Bigger Tool Less Work?

Hey thanks for the different points of view. I definitely don’t think that having a bigger dick is the end all to better sex. Like I talked about in my thread:

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I think it may have made a difference. Just wondering when you guys had your partner notice or the sex was different.

My wife asked for a little lube the other night.

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In my experience, even a half-inch length gain can make a huge difference with some women.

I definitely think a bigger dick makes a difference.

Length gains make a big difference when you begin to reach the cul-de-sac, girth gains make a difference right away (in my opinion) because as it stretches the opening to the vagina, and indirectly increases clitoral stimulation.

There are many stories here where guys have been banging their wives for years, so they know how they respond. When they start to get bigger, their wives start getting more excited, cumming harder, easier and more frequently. Not to mention that I think psychologically, a larger, hard dick excites a woman visually.

Just for fun, for foreplay, try stretching the opening of the vagina, just by pulling down on the labia minora (inner lips)pull down, just gentle tugs, tug outward, tug in different directions. Get the right angle and she will really like it.

To me, the mechanics of a girthier dick does the same thing. By tugging on the labia minora, it pulls the skin over the clit and stimulates the clitoris.

You can just try putting you cock in all the way (especially if your base is the widest part) and just kind of rock in and out, without actually moving you dick, not sliding. It pulses a stretch to the skin over the clit and can even make her cum…especially if the head of your cock is in the cul de sac at the same time.

This technique is refered to as CAT and there are threads here on it.

cul-de sac is a false myth.

Women don’t have sensitive terminations beyond the 2 first inches of his vaginas.

A very deep penetration can cause pain but not pleasure.

It’s our vanity to think “I’m sooo damn good because I screw her till the bottom!”.

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There are many stories here where guys have been banging their wives for years, so they know how they respond. When they start to get bigger, their wives start getting more excited, cumming harder, easier and more frequently. Not to mention that I think psychologically, a larger, hard dick excites a woman visually.

^This is definitely true in my case.

rfj - Not so sure I agree with you. After my wife has her first orgasm - she wants it pounded as deep as it will go.

Yes it can cause pain, but from my experience, it can definitely cause greatly increased pleasure. From my experience, there is something to it.

If you are hitting the cervix, it can cause pain, the trick is to slip in in front or behind it.

You’re thinking of the cervix, not the CDS. My ex gf loves it really deep and that’s the only way she can really get off it seems, as in having a big O. I haven’t been able to reach back there anymore though, seems she has tented quite a bit since we first started having sex. :(

One could argue regardless of your starting size it is the growth that does it.

What I mean is if you start 5” long and PE, as you do so you will continue to stretch the vagina because it won’t be able to adapt to the size.

If you are a constant 10”, the vagina will adapt to the size, sooner or later if you are banging your girl most days, lol.

I assume over a prolonged rest period the vagina returns to some normal state?

So actually starting smaller and gaining is far better than starting bigger?

Once a women gives birth, nothing can stand in the way of easy penetration by just about anything. This whole conversation needs terms like Bb ( before birth) and Ab (after birth). Actually, after birth could be the topic of another thread.

Have you ever seen AB? I tell you it doesn’t look good. Yet some people eat it.

“Eat”?

That sounded very strange.

I can say I went through something similar. I started PE around 2004 I went for 6 months straight with just the newbie routine. Got locked up and had to stop!! BUMMER!! My wife noticed the changed and man did that feel great, I mean I was on top of the world. After I got out I took some years off, Started back 2007 and got right back to my gained measurements. I found it hard to stick with the routine so I decided to change up and use a more passive route. Started hanging golf weights and pumping with a home made pump. Works great gains are steady, but my wife says it seems like I don’t want sex as much as I used to, my wife knows I PE but she does not agree with it she says I am fine the way I am. She doesn’t understand my reasons, I mean I had a descent size before even starting 6.25 NBPEL ended up now with 7.25 BPEL I want 8x6 personal reasons you know. Women do adjust to the size of their partner over time, my wife told me. One of her past lovers had a huge dick and she told me about it, and that’s what started my pursuit of a bigger one, Our sex life was always great but I don’t like the fact that my ambition to reach my goals puts a damper on that, Guys what can I do I really want to reach my goal and it is self evident that I can reach it But I don’t want my wife to feel left out in my pursuit to perfection.. What to do I need help

Interestingly enough, my GFs pussy has changed my penis, too. Since we’ve been together, I’ve developed more upward curve.

Really!