Is It In Yet????

This is a self worth issue, my friend. While you are stretching your dick, think about how to improve your own self image. Women need confident men. Your dick is adequate to the task and she loves it. Quit questioning her and enjoy what you have.

I think it is called ‘Self Torture’.

Tomray, you are thinking too much. And you are thinking about all the wrong stuff. The girl likes you. I am sure you can understand what that means. Stop worrying. If you want to marry her, marry her. She chose you for a reason, you know. She handpicked you among every other man. Size and shit probably don’t mean much to her. So, in conclusion, love your girl, let her love you, enjoy your relationship and live happily ever after.

Your curent size is more than decent. A good man knows to be consistent and to wait. Do you get my point? Continue with your pe. Eventually you will achieve your target. And when you do you will definitelly want to have that woman by your side. Simple as that.

I wouldn’t necessarily say that she felt so good.

Most women DON’T LIKE guys with long dicks trying to shove it all the way in — it’s painful

And before you believe that 9” — unless there is an un-doctored photo — with a very clear ruler/tape measure — measured along the top, and not from under his ball sack

It’s highly unlikely that he was ACTUALLY 9” long

Hell, there are only a few legit 9” porn stars in the world that I’m aware of — there are alot that say they are — but they end up being 8+

tomray you are a fool. Give it up, the girl likes you so much that she wants to marry you, she loves you to go in that arena. GET IT! WAKE UP!. DAM! this shit gets old with these silly guys. Don’t ask what the ex had. They are ex’s for a reason. Okay, if an ex boyfriend beat the shit out of his girl, but gave her good sex and made feel satisfied, she would more than likely stay with him, Right? Give up the big dick thing and start concentrating on other things such as you and her and not the others. This is so stupid, but so simple, who care what the ex had, he is an ex.

I’m not silly, if her ex was good in bed , but sucked at other things, didn’t love her, mistreated her, etc and I’m am good at these things , but worst in bed, that’s not going to make me feel comfortable.

I have a small cock, I’ve seen her fascination with the big cock she had, and I know she felt great, even thous she’s saying he was too big. She’s deep and large and not tall, curiously. This woman, like many others, loves big cock, isn’t that the reason why we all are here? She loves it and it’s killing me that I can’t give it to her.

She talking all the time about her ex boyfriends, she had 4 long term relationships, assuming it’s true, I’m the smallest and thinnest of them all.

You are reasonable and its true what you say in some context. Of course its blown out of proportions. You are setting the others higher and yourself lower then you are.
(you are not even small.. FACT)

It seems like you are going crazy and obsessed over what you dont have right now, which blocks you from solutions to deal with it short, mid and long term.
Obviously with quality dedicated focused PE you can get to your goal size long term. Thats what we know here. What I observed with me and others is that desperation might help for the initial push to do something but is not enough to do quality PE.

The rest is more or less mind fixing dealing with it best way possible.
Cause obviously at some point your performance and your confidence will get down repeating these non helpfull thoughts and then it creeps into other parts of life…the woman will be gone(not cause of your size but how you dealed with it she will tell the next guy)
and you will feel even smaller(then you are) with the next woman.

So what do you plan to do next? I mean whats your plan to get out of it?

The only plan is to PE, try to gain as much as possible in the shortest amount of time.

I couldn’t agree more with what you posted, it’s exactly what I think and it’s a good understanding of the situation.

Still, I feel so bad when I see her not having real orgasm, cul de sac orgasm, I see her liking me, I see her wanting me, but when I put it in, damn, the place is large an deep, she really needs a good cock, I’m struggling inside her and nothing.

She’s saying she’s having multiple orgasms, but once, when I said that I know how a female orgasm looks like(how the woman manifests I mean), she said “how can you know that?” meaning, how can you know that with your small dick, she admitted that.

Ok tomray…I got your point. In that case you need at least 2-3 years of pe. Good luck.

Thanks, good luck to you too.

Thanks

Tomray,

Ok. She wants a bigger dick. So what. You can make your dick bigger so that both of you get what you want. Like Bill said, this is going to take time and patience. If this girl is what you say she is, then the size of your cock should be much less important than all the other things you have to offer. If she truly loves you then bring her on board with your PE. Start by telling her the truth about how you feel and that you are doing something about it. Show her the evidence if she wants and explain to her that it will take time but you are committed to this thing. THEN, never speak of it again. You may obsess over your dick but she must NEVER know about it past what you are doing to improve it. Women want strength and confidence in their men. Give her that. Keep the insecurities to yourself like every other successful man on the planet. If you simply must talk about it, the guys here at Thunders can offer a sympathetic ear and advice.

Hopefully you like to give oral. Most women love the orgasms given by a skilled tongue.

In the short term after a consistent newbie routine you can try pumping. Pumping will give you a temporary larger cock starting out. In time this larger size will be permanent. Make sure you learn the steps to safe pumping before you begin.

The first place I’d begin is getting better self esteem. Your girl will soon tire with your insecurities. Insecurity seen by a woman is not sexy. You sound like you’re trying to convince her you’ll never be an adequate lover. Stop this as soon as you can. It does drive women away. Great sex for men and women begins in the brain. Take charge and satisfy her with what you have now by learning how to be a good lover. New positions, stamina and a “will make you sweat” attitude!

You’re getting it wrong guys, I’m confident when I’m with her, funny, open, she’s having a great time with me.

But I have a small cock and I’m in the shadow of a nine inch thick cock that reapped her pussy apart!!

If it bothers you that much

tell her

” hey baby guess what, you can have me — and sometimes a giant cock too”

Then put a 9x7 extension on and fuck her good.