Good Gains And Lots Of Sex (is it possible?)

I’ve had this thought for awhile now but today I really started to think about it. Over the years and after doing lots of reading around here, I seem to feel like *most* of the ones that make large gains don’t have a very active sex life. Maybe once or twice a week, but not everyday or 5+ days a week.

It makes me wonder if the active sex life may slightly put a damper on the speed of gains.

I know this subject can have a lot of talk, one being (never trade PE for sex) which of course I agree with, but it still makes me wonder. I have a lot of sex, but I also want to make large gains (especially girth).

Who here, has sex 4-5+ times a week on average, and has made some good gains? Not just the typical newbie gains.

I’m happy with my gains even if they may be mostly Newbie gains. But I think my gains would have been better with less sex. If I have to guess we have sex or I get oral or handjob 5 times/week.

Just because you are having sex does not mean you need to ejaculate.

If you hold on, the next time it more intense. Try it. When you get to an 8 level, switch it up. Give your wife a few orgasms and then opt not to finish yourself off.

My girlfriend is fully involved with my PE endeavors. She doesn’t expect me to want to cum often. When I accidentally cum she knows I’m not the happiest most the time lol

This is what I suspect. And I’m on the same page. I’m happy with what I’ve gained. But I’ve got the perfect situation nowadays with a full on supportive partner. And we have great sex. So now I want a monster even more. But I do feel that, if I didn’t have sex so much, I’d have much higher quality rest. Regardless if I cum or not. Because like I said above, I hold off on cumming most the time we have sex anyways. I think its more of just not giving my guy as good of a break.

I have done that on days I knew (or which😁) we were having sex multiple times just to keep that nice horny feeling going. And almost daily she gives me some kind of penis massage or give some kind of oral without me cumming. I have told here to do that because it’s good for the blood flow, witch we all knew it is.

Me as well. My girl is an awesome partner. I tell her it’s time for her to do her duty and take care of her cock. “Just a few min of a hard erection baby”. Just got done doing that actually. Took a break from studying school work and got me some of that throat. Life is good.

I cum almost every time we have sex. I know she wants me to. And after my dick feels tired and PE is not to think of for 3-4 hours. Maybe I should try not to cum every time lol.

That’s great man. We should really be happy to have girls like this. In my recent relation that lasted for 20 years this never happened. That’s one of the reasons why I left here.

I think we should focus on ejaculated as opposed to se, I think it only make sense that ejaculation affects PE. I mean, a huge part of PE is PIs.. and typically my indications tell me my dick needs a break after ejaculated. I also simply don’t feel like excercusing afterwards. I still believe gains can happen with frequent ejaculated.

I think it’s good to ejaculate less while practicing PE. But see itself is great PE

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Wife and I have had sex pretty much every day since we met 17 years ago. Often more than once on the weekends and if we are away without the kids it only increases.

I wouldn’t say I’m a big gainer, but I’ll take the sex over PE any day of the week.

I personally don’t know if sex and/or ejaculation negatively impacts gains, I never read any legitimate studies on the matter.

I am pretty sure that ejaculation frequency doesn’t affect gains. I believe the reason is simply because when you have an active every day sex life, you may have less time, privacy or you are less motivated. Guys who have sex every day maybe they do less volume workouts or they aren’t very consistent. That’s a generalation for sure but i think that can be the reason. I mean it sounds stupid to think that if you ejaculate only 2-3 times a week you will gain better than if you ejaculate every day.

I really think you gain more over long time if you don’t ejaculate every day. Don’t your penis feel a little bit tired after 30 min fucking and cumming. I know mine do and training is pointless several hours after sex.

And when I don’t cum for 2-3 days my dick feels bigger and fuller most of the day.

Yes i understand what you are saying. Of course i feel my penis tired after sex. In my opinion it depends if you are doing length or girth work. To be more specific, after you ejaculate your penis is more relaxed and it stretched more easily. I have done great stretching sessions after ejaculation. When you are stretching you want to be as flaccid as possible so it’s a good thing.

But when it comes to girth work if your penis is tired and your EQ is lower it doesn’t help. When i have days to ejaculate my EQ is skyrocket and jelqing becomes more efficient.

I just want to make this clear, this ISNT a post comparing if ejaculation affects gains or not. That argument is 1000 years old around here. And the question pops up from a newbie once every couple weeks.

If anything, this has to do with overall penis stamina.

Because like I said, even though I have sex 5 times a week on average, I normally cum about once a week, maybe twice.

I believe that sex (even without cumming) can slow down healing and/or effect a “resting stage”. Your unit is still going through work, so during sex rest is somewhat compromised. I guess there’s the idea of “active recovery”, but this is all why I wanted us to talk about this. It’s interesting to know. I know we all differ when it comes to penis conditioning as well. For example, LE is a black belt at sexual stamina (ya damn bastard 😉).

Anyways, it just makes me wonder if I’d gain girth a bit faster if I wasn’t plowing my woman, as often. 😆 Like Gentlepsycopath noted, effective girth work most of the time needs proper EQ. If I’m doing a steady PE routine, and having sex very often, my EQ might be effected without a doubt. I know it is sometimes. Doesn’t stop me from having all the great sex, but it does make me wonder, “what if”.