ED, PE And Venous Leakage

Yes! Maybe mine problem is neurological or perineal trauma but I am not sure. Well Is it curable without surgery?

I feel it a little sweaty sticky under the penis shaft and base when I grab it while flaccid. I dont know what is this sign about??

A week ago I had sex after 5 , 6months and the 1st time I cum orally but the 2nd time I cum during intercourse. I could clearly see that my erecting were of bad quality. I had to press the base a little when stroking inward. It’s so bad. I’m in relationship with an women who is double older of my age. Any idea? What it is and how to cure it?

Well, to know if there is something that needs a cure, you should speak with an urologist. Your erection issues could be not related with anything physical, maybe it is just performance anxiety.

Maybe! And that would be great if it’s not pysical and can be cured. But all the signs I have read seems like I have them. Anyway I will not mess any opportunity to see a urologist. And yes I have been stressed and maybe have depression very badly! I’m only 22.

I see one reason is that I have been in a relationship with a women 4 years old while I’m only 22. Maybe having sex for a few months with her ruins my sex life as her body temperature is older and mine is young??

No other reason I can see

That alone could cause your symptoms. You have to relief stressors in your life. I suffered of depression from time to time, more than anything else I have found walking and taking sun would help. Avoid intense physical training when you feel depressed, like weight lifting; in my experience, it makes depression worse.

Well! I’m a good sportsman and exercise releases my stress as I feel. I felt so bad headache because of tention and stress and so I decided to go out and change my mood. I did alot of fullups, slow muscle ups and hand stand pushups + swimming. With friends on the beach. It helped me. But I don’t do weight leftwing or body building gym. I do my own workouts.

The problem still seems pysical to me. I’m too worried like if my life is ruined.

Body training is good, expecially outdoor. Speak with a doctor to calm you down. As for mood, how about starting a thread just writing down your thoughts and feeling? That could help a bit maybe.

I get erection but they are like 80% or maybe 90% and my glans are not full as befor. And can’t keep maintained my erection without like keeling and touch. Seems the blood go back to the body from penis after every kegel.

Can such signs or symptoms happen in psychological or performance exeity?? Are not they seem pysical? Your honest and true advice and opinion??

I would like to start a thread soon but not now. I feel not energy for that. Not for my mood but to get to know and understand my problem. Would like to know the reality and accept it and work on it to be healed then just fake satisfaction and motivation. Thanks for your reply. I appreciate that.

‘…Anxiety induced by different stressors can, in fact, distract from erotic thoughts and impair male sexual excitation through an increased sympathetic tone, which, in turn, induces cavernous smooth-muscle contraction, counteracting nitric oxide-induced vasodilatation and penile erection (Maggi et al, 2000; Filippi et al, 2003).

Quite often, once failure has occurred, the problem is self-perpetuating, because the fear of failure and thoughts of inadequacy lead to an excessive focus on oneself, which further increases sympathetic activation. This vicious cycle of failure and escalating anxiety was originally described as performance anxiety (Master and Johnson, 1970; Sommer et al, 2001)…’
http://onlineli brary.wiley.com … drol.05070/full

Does this answers your question? :)

Well! Not exactly! The link is too lengthy and I can’t read it now but maybe later.

Thanks anyway

Hi started my own thread, I wrote my problem in detail. You comment and opinion will be greatly appreciated. Thanks

Thread name is ” ED - Venous leakage, performance anxiety or psychological problem??”

Wow awesome thread. Lots of great information and links in the first post, cheers Marinera :) I especially like the “if you think you have veinous leak you are 99% wrong” haha, so true!

Thanks kickinthemebs.

Lovely, you keep asking the same question again and again. It is clear that only a doctor after direct examination can give you an answer that you can belive reliable.

Yes of course you are correct but I was asked how my injury seems to you. What kind of injury you will call it. That’s all but it’s okay if you won’t answer clearly in few words. Thanks