallow hearted person, but because it is making my sex life a ridiculous bliss I never expected.

I agree with You. I think porn is just totally stupid and only negative when it comes to claims. Guys on there claims are just nonsense like Ice Cold, He says He’s 15” (baed on estimation).

It creates a vicious circle the more You watch it, the more You’ll watch and makes You feel insicure about your size. It’s like watching NBA and thinking there average height for men is 6’7” .

Sorry I quoted only this but your message is just more than 8” LOL.

Kind of glad to hear that — I’m 7.25” BPEL and don’t have much experience, so no real comments good or bad. I’m only 6.25-6.5 NBPEL though, so not entirely sure how looks to girls visually. Hoping through PE I can get to at least 7 NBPEL x 5.5 MEG. At that I’d be happy, and everything else is largely for ego purposes. Also working at losing some weight, but the way I am built I doubt I could ever get below a 0.5 fat pad.