Going to start CLAMPING. Here's why!

Oh Gator you silly bugger you have asked of the forbidden Black Questions!

Good on you for having saved clamping for so long, I’m sure you will have a great time with it. I’m sure I don’t need to tell you to get into it slowly and with a fully armed arsenal of knowledge about it!

It’s all good Gator. Just soak up as much knowledge on clamping as possible and also research pumping and bundled stretches as well. I too agree that you seem to have a honest chick which is rare now a days. She told you what you didn’t want to hear but the good thing is she isn’t a crasy size queen and she likes you for you. Not your dick. So basically what I’m saying is she’s a keeper. Definately keep this chick on your team and treat her good. Good luck with the girth training.

I would mix in some pumping with a mild clamping routine. This approach yielded my best girth gains. Oh, and make sure you listen to your unit and don’t get in a hurry.

Thanks for all the nice comments guys.

I truly have been bouncing this idea around in my head. I’m still not 100% sure I want to go ahead and clamp. It scares me.

But given my inability to make any type of lasting gains with manual PE, I feel like I do have no other choice ;)

For now, don’t focus on routines/sessions/sets - just take time to get a feel for the clamp around your cock - experiment with different wraps - practice applying and releasing the clamp on an erect penis. For me, keeping hard throughout each session was crucial so consider how you’re going to maintain this. (I edged to porn but I love my porn, others have addiction issues). Soon you’ll discover which combination of wrap and number of clicks gives the most comfortable and suitably intense fit. Once you find your sweet spot, you can build a routine around it.

Not to Hijack your thread, but I don’t have permission to post in the main members area. I’m also having trouble in the girth area. I gained a quarter inch from september - january, but since then I have stagnated. I did tunica stretches with got me to 7.5 bpel, but nothing in the girth dept. I was also trying to hit the tunica because my bpsl is the exact same as my bpel. I gave up on jelqing because it never seemed to give me great results and I was starting to get a turkey neck from it. What would be a good routine for my condition?

“I gave up on jelqing because it never seemed to give me great results and I was starting to get a turkey neck from it.”

You might had been jelqing to hard. It happened to me when I started off. When I reduced the force, I started to hang a lot better during the day.

Good luck with the clamping Gator. Something I recommend for beginner clampers is the Air Clamp. It’s pretty safe and easy to use. I even still use mine (I’ve even wore a few out).

As others have commented on, you asked the big question! You have balls to do that. Now that you know the answer you have to be careful to not let it haunt you. You would be surprised how much that knowledge can eat away at you and fuck with your head over time… At least she was honest and was nice about it. The other bad question is asking a woman how many other men she slept with. You have a very, very good girl there if you indeed got an honest answer to that question. Usually they will claim about half…

Most of my girth gains came from clamping. I’m over 5” eg now myself and I started at the same as you (4.375” eg). Oh and don’t forget the HEAT. Warmup every time and clamp under heat if possible. Very important… Read up on it. Good luck man.

My girlfriend made a comment after the 1st time having sex, that I’m good in bed but my dick could be a little thicker. So don’t worry about it. I’m in my 6th month, all I do is stretching , jelching, and squeezing , and I’m showing amazing results.and yes I told her that I’m doing pe. Last night she told me I had a perfect dick.

I too am thinking of starting to clamp. I joined thunder’s a couple months ago. Read up on some routines. Started with a newbie routine for about a month and a half, then switched over to Mem’s workout consisting of separate stretch and girth sessions each day for two months. Started with a 6.5x4.8er and saw great results, reaching 7.5x5.1. I then took a 3 month break. Since back I have been doing the Mem’s workout roughly a month and am having trouble expanding my dick during the girth workouts. My length however, has grown to 7.7 fully erect. I would like to go for more length, but girth is definitely my priority. I’m confident that my dick is conditioned enough, but am hesitant if it will completely stunt all future length gains. Also, my girth sessions are very time consuming, clamping seems like a much more convenient option. Imagining my dick expanding to 6 inch girth sends shivers down my spine. Anyone care to share some advice?

Get a wrist wrap, much better than the mouse pad.

I think the “ULI thing” is the most underrated kind of clamp.

Bib’s Uli thing

If I had a girlfriend who I really cared about, respected her feelings, wanted her to really feel like she could tell me anything, and soeone I wanted to love me back as much as I loved her, if she would have asked me a question about her boob size o how skinny her ass is compared withe 10 other women I had slept with, even though I knew she was a little fatter in the ass department and I had had one or too with bigger titties, I would have said “no babe yours are probably the biggest I’ve had” and to make it sound believable I would have added “and your ass is probably just as skinny as a couple of the really thin girls I’ve dated, I love your ass”

Why am I saying this? Because it’s the obvious thing to say, now some of you can claim that being honest is good and she’s a good girl for being honest and yes you pushed the issu, but so what? I don’t doubt this womans feeling for you, she probs loves the shit out of you, I don’t know enough details of the relationship. But all I’m saying is the “one of the thinnest dicks” part was a little harsh.

I agree with ruz’s comment, about not asking the question. It almost always does cause issues!.

Typically, I’d speak with my partner (if together for that long) openly about sex, and the activities within. Perhaps, if you feel that the physical relationship has reached that point, you could suggest cock rings. I’ve never used one but I’ve heard about them.

But take my advice,

If she keeps coming back for more, then you’re perfectly fine with or without one, regardless of the fact that you’re 4.3 around.

Really, who cares? My opinion is that guys who plays the “Mine is bigger than yours! Size matters!” game has no brains, or is really overcompensating for something that they lack, I.e. Personality, self-esteem, etcetera and girls who drops the “sorry but you’re too small for me” bomb, are just either, a) too used to being stretched out or b) just nasty and very.. Slutty? If that’s the word I’m looking for.

Do PE’s for yourself, not for the abovementioned reasons :D

I can’t see how one could lie someone they love.
I can’t see these two going together.