I've just experienced every man nightmare! Please help me

Yeah dude, exactly…..go to church, get saved, meet a sweet little thing that has grown up in church and chances are you’re all set :)

I find this fascination by guys needing to know about their woman’s previous relationships and their dick sizes to be somewhat like a scene out of a Clive Barker movie, all morbid and with an eerily devotion. Like something out of a Marilyn Mansion video! All chaotic and mind consuming until it drives you insane!

I believe that the reason some guys follow this “path” is the fact that they are not secure about themselves as much as they should be, or could be! You will keep reading that it starts by having the confidence in yourself, which if you are, will project itself into other aspects of your personal life, including relationships.

Do yourself good by realizing that you are with a person who wants to be with you! Realize that you have somebody to share your dreams with, you have somebody to share laughs with, you have somebody to cry with, you have somebody to cuddle with, love, be mad with at the world together. Dammit, you are with somebody that you love, and loves YOU!

And for all those still looking for a person to be with, I hope you find the one for you soon! :)

RB

You married a virgin.

“Since I’ve started PE, she’s had a bunch of different cocks, but I’m still the biggest she’s ever had… “

Reconcile the two statements. I doubt you are into cuckolding.

Luv, she had me at 5x4, 8.5x5.5 and every size in between :)

:) I thought that was what you meant.

Its becasue of situations like that that I wont get any girlfriend until I reach at least 10 inches in lenght. What can I do, Im a strategist. There is time for attack and there is time for defense. Until I dont get myself ready for the attack you will find me in the bathroom stetching my member, enjoying every second of my obssesion.

Very nicely said!

I have to say, that until I began researching penis size and related topics I had no desire to find out about previous partner’s cock sizes. I’m 43 now, and pre-PE my size was about 6.5” BPEL x 5.25”. As a teen and young man, I believed I had an average or slightly above average size. I knew some guys who had at least 8” or 9”, who got lots of girls etc. Back then I don’t remember attributing this to their cock size. In this ancient time of course there was no Internet, and I can honestly say that penis size just wasn’t a big issue with me. I didn’t worry about it, although I had plenty of other insecurities when it came to females. Looking back, I know that I bungled up several chances to have sex because I was so ignorant and unsure. Only one female that I remember caused me some embarassment, it wasn’t because of my dick size but because she made me cum real quick. Like others have said, I’ve been in some loose and some tight pussies. I pretty much believed the standard line “it’s not the size of the pencil…..” etc. I wasn’t very confident in attracting or meeting women, but whenever I got over that and actually had sex I wasn’t worried at all about my penis size. I figured that I knew more about sex techniques than most guys, and could give a good account of myself ;-)

For me, this questioning of my wife is mostly curiosity. I knew that she’d slept around a lot, that fact didn’t bother me then and doesn’t now. When I actually read testimonies etc. from females (and males) about how bigger IS better in many cases, is when I began to wonder about the probability that she’d had some big ones and how well she liked it. Also, to some degree I probably was affected by viewing some amateur or “reality” porn. Porn actresses are notorious for faking, but seeing a “real” woman’s reaction to getting pounded by a huge dick is very evocative. Especially the expressions and sounds they make. However, until I began doing PE and actually had a gain, I would NOT have discussed any of this with my wife. If I had no hope of being bigger, I would NOT want to know. It was only after finding this forum that I began to take PE seriously and make some efforts. So really, Thunder is to blame for all of this… ;-) Honestly, overall I’m very excited and happy to find out that my wife enjoys big cocks. I’m very lucky to be married to her, she looks great at 40 and her sex drive has increased over the years. I know that I’ve kept her satisfied for 16 years and sex is still getting better. Finding out about PE, and the fact that size DOES matter, only excites and motivates me to want to please her more.

side note: Speaking of “cow pussies” I saw a video clip a while back, this hot young latina chick had an incredible body and beautiful bubble butt. I'd seen threesomes before where 2 guys do vaginal/anal at once, but this chick had 2 guys fucking her pussy at the same time. Their cocks weren't huge but definitely above average. Can anyone calculate the combined circumference of two 8 x 6 cocks? ;-)

I get blamed for everything…… :)

My God! Cowpussies, hipwaters, mayo jars, and other madness. What is this place coming to?

Bottom line: Never ask. Enjoy the ignorance about others. It makes you seem more confident while protecting a fragile ego. Fool them all, that’s what I say.

To start with, a side note. I think when most guys here are referring to the women having bigger, most of the women probably had bigger girths. Sure, the length could be longer, but even 2 inches does not appear to be a lot without the extra girth. Girth adds a huge amount to a woman’s perception, both visually and physically. The difference in feel and perception is MUCH, MUCH bigger between a 5 girth and 6 girth of equal length than a 2 inch length difference on the same girth cock. My gf’s roommate’s ex was definitely around 8-9” but she said he felt like a pencil. She said it was pathetic, that he had absolutely no girth, and believe me, I pressed her for answers. My point? Here is a guy who could go around bragging that he had a niner and girls would say so too, yet everyone would forget to mention his girth(probably) was under 5. So what does this all mean? I wish everyone talked about dicks in terms of cubic size. But women just talk in vague terms, and for most of them, bigger means a girth larger than yours. This seems to get lost sometimes as our girths sometimes seem so close, I mean what is the difference in a .5 inch of girth?? Actually a ton! So go out and get thicker, but don’t sweat all the talk in the above posts about a dick being 8 or 9”. I much rather be 6.5” in girth, that cock is very thick and stays that way in the locker room too.

Now, if your girl has had long AND thick, personally, I would leave her, but then again, I am pretty fucked up BDD-wise right now.

Dude, I know where you are coming from. It just seems time and time again the studies are outdated and there are more and more(seemingly tons) of guys out there with at least 7” cocks. I don’t know what to say, it doesn’t get much better until you actively seek to correct your insecurity. I have awful BDD and terrible cock insecurity and I’m def. above average by a bit. It is a shame too, because I am in a committed relationship and once I reach my PE goal I will not be able to show it all around town to all of the ladies. Another downfall is like Tigerbass said, it has started to get painful for my girl too.

My advice: If you feel this way, committ yourself to getting a HUGE cock and settle for nothing less. If she has had bigger then, it is just dumb luck. However, along with my goal for excessive HUGENESS(I will get there even at the cost of my relationship), I may speak to someone for this problem. No one should have to go through the feeling of being completely devestated when you find out stuff like this. I know how it feels. It is not fun. Good luck.

I’m all for talking in terms of volume as well. I have MORE volume than a 10x5 guy… but if I told a girl I’m 7x6” she might not be as impressed.

Just wondering…where on Earth did your husband find women like that — I mean anyone prettier and smarter than you are?

…2 guys and she was able to discern that they were average?

Just because she had sex with 2 guys doesn’t mean that’s all the dicks she had seen. I didn’t want to have sex with a girl until I got married (although I fucked that up a WHILE back :p ), so for the longest time I would only let girls give me oral sex. She could have felt the same and been really conservative about who she had sex with but messed around with a few guys.