Above Avg, Big, Huge, & Monster

I tend to agree with your assess. The only thing I’d change is monster length begins at 9.0+.

Personally:

Length:
6.5”- 7.5” above avg
7.5”-8.5” Big
8.5”-9.0” Huge
9.0”+ Monster

Girth:
5.0”-5.5” above average
5.5”-5.75” Big
5.75”-6.0” “Thick”
6.0”-6.5” Huge
6.5”+ Monster

Can’t fix, but actually ‘huge’ length should be 8.5”-9.5” and ‘monster’ 9.5”+, if we are talking BPEL.

Granted, I’m pretty sure if you take my ranges above, and drop each 1 level, that probably is closer to how women would see it, since we typically want bigger than they do.

It’s all guess work. The key is being comfortable and confident in your own skin. Knowing that when you’re with your wife or partner you know how to please and get them off.

A big home to one person is 3,500 sqft; to another it’s 15,000 sqft. It’s being content and happy where you live.

Very, VERY, true

These make sense to me.

Just to preface, I’m mostly homosexual, but have sex with women often enough.

I guess, for me, having sex with a woman is more about “play” than “fuck”, so there tends to be tons of foreplay. By LOTS of foreplay, I mean, an hour at least. Let your dick throb and dribble while you get her soaked and open. My 5.25-5.5 girth is enough to make women who haven’t had kids want to have lots of foreplay and, as is often requested, “Let me get on top and get used to you.” I suppose, given the lots of foreplay, that’s just more play. Anyway, what I’m suggesting here is that lube is needed for some women and not for others, but the real difference is lots of foreplay. Get her really wet. And make sure to use her juice to slick up your cock, too. Get her so hot that she gets annoyed at why you haven’t put yourself inside her, yet. I have been with women who started out so tight I had to be gentle with two fingers… at first… and ended up fucking them real hard. Women who have had kids are pretty easy for me to fit into, but again, lots of foreplay to get her wet makes everything better. One women I’ve had multiple encounters with have taken my cock, another smaller dildo in the pussy at the same time, and another up the ass. (Yeah; we get DOWN.) Almost every time, I make her orgasm at least once before penetration. There is a thing about the orgasmic vagina - it kind of “tents” open, inside. Something about muscles relaxing or something right after orgasm. One young woman who I just flat could not get into, though she kept trying real hard with her on top, was able to take my entirety once I brought her to orgasm a few times - and that’s just how she was, every time. (This was my just-after-high-school girlfriend.)

One more anecdote, parts lifted from my personal journals - A buddy of mine got married at age 35 to a younger woman, 22. She was a virgin. And this buddy of mine has a fat dick - I figure about 6.5 girth, at least. I used to give him head from time to time. Now, a thing to know about him is that he came from a home with an abusive father. As a result, he is SUPER into being kind to women, gentle with women, an he really hates men who beat women. If he ever hurt a woman, he’d about kill himself over it. So, with that in mind it was no surprise when he asked me how to help her take his cock without hurting her. He hadn’t even tried, yet, but was kinda worried. I had told him “dude, that’s a big fat dick” enough. And when he found out she was a virgin, he almost broke up with her. She really wanted to stay a virgin until their wedding night, and expect to just be able to do it. I gave him the best advice from my experience both with women and as a gay man:

1) Trim your nails and file the edges nice and smooth.
2) Use hand lotion every night before bed. Make sure you don’t have any callouses.
3) LOTS of foreplay. Use your fingers and mouth. Make her orgasm at least once.
4) If she insists on your fingers not penetrating her before your cock, ask her to sit on you, to slowly take you inside.
5) Be ready to stop, at any moment. Be ready to try again, after making her orgasm again.

So, wedding, cake, etc. They head off to their honeymoon suite. Next morning we of the groomsmen and bridesmaids gather for brunch and the two of them join us to lots of hoots and hollars. At some point my buddy and I went to go piss; he said, “I gotta tell you - that was the best sex I have ever had. I’ve never eaten a pussy that long before. I kept licking her hymen, trying to loosen it up. I shot my first load when she was trying to sit on it. She tried to take me in, but it hurt so I had her lay down. I just kept doing what you said, make her come. She was nuts, and at one point she grabbed me by the neck and said, “JUST GET INSIDE ME!” So I put her on her back and just slid into her. It was like a door opened up. Yeah, there was blood, but she was so wet she says it never hurt bad.” I asked if he got all the way inside. “Oh yeah. She came when I got balls deep.” He was a very happy man - apparently, she comes easy. He said he never thought he’d have a virgin, or if he did he’d pretty much have to hurt her.
A few weeks later she and I were out shopping (I’m kinda her gay friend, now) and she told me that she knew that I had given her husband head from time to time. I was surprised that he told her. She said, “Well, I wanted you to know that he told me what you told him about our wedding night. Thank you. It might have been really painful!” After some more talking and joking about how big his dick is, she said, “Well, I just want you to know that when decide to have children, it is OK with me if you suck his dick when I’m pregnant. It’s the LEAST I can do to say thank you… BUT, other than that, that big dick is MINE!” I laughed and laughed. So awkward! I told her, “IF he asks me, I will check with you again before anything happens.”

I guess what I am saying is, “Take your time; don’t just try throwing that school bus down the hallway right away.”

Gay Stuff Follows; skip if you don’t wanna know…

The girl on top has never worked well for me even at my starting size. I’d usually have to do as your friend and get on top. Almost all of my encounters which are at least more than 10 a month start with foreplay, then me on top, and it can go anywhere from there.

Glad to hear your ass is ok. haha

I agree with these numbers. The original posts were way too small.

Haha hmm now thinking about adjusting my goal to 9.5x7! lol

The question becomes “what do you want to do with your penis?” when you pick really big goals.

The trick to this is the fact that most of us are unlikely to push past the societal norms of what is “very large” to most women. Hence why 8x6” is not only “very large” but it is the goal set by most members here.

You know what *you* think “huge” or “monster” is but…what are your goals with your size? You’re motivated enough to reach your goals. The question only becomes…what are they for?

Think on this deeply. These thoughts are starting points for the “monster” argument and some of these ideas I’ve seen in your posts:

- For some here, it is simply the idea of creating a penis so large it defies convention.
- For others it is feeling a vagina stretch to its limits.
- For many, it is the biggest size that it can be while successfully hooking up at a high rate of speed and not losing out on any tail in the process.

The idea I thought, in your case originally was the third option. But the more you talk about it the more I think it’s the second or first option. None of these are bad things but…they are important to your motivations and to your drive to succeed. You can only succeed in doing something that you truly want to do and understanding why you want to do it.

Give it some thought. That is the best secret to big gains I’ve yet found. Remaining motivated and understanding that part of myself.

Why not all three? lol

Honestly I personally would like a combination of the above…large/huge enough to always be the largest or insanely close to it, stretch most girls to their limits, and still work with ‘most’ out there. Of course, the former means any girl who is actually smaller down there could be impossible to make work, and anyone average would need to stretch a bit over time, but to me, the ideal girl sexually would be up for that challenge.

I think most of us really do have 2-3 goals though….at the minimum, we want to be big to all, which may or may not mean close to 8”x6” (where no one would see it as small). The next goal is what we hope to hit if we ever get past the minimum size we want, and the final is ‘if I could keep growing indefinitely, when would I actually say ok time to stop?’ so to speak.

Agreed.

I would say that 9”+ is a monster if it got at least 6”+ girth, maybe even 6,5”+ girth. But I would probably also say that 8”+ length combined with 7” or 7,5” girth is a monster.