I'm a PE mentor

Penetration in the pussy, and penetration in the ass, or in the mouth are totally different. A pussy is designed for penetration, and it also has orgasms. The mouth, or ass is not designed for that, and does not have orgasms. Every girl I have ever been with would rather have a Small one for her ass. I think I would want a smaller one if I was receiving anal sex.

I have sufficient het mileage to be able to say with a fair degree of certainty that

1- women can have something like anal orgasms— they have described it to me as such— and while they qualify an anal O as different from a clitoral O, they similarly qualify CDS and G-spot Os as ‘different’ as well.

2- anal novices have fear and apprehension about pain [and dirt] that will make them less receptive to any size— so it’s up to the penetrating partner to put the anal novice at ease

3- anal ‘size queens’ [not limited to those who require large member/ object penetration] are often simply women with sufficient anal experience to know how to derive pleasure from anal penetration.

4-[and I ask those TPers who dig male/ male anal action to weigh in] men have a bonus regarding anal stimulation in that penetration can cause pleasant contact with the male prostate— size may or may not have much bearing [I’d think mild but substantive curvatures more useful for prostate stim— as it would seem to be for female G spot stim.

God, don’t tell my wife about this! No more anal would kill me. The ass may not personally have orgasms, but it can definitely aid in getting them!

For gay anal sex, size does matter to a point.. If it’s too small, your just not going to feel as good as a big cock. For me I guess about 5-6 inches is long enough, and girth defiantly does have a huge effect on how good it is. Even thought you don’t have any feeling along your rectum tissue ( I don’t think you do anyway) you do know when it is up there, even if it isn’t hitting your prostate. The angle and position makes a big difference with anal sex as well.
I have only ever had 1 or 2 orgasms from anal sex, partly due the the fact that my penis was rubbing on my partners belly, but he has had a quite few orgasms while I haven’t been touching his penis, only penetrating him. I think especially in gay circles there are alot of size queens.
I recommend you people try it for yourself.. And then you can write based on experience :P

Anyway this thread has gone WAY off track.

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“I recommend you people try it for yourself.. And then you can write based on experience :P”

My wife snuck a finger there once and it like to killed me, so I’m guessing that my ideal size range is like 3” x .0125” LOL. My hat is off to you because I couldn’t take it. I would be screaming like a midget masterbating with a cheese grater in an alcohol bath!

As the person being mentored by sixinchman wanted to add my bit. I am extremely glad for his off the cuff remark as it has got me well and truly on the road to PE, something I knew very little about.

To be honest, initially I had my doubts about the whole thing but listened to what he had to say and could see that he was passionate about it and believed in it whole heartedly. He then told me about this site and the exercises he did, I started to delve a little more deeply and started on the newbie routine and soon bought my own stretcher and am not looking back. While I have done measurements, they are for my eyes only at this stage but I will say they are improving!

Having someone to talk to and ask questions to has helped me enormously and I would encourage everyone to find someone to mentor them, think you can do that through this site. I was lucky that for me it is a very good friend and am grateful for both his friendship and support.

I will get round to introducing myself through the newbie section and it will include measurements.

Hey Philadel.. About time you posted :D Welcome!

“Plus, all men are connected to their cocks- it is ultimately what makes us male— on a subliminal [and possibly aesthetic] level more cock means more male.”

Andro; smart!

Welcome to the party Philadel. Good luck bro!

Welcome to TP and may you be successful at growing it!