First, If you haven’t made a woman come with that average sized dick of yours, you can’t blame it on your size. You need to learn how to use what you’ve got.
The vast majority of women are not so superficial that they would eliminate a guy as a potential lover based only on penis size.
I realize that when I am with a new woman, the chances are great that she has had bigger guys. So what? It is my intention to fuck the living hell out of her, make her scream and moan and be satisfied in the end. If a woman has her doubts that I can please her, I will fuck that notion right out of her head.
None of us are perfect, and neither are the women we fuck. If you know anything about women you will realize that when you get naked with a woman for the first time, she is probably much more preoccupied with the size of her own ass than the size of your dick and whether it is ¼ inch bigger or smaller than the last guys.
To ask a woman what she thinks about the size of your dick is only asking for a complex because you are obsessed with it and can not put it in the same context that she does. When you have sex with a woman, you judge whether you had a good time or not, (I hope) and do not nit pick about each of her body parts and techniques. Women are even more focused on the intangible aspects of the experience rather than the mechanics. It is all about having fun and giving her fun and pleasure. If you run across a whore who has had lots of big dicks and won’t be satisfied with less, fuck her and get that whore out of your life.