From small to the biggest in the world - My true love story

Congratulations G_want7. Communication really is the road to a healthy relationship. For me it is strange that people doesn’t talk more about how they feel and so on. The key to get rid of your demons is to face them and to talk about them with others. That is my experience anyway :)

Congratulations, someday I hope to find the love you have found as well. Maybe then ill be able to let go of my insecurities. Good luck with your future endeavors!

Amazing story man, I sometimes I think that way too, I really have a big penis but still think I am small, and only in PE on days I can my woman cum and things like that (It seemed much like my story). I have to stop saying I am small and thank god for giving me that penis. You are a really great guy. Do you have any advice for me stop to think I am small?? It’s very strange man, sometimes I think I am huge, others not.

You have made amazing gains.

G, that is a great story, and I think it is so special that you folks got to share your feelings on that level. My ex would never even come close to talking about anything as you guys did. She would always shut me down before too much was said and then blame me for her problems.

I believe what you two accomplished has taken your strong bond you have, and deepened it to a greater level. Best wishes to both of you!

Glad to hear it G!

Thank you pal, it’s good to know!!!

Thank you all for your wonderful messages, you are all very kind and supportive. I really appreciate it, from the bottom of my heart.

I really think I should put my hands up in the air and thank God for having such a privileged life. Really. Sometimes we really do not think enough about it, but most of us are probably living a dream life! Look at my example. I have a beautiful woman by my side, along with a great bunch of friends, a family that makes me go crazy sometimes, but it’s still my family… We are all healthy… Thank God!!!! Really, I am very thankful for what I have. And that includes every single one of you, reading my posts, texting me, making me feel special and appreciated. Thank you for that!

I am a lucky bastard. From what I read from your messages, I feel like a very privileged guy. Some of you may have passed through a lot of things in the past, and you are here, fighting for something that will make you feel better. That must be something. In life, we can’t stop. We can’t live on our own shadow, or even someone else’s.

I must admit that I had to think a lot before posting my story. I really didn’t want to be misunderstood, I just wanted so share with you all this new stage of my life, my perspective on how things have happened, and how, in my opinion, my life changed.

I do not want to sell you the idea that penis size doesn’t matter, or that it is not important. I really still think it is. It’s just that it is not as important as we all think it is. Just as you don’t pick your girls according to the size of their breasts, girls (decent girls, anyway) won’t pick you according to your penis size. That, no one can deny.

Psychological vs Physical

A healthy sexual relationship is, in my very humble opinion, 90% psychological and 10% physical. If you take some time to make your girl feel beautiful, desired, if you tell her how much you like her body, how much you love all that tiny things she is insecure about, all that things she hate about herself, maybe her boobs, maybe her bottom, maybe her face… if you grab her and hold her in front of a mirror and whisper in her ear that you love her just the way she is, and that she turns you on in a way that you couldn’t even think it was possible, everything is going to be alright and you will have the best sex in your entire life.

You must make her feel secure, confident. That’s what girls want! You know what? Most of the girls don’t give a F*CK about penis size, and they just use the argument of the “small penis” to defend themselves when they think they are not appreciated. It’s something like: “Before he tells me he doesn't like something in my body, and before he makes me feel sad, depressed, very insecure about myself, I will use my very special and unique weapon, and will tell him that his dick is small!”

Treat them right

Simple as it is. Do you want them to treat you right? Treat them right first. No one will ever give a damn if you have a 8” inside your pants. Will that make you a better lover? No. Will that make your life better? No. Will that make you earn more money at your job? No. Will that make you a better father for your kids? No. Will that save your parent who is dying from cancer? Hell no.

Will you be a better person? NO!

Having a bigger penis will only allow you to be more confident about yourself, so you can treat everyone around in a much better way. I can accept that. I don’t think that I would be the same if I was still 5.1”. I can remember that I really didn’t feel that much confident back then. But if you ask me if 5.1” was enough for my wife, in a physical way, then I will have to tell you that it definitely was. We’ve always had a very satisfactory sex life, and she never complained about anything. I’ve always been able to give her a lot of orgasms in a row, and, in my head, I had a very small penis. Now, the difference is that I’m totally comfortable about myself, about my own body, my penis, and I’m not worried about making it up to her just because I have a small penis. Now I focus my energies on trying to make her feel special and appreciated every single second of her life.

Having a bigger penis is not for them. It’s for us. I compare that to having a new hairstyle, to buy some new fancy clothes, to whiten your teeth. Every single thing you do in your life, is because you are expecting some sort of approval, is because you want to tell someone that you exist and that you are good.

Enlarge your penis. That is a very healthy activity. Just don’t do that for the wrong reasons, and just don’t make your life depend on that. I’ve just learned that from Sparkyx’s advices, and it took me a lot to figure out what he was trying to tell me. Wise guy.

Let’s all enlarge our penis a bit more! I’d be happy with a 7”x5”, because that was my first goal! Anyway, I can’t seem to gain anymore, I think I’ve reached a plateau that is very difficult to pass, but I will do my best. And if I can not gain any single milimeter more, I’m quite happy with what I have, including my relationship with all of you.

Big Big Hug!!!

G

I’m happy for you G_want7! Both of communicating and leaving the the emotional baggage behind. Now you both can get started on the best part of your journey.

That’s the real truth man I always said for people who come here in thunders and think that the simple fact of he having a 8”x6” will make woman’s scream like a nasty bitch. I do think penis size it’s important too (very important) but it’s not that important as we think, and only woman know how many important it is.

Another universal truth here man, it’s like when you are picking girls, most of my friends think the following way (and that’s the most normal way to think, I sometimes think that way too) “hell man, I will not make a contact with that girls, she is much beautiful for me, she will never want me” what guys forget it’s maybe (and I think in general woman’s are more insecure about man’s, because of society competition, but this is just my opinion) she is thinking the same man, my girls suffers from bulimia and sometimes we don’t watch some TV program because of girls showing her huge boobs, society sometimes it’s mean with woman too.

Awesome post I am glad you feel content and have a very healthy relationship.

I’m glad you found your happy place

G Want you been taking that Ecstasy again? :)

Only joking mate enjoyed reading your posts.

Thank you so much, my friends! I will always be here for you, as well!

That was beautiful to read.