A Fine Lesson in PATIENCE

To TG: I was taking a decon break owing to that vasectomy I had, and I sorta got razzed over some stuff that some guys were posting on here, so I figured a break from TP would serve me, too.

So I’m poking around on jelqing and stumble onto this thread. The guy states his routine over the past 25 years of PE, and I thought it was worth mentioning here.

See, it gives us a fine perspective in the patience and persistence required for a successful PE career. It settles our nerves when we see the knuckle-head claims of 1/2” girth and 1.5” length gains in TWO MONTHS.

Man, shut the fuck up, and let me send you a virtual bitchslap.

SLAP!

That’s EQ and measurement error. You did NOT gain that in two months you ignorant fuck-tard.

Gains, brothers and sissies, come slow over the years. See how this guy states a 1/4-1/2” length gain year-on-year. That is a reasonable, realistic length gain! Girth is tricky, owing to its relationship with EQ, but 1/8-1/2” gains year-on-year seem to be fairly typical.

And I see on here all the time guys lamenting only gaining a 1/4” length this past year, and only seeing a 1/8” of an inch gain in girth.

Think long-term. Think compound interest. Think four years down the road. It adds up, that’s the point.

Also, note the simplicity of his routines. Clean out the gym of all the gimmick-ware, stick with try-true jelqs and stretches, and exercise consistently and with a great deal of patience. Develop an enormous amount of long-term vision, and stick to it for life.

He also agrees that 7” is a fine length, owing to the woman’s comfort, but that girth is pretty much open-ended without much complaint. I’m right at 6.75-7” and have to agree. It’s a great length, full penetration without discomfort, even though it doesn’t “look” big. I already get complaints in some positions, so it is a very real ceiling for length.

Anyway, thought it was worth sharing. PE should be a lifetime commitment, not a quick gain in two months so you can amp up your lousy sex life.

- Saul

I don’t want to hijack, but I sent you a message for information on the vasectomy. I have a consultation soon

I did not see a message, but to state publicly, the vas was a quick, simple procedure with a little pain afterward, but very manageable. I masturbated after four days — they say wait at least seven or ten days, but I couldn’t. I resumed light activity the day after the procedure, and was back in the gym after seven days. It took about two weeks for everything to feel completely normal. I have a bit of a drop in sex drive, but I don’t know if that is physical, mental or just coincidental with life.

I resumed light PE after about seven days, working back up to full strength over the next couple of weeks.

After about four weeks, there was no hint it even happened.

- Saul

This whole PE thing is an excellent lesson in patience. I sometimes think of it as putting one pebble into a bucket every other day. It might seem really slow going, “gosh it been a week and there’s only 3 pebbles” in the bucket… I need like 2 kg of pebbles to be happy….So the beginner decides to see if he can scoop more pebbles per day…problem is it doesn’t work that way, at least not now, and it looks like not ever, and expectations of heaps of pebbles every day can never be met… So he quits, calls those steady pebble misers liars, and talks about the motion in the ocean…etc

The reality is taking your time, making it habit. Learning your body. Purposefully, placing one pebble every other day(insert your won schedule here), with intention. Will lead to 365 pebbles in 2 years.

This whole PE thing is an excellent lesson in patience. I sometimes think of it as putting one pebble into a bucket every other day. It might seem really slow going, “gosh it been a week and there’s only 3 pebbles” in the bucket… I need like 2 kg of pebbles to be happy….So the beginner decides to see if he can scoop more pebbles per day…problem is it doesn’t work that way, at least not now, and it looks like not ever, and expectations of heaps of pebbles every day can never be met… So he quits, calls those steady pebble misers liars, and talks about the motion in the ocean…etc

The reality is taking your time, making it habit. Learning your body. Purposefully, placing one pebble every other day(insert your won schedule here), with intention. Will lead to 365 pebbles in 2 years.

Apologies in advance as I know the vasectomy issue is off-topic, but I have to comment on this;

“I masturbated after four days — they say wait at least seven or ten days”

Well, the day I had my vasectomy my wife gave me a blow job that night, just to check that everything was still working as normal. Not the most comfortable experience, but who could turn down an offer like that and the erection was pretty instant.