Gains, Size & Perceptions - NOT a size survey

I’m with Thickone (also loved penismith and Wad’s posts)

I probably wouldn’t have bothered with PE if it weren’t for the way my penis looked to me; 6”bp x 5.25”eg looked too stumpy. I don’t know if I would have cared enough if I were 6”x4.85”. At least that would look normal, mine looked short.

I’d been thinking about the idea of ratios, but hadn’t crystallized the idea nor read about it til today. I’m something of an aesthete, and women usually are as well (even moreso); I think that the visual (of a big/little/medium cock) helps mentally set them up for how they’ll perceive the experience (riding it all night long).

I was actually kind of bummed (it wore off, of course) when I discovered I’d gained 1/4” girth. “Shit,” I thought “now I’ll have to pull on this thing even harder!”

Though I’m certainly no Thickone, I can empathize with his position. We’d all like to give the ladies an impressive overall presentation. In the absence of measuring equipment in the boudoir, first impressions will likely be based (visually) on the ratio principle, even before an assessment based on tactile exploration can be made (unless she’s stroking it under the table at the restaurant).

Wad’s original post was certainly food for thought, my thinker will likely snack on that for a while…

I wish I knew the answer to this question. I have heard things like, “I was really sore the next day” and “he couldn’t get the whole thing in” but I have also heard things like “he was almost as big as Tommy Lee.” I wish I knew the numbers.

These were casual hook-ups, not relationships. These are a lot of girls who are with a new guy a couple of times a month.

San Francisco Bay Area

Thanks for your reply, I enjoyed your post.

Women typically regarded my pre-PE 7x6 as “fucking HUGE” — mainly with reference to the girth. So I don’t think we’re necessarily talking about 10x7 mandingo-monsters here.

Yeah. As you said in your original post, this is a select group of women. All the big national sex surveys suggest that promiscuous women (and I don’t mean to use the term “promiscuous” with any negative connotation) are a minority. Most of the women I know would be very unlikely to fuck their friends’ past lovers (unless drunk, maybe) regardless of purported dick size.

That’s a good point. I forgot just how big 6 in. girth is. Most of guys in porn don’t have more than that.

Yep I think both Lex and Mandingo sport 7” of girth and it seems pretty huge to me. As my ex girlfriend told me during a Mandingo clip- “I sure wouldn’t want that thing in my ass.”

I told her not to worry…;)

Length is for visual stimulation, and girth is for pleasure… Men like to look at a great body, but when it comes down to it. It’s actually whole the area feels that your inserting yourself into. The visual helps us mentally push ourselves over the edge, while the actual feel is undeniable. So even if the fascination of visual isn’t there. You can still climax really good…