Does big girth bad BJs

This has maybe been brought up before, but I was wondering if the guys with big girth could shed light on this. I started up pe again a few weeks ago and was only at 4.5” in girth. I’m focusing on girth mostly and have just about hit 4.75. I want at least 5.5 in girth eventually and maybe even 6, but I was thinking I would never get good head again at 6”. My GF has a small mouth and I don’t think she would even be able to fit me in her mouth. 5.5” of girth would be hard enough for her. I also realize that a lot of the girls in porn have a hard time giving the really thick guys good head. Do the bigger guys see this as a problem? I don’t want to sound selfish here, but I do like a good BJ.

Who cares about BJs! :) I want the girth - 6+ preferably.

P.S. I haven’t met a woman yet who could do it right anyways. :(

Of course it would be a problem if it doesn’t fit in her mouth. I wasn’t very successful with my search for previous discussions, but they are certainly there.

Fortunately mine’s shaped like a tree trunk, so I could still get a good BJ in theory. I’m over 6.25” at the base, but under 5.5” at the glans. All I need to do is figure out a way to get my wife more enthusiastic about the idea. She does it really well on occassion, but only for a minute or two.

As the saying goes, cross that bridge when you come to it.

I really wouldn’t worry about it !!

I have 6.25” at the middle and god knows at the base, the base is irrelevant as no one has EVER got their mouth that far lol

Yes a bigger cock is a BIG problem for a girl and a bj, especially the little ones, my current lil spinner has a pretty hard time after even after couple minutes and gets jaw ache

I have an even worse problem, we have tried sex 3 times now and it’s hopeless, I get about 3/4 in max and she runs for the bathroom, she’s around 5ft 1”

It’s all so horribly frustrating but I wouldn’t change it for the world, I’m currently 8 3/8” in length and it’s the best thing in the world when it’s gets hard and they freak out, that never gets old

So keep working the pecker and let the girls worry about the size

As for me wish me luck, I have a nice Britishly movie and lube lined up, tonight, oh yes and alcohol

It’s a toss up between watching a chick struggle on a big cock, or have them easily deep throat a small one :spin2:

Most chicks with regular sized mouths will find a way if their into it, if their not into it they will use it as an excuse

Worry about that when your 5.5.

My bf has 7 girth and I manage after some getting used to so why should not any other?

Rockrod

>>>She does it really well on occassion, but only for a minute or two.

LOL. Just like my wifey!

>>>Most chicks with regular sized mouths will find a way if their into it, if their not into it they will use it as an excuse

Boo Hoo. Just like my wifey!

At 5.5 girth… and even before that at 5.25 girls I dated had problems. Girls said I had a fat cock. But at 5.75 bpel no one ever said it was long.

7x5.5 is a good fuck size… but beginning to be a bad bj size. Wifey likes to fuck it more tho… and bj’s were never her thing really. So once again, bigger is better.

Same story here. Couple minutes worth in the shower the other night, first time in weeks. She looks up at me and says, “you might want to reconsider getting more girth. I can barely fit it in there now.”

To which I’m thinking (but not saying), “but your BJ’s suck, so no great loss there.” Anytime I get fully plumped up, I feel teeth. Even that doesn’t bother so much, its just the baggage of actually getting one out of her that I can’t take anymore.

I’ve finally decided I’m in the camp of a bad BJ actually being worse than no BJ at all. I didn’t really used to believe that, but its true. Girls, if you can’t do it with feeling, don’t bother. Technique can be learned, enthusiasm apparently cannot.

Now, not to sound completely sour, I’ll say mine is having the same type of reaction as yours otherwise to the slightly larger tool. Which is good. You and I are just dead on the same with measurements now, though you’ve gained quite a bit more overall than have I.

Enthusiasm is the only thing that matters. An enthusiastic woman would give you a great BJ even if you were 7” girth and she couldn’t fit any in her mouth.

blah, blah, blah, sore subject matter. Maybe we need our own support forum?

My wife doesn’t deep-throat, never has, so nothing new there. What she does is put the head in her mouth then “jacks” the shaft. Her problem is that her arms then get tired so BJ’s at the OK corral don’t happen often. She likes to use Bj’s to get me hard then go at it from there, that turns her on (which turns me on…)

I’m 5 1/4” (at last measure, months ago) EG with a large head.

I would have to agree with the enthusiasm angle. From experience, GF A was pretty good at BJ technique. She would never do it of her own accord, only when I requested. When she did it, it was like a task, like she was doing dishes or something. Didn’t make me feel great. GF B had at best, equall abilities technique-wise. However, the first thing that happened when the clothes came off, was gobble the knob. I was frequently awoke from a deep sleep with her going at it. She told me anytime she thought about my dick, she wanted to suck on it. She also said it was a difficult debate in her mind, because she wanted me to screw her as much as she wanted my load in her mouth, and she was too impatient to wait for both. Needless to say, which one would I prefer? LOL

I’ve always preferred hand-jobs anyway.

It has been discussed for years. The disadvantages: oral and anal. Oral = teeth. Anal = it won’t fit or little/no enjoyment. Not many women want a baseball bat in their mouth or up their ass.

It’s like worrying about building a hotrod that goes too fast. “But I might get a speeding ticket!”

HJ