Thanks for the replies everybody. Sorry about not using proper grammar, but I am way to used to the computer slang. Am I doing better now :-P ?
About my problem, I thought about the water thing and it may be true. I work out quite a bit and drink caffeine and alcohol at times which would leave me more dehydrated. I can still get erections and orgasm as normal but flaccid it seems skinnier then ever and it is hard. It just feels like the chambers are gone and there is a hard tube in there. I wish I could describe it better. There is also some mild discomfort in my penis too.
As for routine, before I noticed the problem I was doing around 100 very slow dry jelqs with holds thrown in between sets. I also would try and do a good warm up and warm down and I would use heli shakes to improve circulation. After everything I would do a kegel routine in the shower.
I noticed the flaccid problem recently and took a break at the advice of another forum. Since my break of a couple weeks I have started slow like you guys said and have just been doing 10-15 mins of slow wet jelqing with a good warm up and warm down thrown in.
Maybe it’ll go away but I am a little concerned. It looks like I came to the right place for help though. Thank you!