Do you think it's harder to maintain an erection sometimes with a penis that has grow

I was married for 36.5 years when my wife passed. She had been ill for several months. Before that time I had no difficulty is achieving a rock hard election with her. Love making was great. Those 36+ years did not cool my ardor very much.

I could not have said that same thing in my subsequent marriage. Things cooled very much after the third year. I believe it was because of her attitude. She began to make negative comments in the bedroom. She also eluded to her previous situations in her previous two marriages. Xs are xs for a reason. This case not withstanding.

‘Xs’?

Bad marriages happen.

Of course, but losing erections with my wife in the evening was becoming a problem, but not since we’ve been talking more

Sorry about that Marinera. I momentarily forgot protocol. An X is one from whom you are divorced.

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You could always try different avenues; certain fetishes or kinks may have been overdone, just doesn’t meant they’re not fun if done well.

Toys, clothing, cuffs, food. Plenty of things that make plenty of people tick. And if it’s new or different it may tick particularly well.

When you wake up you are not under the stress that you have been under during the day. I think you’ve been under a lot from what you say in your other thread.

My experience with the girl that I dated has been that the very second that I sensed that she was getting impatient or any other negative vibe I would sense would cause me to lose my confidence and my erections would begin to fade. Her mood would make all the difference.

That’s an understatement. The stress had been colossal.

As a result of that stress and my taking my wife’s angry words literally I took a girlfriend, who is now crazy in love with me.

A sexual partner who becomes impatient will eventually ruin even the most robust of sex.

My wife stopped having sex with me in the evenings because sometimes I was too tired to become aroused within minutes and began to take it personally, to the point where sex stopped.

My wife is an extremely arrogant and sexually confident woman who has had men falling at her feet since she was young, and so my less than that immediate response to her pissed her off.

She became so resentful at my apparent lack of arousal that she withdrew from our relationship and moved into the spare room.

The nuance of what happened is too great for a post but needless to say, we couldn’t get past the pain and I started seeing someone else, which reduced my wife to abject Panic.

We are better now and able to more openly communicate about what we need and how to get it.

It’s amazing how so many women think that men get an erection instantaneously and otherwise, think that we do not find them attractive. Moving into the spare room is a bit extreme though!
I don’t think that it was a very good idea to get involved with another woman though because that is something that very likely to be held against you in the future. It’s one thing taking too long to get it up but if that is enough to piss her off, I can’t imagine how pissed off she was when she found out about you with another woman! I would not be surprised if that comes back to haunt you. I’m very sorry to tell you that but just a heads up. So when you least expect it…

As a relative newbie to PE, I noticed stiffer erections the first month of jelqing. I jumped into hanging a bit quickly, had some decent erections, but lost the magic after missing a week of PE over the holidays. I tried re-syncing with hanging and stretching, and EQ suffered for a few Weeks.

Now I am back to jelqing and mild stretching. I don’t have the rock-hardness as my initial stint but it feels hard to the touch after I get going. I think it might be a matter of working in more rest days but at any rate my member feels more powerful than ever.

Jelqs are agreat exervise once you have some experience when it works best for you(Erection lvl, intensity etc.)

This. I’ve been there too. When erections aren’t as hard as they should be, leave your penis alone. Assuming you have been PEing, you are probably overtrained. That, and/or whatever else may be going on (stressed, short on sleep, etc). The cure is as WhiskeyFish said.

I have a life based on doing things to solve problems, so to rest is an alien concept.

I haven’t done any PE in a week and I worry about losing size now which bothers me immensely, but my wife and I are sharing our bed again and We are getting past the last few months slowly but surely.

Update; the sex is magnificent and my wife is living, numerous and attentive.

Fuck me. I’ve died and gone to heaven.