Girth Vs Length

I’m saying that much above 5.5” and you’ll see spotting and vaginal tearing. That most women are surprised when this happens and that some just won’t adjust. So, for maximum versatility I would stick with 5.5” especially since you’re married.

Good to know. I guess when I get that far along I can always just pump to 6” and see how it goes.

I had sex with my lady this morning. Started with some nice foreplay, she got very wet, and I was rock hard. Got on top of her, put it in, very slowly, and gradually started working my unit. She was grimacing, by the way, as I started to put it in.

I couldn’t have been in more than two, maybe two and a half inches, when she said, ” My God, you’re big!” I have to say it made me feel good, real good, in fact.

Within a minute or so, I was pumping pretty good and a minute or so after that she was bucking against me like a wild animal as she came.

A couple minutes after that she came again.

I never came close to going in balls deep.

Moral of the story is that girth for a lot of women is king.

I’m glad I do PE.

Those are the moments that make all of our hard work worth every minute of it. Beautiful. One of the best feelings in the world.

Oh, and I’d have to say that girth is king, for most woman.

There is a pleasure in this. Where they have to accommodate your size, that they are trying hard but it takes effort. It is a sadistic type of pleasure, empowering but visceral. Most men agree a woman opening for you is a great pleasure.

It’s called a “spontaneous utterance”. They are cheesy and carefully scripted in porn because they’re the ultimate validation in actual life.

There is power and satisfaction in knowing that size CAN do a lot of the work to pleasure her when used judiciously. Doesn’t always happen that way. But when it does, it makes you feel like a sex god.

I am glad you are able to live the dream. It’s why we all do this.

You’re right, it is a great feeling. And even though I’m really not using all of my length now, which is just over 8” BPEL, I’m still trying to increase it, especially NBPEL, which right now is just under 7”.

Trying to get to 7.5” NBPEL through a combination of PE and weight loss. I’ve lost 30 pounds in the last 6 months, trying to lose another 10 more or so to decrease the fat pad some more.

It’s been a great journey for me and I plan on doing it for life.

Thanks for the kind words TG.

I have to say I do take a bit of pleasure watching her struggle to open up for me. I don’t want to hurt her but before PE at my starting girth of 5.25” I don’t remember her grimacing upon insertion.

And I also remember it took her quite a bit longer to orgasm than it does now. The increased girth has definitely changed that.

And yes it’s great to see how excited she gets once she’s opened up and really getting into it. For me, the increased size has taken our sex life to another level.

And before I started PE at age 57 I was having difficulty on occasion getting and sometimes maintaining an erection. That is no longer a problem, I can pretty much get hard on command.

But back to the original point of this thread, it seems like girth really is king for a majority of women. Definitely for my lady.