Finally virgin no more, but...

Hi TS members!

I have been PEing for almost two years and I have tried different routines, including the famous newbie ones and those like clamping and pumping. I quited clamping three months ago and that was exactly when I started to condom pumping. To me, condom pumping is such a super powerful girth exercise since I see a lot of remarkable gains. But! I kind of notice that my LOT and erection angle is getting lower and the worse thing is like I have to Kegel to push more blood into my penis if I want to have a hard rock penis.

I guess the first paragraph has something to do with the story I am telling and the topic of this thread.

I just had my first sexual relationship ever today (finally at 24 years old :D ) And ofcourse with the girl I always love. She was still virgin just like me few hours ago :D There is a long story about that and I’m thinking of posting it in the Life, Love, and fantasies forum.

Unfortunately, the experience I had was not so good :( I think I might have been too nervous. I was shaking and I felt such hot temperature all over my body. I hardly had my penis rock hard. We made love for almost one hour, but the sexual intercourse lasted about 15 minutes only.

The first try was real hard, since I got such big glans and her pussy is so real tight. I had to stop after 4 minutes due to the weak erection I had :( I asked her to give me a blow job (it was so hard to make her do it, but she did it anyway). I started again, but once again it only lasted for another 5 minutes or something. I asked her to suck me again and she did it again. After the third try for another 5 minutes I ejaculated even my penis was not so hard. I was totally unhappy with that and you can imagine that.

If you have had that kinda experience, you can drop me a few lines. Your thoughts/helps will be appreciated. I really don’t want to be in the same situation for our second sex.

Regards,

My friend, the first time I had sex I was unable to get an erection for a full hour, so nervous was I. Lucky me I was doing it with an awesome girl, a beautiful girl and human being whom I loved and loved me back and we just had fun and played around until it went up. Then I had actual intercourse for less than 5 minutes. I didn’t orgasm, I just decided that was enough for the day.

Your first time is not like in porno, neither was mine, but I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Dude, I don’t think anyone has good sex the first time. Haha Just keep at it and it will get better. Really there is no need to be nervous. You are both virgins and she probably was just as nervous and self conscious as you.

Congrats!

Great I’m happy for you! Damn I’m still a virgin, hope not for long! I’m gonna tell you when I lose it :D

With practice, your love making will get better. You did fine for a first timer D’. :up:

There is one thing you always have to keep in mind with these things, relax.

My first time lasted no longer then yours, my second time wasn’t award winning either, but you will have great sex once the anxiety stops and you start enjoying it to the fullest.

Just think about the first time you kissed or touched a girl and what that was like, and how with time your skills sky rocketed.

I wish the best for you both and I hope you two have a lot of fun together in the next rounds. :)

Wow! Thanks a lot for your comments folks. One of the reason why I love Thunderplace is I can count on you :)

Hey, you lasted long, I mean it was your first time… My first time was superfast and I also had the same problem with getting a hard on. First time when we tried to have sex I could fit in and second time I couldn´t get hard on, so at third time it went fine. Even nowadays if I haven´t had sex for, lets say, a week, I come quick. But after that no problemo.

On friday I found myself with one hot girl and I just couldn´t get erection. Alcohol may have played a little role :) , I was bit dissapointed. But she said that it is okay and I had been gorgeous to her. Bad news is that she lives like 500km away from me…

Don’t be nervous Bro your girl loves you and guess what practice makes perfect:)

I don’t know if I clearly expressed the time we made love. I lasted only around 15 minutes which was splitted up in three segments.

I think most people usually shoot their load too fast or have a hard time getting it up their first time. You are completely normal, and for your information the average time for sexual intercourse is about 15 minutes.

What happened to me was the opposite: I could not orgasm for the first 3-4 times I had sex.

Damn, I still remember the first time I got a girl naked…

The memory of how her body smelled and tasted makes me delirious. It’s been years ago and I still cannot forget not even a single detail.

And, no sex was not good. I was super hard but lasted less than 2 minutes. Hey, it gets better, you get better, you enjoy it more and more until you get so addicted to it that it seems as if this is what makes the world go round.

Anyway, enjoy the trip :-) .

Congrats daboogies!

As for the weak erection and all that, the other guys are right it’s just nerves. My first time I had the erection, I was doing it BUT I couldn’t cum.

It gets better with time and practice. Just keep it fun and don’t worry!

That happens to me with almost every new girlfriend since a long relationship. Some girls get it wrong, but really I have no explanation for it, and they like the duration, so I don’t see why they complain.