From small to the biggest in the world - My true love story

Thank you! ;)

That was a good story, and I think the replies show everyone is happy for you, but you’re probably one of a handful of people here on this site in your privileged position of having no penis competition issues in your life. Which is the reason most of us ARE here.

Not trying to rain on your parade. I think we’re all a bit envious, because most guys here are never going to be writing a post like that.

I am not here of penis competitions issues :) I used to get envy when I was younger but when I started to have sex I lost my envy because I could make girls come with what I had and see them enjoying themselves. The reason that I am here is because since my mid teens I have had sort of “phantom feeling” of a big penis. It is hard to explain but I have always envisioned myself having a 8” penis when I in fact had a 6” penis (I am closing in to 7” now). So the reason I do PE is because I want to merge my current self with my ideal self (what they in the Matrix calls “Residual self image”). Frankly I could quit PE now and be “content” but I really feel that I want that 8” penis :) So I keep struggling forward :)

I have no problem showing myself naked to people and could, if I was in the right mood, run naked through town without being bothered about it :) So my PEing is just for me. It is not for showing off for other people, thinking I will have better sex or something like that but only for me and my mind :)

Never had penis competition, envy or inadequacy issues. I came to this site purely for penis health.

Okay, but I still think that you guys are probably the exceptions to the rule. I don’t think the main constituency of a “penis enlargement” site are here for penis health. As for the body dysmorphia, I’m no psychologist, but I think most if not all dysmorphias stem from societal pressures, comparisons to perceived (Whether real or imagined by the subject) “norms” and other such neuroses. There are of course, the truly pathological cases, like the people who feel compelled to cut off one of their appendages because it seems “alien” or foreign to their body, but even those probably have some such component.

That is, of course, only my opinion. Take from it what you will. I’ve seen so many threads and comments about wanting to be bigger, and the one common theme is wanting to be the biggest, bigger than every other guy some chick has been with, wanting to impress, to get a reaction, etc. To me that just screams “competition” issues. And I hope that folks don’t take this as a criticism or indictiment of ANYONE. All the reasons people have expressed for being here seem reasonable to me. I’m truly not judging anyone, I’m just stating a point of view.

What a wonderful post. I congratulate you on finally being able to let your mind rest. I know many of us in this forum have similar insecurities, including myself. (Also not only about penis size)

Congratulations!