Getting back to PE

Hi guys :)

It’s been a long time since I’ve did some serious PE. The need to do some PE never comes in times where I feel good about my size, it’s when insecurities or envy start to dominate my mind. So there’s never a positiv motivation, I’m only driven by bad feelings I guess. Some girls say I am big, some say nothing… my psychological problems do occure lest often than in the past but lately I had a huge decrease in sex drive because my insecurities are back.

Do I need PE? Probably not because my insecurities are a global problem. I’m never satisfied with anything I do.

My routine will consist of a mix of ADS and clamping (with jelqs of course), the things that made me gain back in the past. Maybe some pumping in between.

I have to buy a new Penimaster though, mine is broken. The question is Penimaster or Penimaster Pro (with vaccuum piece… too expensive I think).

KinXXXize

What is your size now?

There’s your problem…. You don’t pe to prove a thing to anyone else. You do it for yourself because it makes you proud.

Pe’ing to impress women is like getting a six pack for the same reason. You may impress a few but your ego will be so hung up on that one aspect that you attribute every failure to that one problem and are never happy with what you’ve got. And it’s not what women say, if you fuck great they won’t say a thing…. they’ll be too out of breath to.

8” BPEL 5.2” EG

Yes, I guess I’ll never be happy or at least I won’t find happiness going that way. You know that nice little feeling you get from impressing people doesn’t last long.

At least I’m more unhappy about not finding a girl which I truely love and trust than about my dicksize. I’m realising what life is about after fucking up my longterm relationship and having a senseless fuck buddy relationship right now.

Maybe some of y’all are just like me, unsecure, selfish, and no sense for real love.

But I’m working on all those aspects and why not wearing a ADS while fixing other things :)

BTW TheGreatDivider I like your avatar because I love coffee ;)

Kin, you have a good size. Finding the right girl will just take time. Be patient and let things fall into place ;)

PE works. I have taken about a year break.

My MSEG is still steady at 5.5-5.625”

That’s a minimum of .375” girth gain, that has not been lost — “cemented” as they say.

KinXXXize,
You sound like a good friend of mine who told me how he was not attracted to his new partner after his divorce. According to him, “She’s just my ho”.

He married her 5 years later. I never asked him what changed. I think he realized that having someone who thought he hung the moon was pretty dam good.

Maybe you should stop thinking that everyone is paying attention.

sheLovesIt

Actually, I`m sure there are quite a few girls that think you are too large already.

The insecurities are in your head and got nothing to do with reality, so you need to handle them first, IMO. :)

I have also left pe for a while.I don’t have the water heater currently.Plus it takes porn to get an erection.Guys I need some motivation/help. Has anybody of you encountered this situation. What did you do?

Taler57, if it takes porn to get an erection, first quit watching porn and masturbating. Add som kegels. Then for the mental, as the day goes by take a moment or two and really use your imagination on sexy girls around you and on what turns you on. In short be in tune with the sexual energy. More grows more.

KinXXXize, as for the definition of love I think it compares to what is called ideal stereotypes. If you ever read some psychology, and especially about anxiety, you would find as many definitions of anxiety as there are subjects. Of course pshycology focus more on anxiety and other so called disorders, but I will argue that the same goes for love. It is something personal and something you learn by opening up and being intimate. It takes work and is a hard self realizing process. I would even go so far as to say that many many people are very satisfied with a good relationship, good sex and some mystery still mixed up in it, and feels this as love, but has really forgotten what love is. I would personally claim that this actually goes for most people, once the feeling of initially being in love subsides. Although I got no empirical studies of this to show to. It is all too difficult to find a definition of love, which makes studies of love comparable with each other. I don’t know the english word, but my language has seperate words for the phenomenon that occurs initially, and love which is thought to develop out of this and over time.

And remember, there are always two perspectives of considering ones mental state and abilities. We can do it in line with the biggest wave of today, as disorders. Or we can see it as potential for personal growth. And if this seemed to positive, keep in mind i believe strongly that people have to think a little bit negative to actually be critical enough. I think I spaced a little bit out here, anyways, something about that love dilemma really compelled :)