I've just experienced every man nightmare! Please help me

The legasy of Clinton. Oral sex is sex, contrary to what slick Willie kept saying.

She was able to discern that they were average, yes. Just by the simple fact that they were extremely close in length and girth, and noticeably shorter and thinner than myself.

I still kind of wonder how she liked that one guys large head…

Dont’ beat yourself up over it….obviously it didn’t mean that much to her, she’s with you for a reason….or probably many reasons. Don’t let your penis take control of your life….I did for awhile, I stayed completely misarable too….now I happily accept the fact I have a large penis and my girlfriend thinks I’m “Huge”. :)

When a woman says “you’re perfect” and you know you’re average size then you can bet she’s had bigger. Still, she may be being truthful about not preferring big. I believe big is actually just too painful for some women.

I heard a woman once say that size matters if there is no emotional attachment. She said size can still matter sometimes even if there is emotional attachment , but will often not be important. That girth matters more often to women then length (though length is still important to many women). Also , that thick and long is visually attractive to almost all women , even those that don’t care about size.

When I heard that I thought of a bar scene when two people hook up just for a one night stand. I think size tends to matter to women in those cases fairly often because of the detachment she mentioned.

This is what can be a bit unsettling—-I was 6 1/4 inches L x 4 1/2 G and have always ranked in the bottom half of the size list with women I’ve been with. We hear how 5 3/4 x 5 is said to be average. Perhaps this is right or perhaps the polls that say 6L or 6 1/4 L are correct? So because of my girth perhaps it has made sense I was in the bottom half. Even now though, at almost 7 1/4 L x almost 5 G I’m still in 4th place (out of 5 men)with on my current girlfriend size experience. Perhaps it’s just my bad luck she has had such a high percentage of bigger encounters and that size does matter to her some (“not inportant though”).I’m thankful PE is working so far because it does matter to some women even when emotional attachment is involved and matters to a whole lot of women when no attachment is involved.

If somehow my girlfriend and I were to ever break up, knowing what I know now I probably wouldn’t be able to bring myself to pick anyone up just for a one night stand because I would know there’s a very strong chance size matters quite a bit to a woman in this situation, and slightly above average would only be good to her—not great to her. Sure, I could be great in oral and working it with her, but I would still be missing that extra icing to make it her best encounter.

Unless of course I can continue to grow. If I can reach (at least) the magical 8X6 my confidence would soar.

beenthere, my friend you need to lose that reasoning as soon as possible. You don’t need to be some little sluts “best encounter”. Who gives a f… about her encounters, you just need to make sure that you enjoy yourself, whether it’s her best or worst encounter who gives a f…
I find it hard to believe when I read some posts here how obsessed some people are with women’s pleasure.

This is not every man’s nightmare. Not at all. Well at least it’s not my nightmare.. I’ve been told much worse than that. I usually get to hear the real nasty stuff right after breaking up with girlfriends..they tend to finally lay it all down for me when we’re finished and we have an insult fest. Some memorable ones I’ve receieved the past two years (may not be word for word but close enough): “Oh and trust me, I definitely won’t have a hard time finding a new boyfriend with a bigger dick than yours.” … “Most of the time, you were such a lousy fuck I had to finger myself after you left.” … “I’m looking forward to bigger and better things. By bigger I mean much bigger.”

But to get back on topic, I thought every man’s nightmare was to have his dick chopped off..

“…end up like a dog that’s been beat too much, so you spend half your life just coverin’ up now.” :(

- B. Springsteen ( Born in the USA )

Yeah, I would probably give in and try to hook up even if not at 8X6. I would probably just have to make sure I had a few drinks so as to not care. I love various builds and size women, but the built like a brickhouse(big in hips, thighs, booty, breasts,and a small waist) ones knock my eyes out and would be too tempting. Of course a woman can be not so big in one of those areas and still be considered built (though I don’t like a flat butt).

I dont understand why you (those who know of PE) find this kind of story depressing…

I can understand a small guy who has no hope of PE, thinking about all the guys who are bigger and can do to a woman what he can’t, THAT is depressing…

But shouldnt you be happy with knowing that soon you will be able to do that to a girl? I mean, would you rather hear that women dont like sex, size makes no difference and that they just want it over with? I dont… The fact that you will have the ability to drive a girl nuts like that is cool to me…

Guys get upset since many equate penis size with women’s satisfaction and their own masculinity. There is nothing, NOTHING you can say to change some men’s opinion on this matter. They think no matter what they do, the woman will NEVER be as satisfied as they were with the big ex, even if the woman swears blind that he hurt them and had pathetic technique and was obese. The media and spam emails don’t help much either.

There is nothing about a woman that can equate to penis size. Vaginal size is rarely mocked, I read many posts where during a heated brake-up the girl calls him tiny, if a guy mocks a girl’s large vagina it is all too easy for her to say “it is you who is small”.
If she says he is small in front of a bunch of his and her friends what is he to do? If he says it is big and whips it out, all it takes is for her to say, “see it is small” and everybody will agree. Even if it is down to his knees no other guy is going to say, “that’s huge” since everybody will presume he must be much smaller. No girl will say “that’s huge” since everyboby will turn to her boyfriend and laugh. I have seen this happen on a few occasions and heard of similar incidents, not exactly like that but very similar.

Breast size can be determined from a 100 yards so there is no secret or mystery about it or what the average size is. A guy with 8X6 may still be insecure; who is to say his girlfriend’s only previous guy wasn’t 10X7 and so considers 10X7 average and the other guy small. Breasts are not a fundamental part of intercourse, whereas some guys will think their penis size is totally fundamental to the pleasure a woman can receive. Penis size and breast size can’t be compared; a similarity could be breast size and tactical size. Some women like them big, some small, same with men and breasts but there is no real physical involvement of them in the sex act other than psychologically/visually. Breast size is also more on appearance not just size, an ex of mine was insecure about her breast size which were normal and very nice. This was because her 2 best friends had big breasts which they always referred to, but they were big sagging breasts with nipples pointing down, horrible things. I could reassure her that hers were far nicer, and ask why would she want a pair like theirs. I would like to see a woman try to reassure a guy that his small cock is better compared to her 10X7 ex just because it looks nicer!

I wonder what it would be like if it was women who had a penis and men had a vagina, everything else the same. I would predict that women would be far more insecure about their size than men are (if that’s possible!) due to media pressure. Every porn would be women with massive cocks sucking off each other. Men would be blatantly bulge watching all day, women would be wearing wonderbras and wonderpanties. Big girls would be wearing skin tight clothes to show off the bulge. Girls would be bitching saying, “oh she’s a stuffer, it’s not real”. The size of every female celebrity would be common knowledge. Women with small cocks would routinely be ridiculed by us insensitive guys, the big/small girls in town would be well known. Guys would go about bragging about being able to take 12” and able to deep throat. The double entendres about women’s size would be unending. Men would be constantly dropping their pants while drunk safe in the knowledge that they wont be ridiculed, they’d probably be pissing on the streets even more! When splitting up the horrific small size remarks would have insecure women in therapy for years. I know I would be obsessed with finding out how big my female neighbours, colleagues and friends were. Right now I am picturing cocks on my co-workers, yep Tina would have a big pair of low hanging balls and is cut, Sarah is shaved bare, veiny and massive, Jane is 4X4 but real hard so she could still fuck me all night, yep I’m depraved!

Eh, women suck. Screw girls until you want to get married and never get emotionally attached. Then go to church, find a virgin, and marry her. That way you don’t have to deal with stuff like this. That’s what I say anyway :)

(Female moderators: Please don’t hate me ;) )

Spektrum

This is behaviour from women that we would vilify and condemn. When you find your virgin, don’t lie about your past.

It happened about the same thing to me recently.
Was talking with my wife about my size, saying that I wish I had bigger size. She said - why do you need bigger, you fit me perfectly ( I know is not true because I can feel her quite large when is very excited.
I say - ok but if I’d be bigger I would stimulate your vagina walls much better.
She - NO WAY, bigger is not better, I can assure you about that.
Me - How do you know that? From books? Movies?
She - I am telling you I KNOW for sure, not from books or movies! Can’t tell you how I know because you’ll deeply regret !
At that moment I UNDERSTOOD! Fuck me!
Me - The ex-husband had a big penis?
She - YES! And was awful, terrible and painfully!
The ceiling fell down on me.
I am about the same size like you, average I would say - about 6” long and 5” girth, she never complained about my size, but also never told me that I am big sized and I know I am not.
I always had a complex about my girth - especially and telling me that the ex was huge, had totally fucked me.
I can’t recover even now, after 2 months .. I always imagine her penetrated by a huge dick ..
I know I should just let it go but I can’t believe how hard is it and how deeply she hit me, without knowing it.
So, you’re not the only one.

Never ask. I always assume that they’ve had someone bigger.

Don’t let this new information steal the joy of having someone who loves all of you. Dick included.