Body Dysmorphia With Penis Size?

I am not really happy with my length yet and when I look at my dick it looks like a micro penis to me and I feel like this might be a pretty bad case of body dysmorphia to be honest. At 7” BP my penis is nothing close to a micro penis but I literally see what I would describe as a stub when I look at my dick. I started out in the 4” BPEL area and now am at about 7” BPEL but my dick LOOKS smaller to me. I am not exaggerating, when I look down at my penis when I have an erection it looks as if it should be on a little kid but when I measure other numbers appear.

Has anyone dealt with this? I should be happy with my body but I literally see something differently then the way it actually is.

Same here, I started as a 5-5.3” BPEL and below for NBPEL and I felt like I had the smallest cock in history. I certainly acted like it, because I wasn’t very successful in my other endeavours at that time and with nothing to fall back on, one just crumbles. My girlfriend at that time said I was her thickest and it did look kind of chubby, but I wasn’t her longest and to me especially back then it meant a lot. Nowadays I’m just below 7” BPEL and around 6” NBPEL and I feel even smaller. Can’t explain this phenomenon to be honest. I have this analogy with being bullied and working out because of it. It is like a perpetual struggle to get as fit as you can, so you can have a better chance of standing your ground and basically not be devoured by others and yet only going so far.

One tip: don’t look at him from above, but in a mirror from the side. Makes a huge diffrence.

And, yes, many of us think our dicks are small and miserabel, including me. Just can’t believe it is really big.

Along with many benefits PE is also addictive, makes you gready, you can’t get enough. We need to sort that out.. But comments of other members about my pics are kind of helpful.

Bangle, I revisited your pics, and I believe you when you state your measurements, but it appears to “play” larger! As you note, we look down and have a foreshortened view…but if pointed at you (like looking down a gun barrel) it can look huge! And I suspect that’s also how women tend to over exaggerate size

I’ll ditto @NYT. It’s the foreshortened view.
Trim a paper towel roll to your approximate NBPEL. Hold it in one hand and move it up to your face. Think about putting the tube into your mouth.
Pretty big isn’t it?

I second looking from the side in the mirror to give a more realistic view.

I’ll add that I think women get a skewed perspective as they are often looking at the bottom side of the dick, balls and all, which adds a couple inches to the perception.

Body dysmorpha is no joke. I believe finding the deep seeded source. (Mine was my grandmother) As I matured I realized that was her thought/opinion and I’m in controll of the feelings I chose toward it. One thing that helps is being in a supportive community. Also just working on but trying not to obsess over that sticking point.

Mine was being tall and gangly. My grandmother passed before my 5 year transformation and if she could only see me now. You can learn to accept yourself. But you have to be willing to put your best foot forward and stay positive.

Yes you have a mental issue, seeking professional help in your case is probably best since it’s a very bad case.

I often feel similar when I look at it but the measurements don’t lie. After quitting porn and working to get myself in shape my dysmorphia is now quite minimal. This isn’t the right website but I’m going to say it anyway, you should spend less time focusing on your dick. The more you do to enjoy life the less you will care about things like this.

Definitely agree with Mad Villain. The times in my life that body dysmorphia (unrelated to penis size) and depression hit me the hardest there was only one cure.

Getting back out into the world. Engaging externally. Finding a sense of purpose, a hobby, a project. A change, perhaps a new career or a new location. A target of focus to direct my restless mind toward that would yield beneficial outcomes.

It’s funny what happens. Working toward goals and making a difference in the world outside of you is therapeutic. You take the focus off of yourself and over time, you think about your issues less and less.

And there comes a point when you are in a better, more healthy place. And you look back and you think, “Incredible, I can’t believe I used to think that way.”

You realize that when you are in depressed, negative mental states, you think you are being a “realist” and you think you know the universal, fatalistic truth. And then you exit this state of mind and you see it for what is was: heavily biased insanity that you were trapped in. And there comes a time when those horribly negative, fatalistic, “doomed” thoughts and feelings become a memory to you that you smirk and cringe internally about.

Life is short. Spend the least amount of time possible in the shackles of negative mental constructs and the most amount of time possible getting out there and experiencing and creating. That’s the only way to rebel against existence and our culture.

I feel the same way, but mainly about girth. Fairly happy with BPEL, but still looking for more.

I think the pics I posted earlier this week, are a good example of top view vs. side view. I think side view looks way thicker.

I agree with MV.

Looking,

I just want you and everyone to know how deceiving pictures can be. And remember almost everyone (myself included) post the best of ourselves.

My cock looks the biggest to me when I look down on it from above. I’m wider than I am tall as my cock is elliptical shaped. When I look at my cock in a mirror on the side it looks skinnier, and because I curve slightly to the left, my cock looks longer and even thicker depending on which side I’m facing when I look at myself in profile in a mirror.

I know I’m big when I place my erect penis on my wife’s pussy and my full erect glans is as big as her whole vulva, like it kind of covers all of her pussy. She has a tiny pussy (but its deep!) so here again is a bit of an illusion. She’s small and tiny, has tiny hands, makes my cock look huge when she’s all over it.

Again, POV on your own cock can change just depending on what is near it or who is engaging it. Porn is a nightmare on men who have even the slightest body dysmorphia because the guys are fit and they cast tiny girls to be with above average cocks so to men who are worried it looks like they have a baby cock and are out of shape and fat.

I know a guy who I converse with only through email and he approached PE and cock size with almost pure hate towards it all, like he did PE so hard and so aggressively it was like he was doing it like his life depended on it. He does it to “defy expectations” so when he drops his pants for a woman, he won’t get laughed at or feel like she’ll think its small or just average. I told him “what are these expectations you expect to defy? If you go into it expecting her to have expectations, or if you do, then you both are in bed for the wrong reasons.” He also works out every single day and its unfathomable to think of missing a day at the gym. He is very worried about his looks and cock size and its prevented him from ever finding a sex partner; he admitted that porn at an early age ruined his view of himself, women, sex, and everything related. When I asked him how big his cock is now after like 6 or more years of aggressive PE he said it’s 5.5” girth and 6.5” BPEL. I said “WOW 5.5” girth is pretty fucking big man, the largest cock my friends and I have ever seen or heard of on someone we know personally is also a 5.5” cock and he destroys every pussy he’s ever been with, some chicks don’t date him anymore because he’s too big for them and he can’t even get BJs” but to my buddy online, he thinks he’s too small to even try to have sex. He thinks I have huge cock, but he’s actually more girthy than me, and is as girthy as the biggest cock I’ve ever heard of personally. But, its not enough to convince him otherwise, he cannot see it any other way.

I’m not 5.5” girth and thank god because my wife would never ever be able to suck me or have vaginal sex with me, it would be too big. I am saying this because I think its not really the size that us men see when we look down, but the size that matters when it comes to being in a woman’s mouth or pussy (or a man’s mouth or ass, etc. however sex is for whoever!).

Trust measurements, trust your POV from many different angles, and don’t let a particular view or appearance trick you into thinking you are small. 7” is not small!!! An average chick will tell her girlfriends “I don’t know, he’s like 9 inches or something.”

I don’t know if you wear glasses, but I do and I noticed I see my penis smaller when I’m wearing them and bigger when not.