Finally virgin no more, but...

Wow, congrats DB.

Sounds like you have a great girl that really appreciates you.

Congrats daboogies!!

Ahhh if I could be virgin again .. The first time is so special.

My advice would be to keep humor during intercourse
Practice is what makes it better. And man! Trust me you last long enough
My fist times I only lasted like 2 min. Hehehe ..

Another things talk about it with your girlfriend.Learn to know what she love,
Cause the main point is to get her great pleasure while your having some. And I great turn on
Is the feeling of pleasing her. But like you she needs practice to.

So humor and open mind will bring you to paradise.

I would hate to be a virgin again. My first time wasn’t bad; I blew very fast but carried on with the same erection. The first time I think everyone feels like a boy trying to be a man. With practice comes confidence and with confidence the sex is much better.

Might as well tell my first time..

So me and the girl went up to her room and we started fooling around and it progressed fast (I was about 17). So then the sex started and I didn’t have any fears or worries really, no stage fright and things were going well. BAM! Her brother walks in (who’s 19) and rips me off of her. There was actually very little commotion after that, I just quickly put on my clothes and got the hell out of there.

Now that’s memorable! Who can top that? :D

Wow, that is a great one.

Mine, was a little different. I was with my first real long term girlfriend and we fooled around the first month or so and then I played a little game that I found out most guys do called “Just the tip”. ahahha. Wedding crasher fans will know what I’m talking about. So we are on my bed and we are fooling around and I tell her I just want to put the tip in to see how it feels. So I did that over and over………..and over. And then continued fooling around till i put the whole thing in and out. I stuck it in maybe 15 different times, but no real thrusting action. Basically just fooled her into it, we were having sex, but basically we werent. So you could imagine your first time, with a smoking hot girl, and without a condom. Needless to say I stuck it in again and then pulled out and uh ohhhhh. I was holding my breath trying not to let it go and bam……..all over her stomach. It was something to laugh at I guess. Good thing about the story is, next time we were alone we actually had sex with a condom and all and none of the “just the tip” game.

Progress daboogies! YES PROGRESS! :buttrock:
Congrats on your first time! and savor these moments with her as much as you can because they will stay with you for life. You are in the midst of making history as far as your life is concerned. Approach the next time as if you had traveled back in a time machine from the year 2027 to be with her again. No one really forgets their first.

I ‘ll second that.

Those are some really special moments.

Thanks everyone for sharing your first time experiences and for giving me the encouragements.
I was pretty reassured after hearing all of your stories.

Yesterday, I was with her when posting my last message in this thread :)
She asked me to stop going on the Internet and ask people if I was doing great :) She told me she really likes it and she has no regret at all even being virgin until the day of her marriage is more than important. She even asked me where I did learn all of that stuff (you know, sucking on her nipples, licking and fingering her pussy :D ). I told her from Thundersplace indeed, LOLZ…

I can’t thank you guys enough for being such good “virtual” brothers to me :)

Best regards,

I can say that it’s most likely all in your head.

At one point I would get so nervous before sex… I would get so worried that I would premature ejaculate… and I would, lol… I would blow it in like a few seconds. The thing is that the problem wasn’t physical… me worrying about prematurely ejaculating is what caused me to premature ejaculate, lol. I know this because once I got comfortable having sex I could last much much longer. I would no longer worry about premature ejaculating and it just didn’t happen… it was all just caused by extreme anxiety.

My point is that if you stop thinking about it and worrying about it you will probably be fine. Just try to put it out of your head completely and you’ll probably get really really hard. If you just keep thinking about it you will cause the problem to happen.

Felicitations DB! It only gets better :)

Congratulations.

Congrats Daboogies - you did great for your first time. It’s all up-hill from here.

That’s great daboogies, keep on loving her and learning together. The more open and honest you can be with her the more open and honest she will be with you and the better sex the both of you will have. Always please her to the best of your abilities that’s all she’ll ever want. Ask her about her fantasies, tell her about yours. Go for it man and again you are lucky to have been with someone you love.

I will humour you with my story. Fifteen years old, drag the mattress into the unfinished basement, drunk off gin, friends acting passed out on both sides, shag 18 year old slut while she jerks off my both my friends, no condom, came inside her. Then my one friend gets up and takes off down the street with no clothes on at 2 in the morning. She takes me to her place the next day to pick up her birth control. End of story, she moved somewhere and I swear to god I once saw her in a porno.

Peace and good one.

Thanks everyone for your comment!

Thaistyle, your story is pretty interesting! Are you thai? Pen Thai Chai Mai? :)