Going to start CLAMPING. Here's why!

If any of you have read my progress log, then you know that I have been seeing a girl lately. A purely physical relationship, which is what both of us want.

We’ve been having some great sex as of late. I consider her a friend but with some amazing benefits. So, I do feel like I can talk to her about ANYTHING.

So, last night, after 3 hours of pretty continuous sex, I started a less than ideal conversation…

“How many guys have you slept with?”

At first, she mumbled about almost as if she was embarrassed to tell me. Then she finally blurted it out “Probably around 10 or so” She asked me the same question only substituting the word “girls.” I told her that she was my 4th sexual partner. She thought that was cute, although I don’t know why.

Here comes the dumb part. Why I asked this, I’ll never know, but the fact remains that I did.

“So, how do I stack-up against these other guys?”

Obviously she knew what I meant but she played it coy by saying: “I enjoy your company the most because you make me feel good.” I should have left it at that, but I didn’t. I told her “that’s not what I’m talking about.” WHY DID I PRESS THE ISSUE? Damn me. I could tell she did not want to tangle with this topic…

Then she said it…to the best I can remember…

“What do you want me to say? How does your dick compare to the others? If you really want to know, then fine. You're length is fine, bigger than some smaller than others but not by much. But you are probably the thinnest I've ever had.”

I acted like it didn’t bother me, and it really didn’t that much because I pretty much expected that answer. I know my girth is small @ 4.375” mid-shaft

After she said that, she kept grabbing my arm and kissing me saying “but that doesn’t matter T. I choose to be with you, not them!” So, that made me feel good.

But this also made me realize that I am DONE struggling with length here. I need girth! So, after some rest, I’m going to start clamping. I bought some cable clamps this morning, going to cut a mousepad up for a wrap, and do as much reading up on the topic as I can!

Damn bro. Well I guess you can’t fault the chick for being onist with you but atleast she said that your size doesn’t matter. I feel your pain with the girth issue bro. One of my EX’s old fucks had a girth so large that she couldn’t get her thumb and middle finger to close around his shaft. She said there would be a half inch gap in between her thumb and middle finger so I know what your going through. When you start clamping take it slow and let your EQ be your guide. Also look into bundled stretching which seems to be underated. I’ve been doing alot of research on bundle stretches effect on the tunica and they have massive potential for girth increases as well.

Your friend/girl sounds cool.

You’ve got your answer, now if I were you I would not ask her anything else about your penis. Girls hate that! It may make you seem insecure, which ain’t a good vibe. Like when a girl keeps asking you if she’s fat etc.

Good luck with the PE, and start slow, have youdone the newbie routine etc first? :)

What is your length, both BP and BPEL? I ask as I’m beginning to really believe that girth is far more important, to the point where I might as well be happy with my average length and just focus on girth like you. It seems like length is welcome bonus, but girth is a real preference for women.

My BPEL is roughly 6.5 and my EL is about 6”, possibly a little more now since I haven’t measured in about a month.

Yeah, I’ve been doing manual PE for about 15 months now, with a very low success rate. Only gained about 1/8” in length, a little more than that in girth.

After 15 months, you should be experienced enough to try clamping.

I like your girl, sounds honest: you are slightly above average for length, a bit on the small side for girth. If you can trust here when she speaks about penis size of her ex, you can trust her also when she says it doesn’t count that much. :)

In your pants, I would reconsider the idea of being with her only for sex, probably she’s a good girl to have at your side.

I think Marinera has a good thought here. Keep in mind that MOST women don’t have casual sex, regularly, unless they want more. Typically, intercourse, (especially multiple encounters), makes a woman become more “attached” to a man emotionally. (this is my opinion, but only because I have seen this play out too many times to count)

We’ll see where our relationship goes. Obviously we are getting closer, but we both have expressed no desire to date or anything of that nature. Right now, it is a very simple text: “do you want to have sex?” and respond “yes, whenever you want.” followed shortly by a “come over, right now.”

Welcome to the clamping club. :) After 15 months you should definitely be conditioned enough. If I recall correctly, you said you have extremely high EQ no matter what you do and you’ve had very little gains in your PE career which implies that your tunica is very tough. That should provide you some safety when clamping. Still, remember what I said in my progress report and be extremely careful. Less gains in more time is better than more gains in less time if you preserve functionality and aesthetics in latter, but not in former. ;)

That girl sounds like a keeper from what you said (although she slept with too much guys for my taste). I’m actually surprised that she commented both length and girth, which is rarely the case, but knowing your stats, she seems honest and realistic, not trying to hurt you out of spite or anything like that.

Good luck with clamping and I hope girth gains come faster than length. :)

I laughed when you compared yourself to him. I know insecurity in any instance is insecurity but yeah.

Marinera is really right, she does sound like a keeper. And obviously you are satisfying her, she keeps coming back for more :) Just PE till you’re comfortable with yourself. Hope clamping goes well.

Good luck. Be careful. Also, wrist bands (sweat bands) make a good wrap for clamping. Temporary discoloration comes with the territory, so plan to clamp at times when you will have some recovery time.

We want to know if she notices the difference!

You will definitely see results from clamping. It may take 6-9 months of dedicated work,or less, but you will see them. Research all you can about the subject, and start off slow like when you first started PE. I have always found jelqing in between clamping sets, and re-warming to be very effective. Good luck.

P.S. Don`t EVER ask a chick a question you don`t really want an answer to.

I co-sign with the cool and honest girl posts. I also commend you for pushing the envelope. I lack the cohones to ask a girl about their other bed partners. Actually, I had a girl tell me she dated a guy with “…8 and three quarters length…” I didn’t think about it after that day (until now). I didn’t even come on here and post that brief moment in my past. Clamp safe, and you will gain much girth. Just don’t think about her girth statement AT ALL! She obviously like you, don’t let anything mess that up. Just play it how you’re already playing it.

Well UFGator you asked the dreaded question and got the honest answer.

I do feel for girls who get asked it! Being here you must surely know what range your girth falls in, according to most surveys in the bottom 10%. So you ask it!! Here a girl can only be honest and knowing male ego we will probably be offended despite how it is addressed, or a girl has to lie and we know the stats show she is lying in most probability.

You will gain from clamping, but guys don’t ask this question, it almost always causes issues!