Originally Posted by raybbaby
Likely just stress and/or sleep. Not all erections are created equal. Some days are just off. This is true of many different things in life, they say “Not all progress is linear” and I believe it’s true.
I appreciate your answer but I somehow don’t think it’s these things. I’ve been getting the usual amount of sleep and stress levels are actually pretty low. Something else is going on here, and I am still considering its the lower-hanging ligs. I like that phrase though “not all progress is linear”. First time I’ve heard it.
Originally Posted by QL
Not to belabour the point (as I get what you’ve said about it seeming some things shouldn’t change in regard to measuring one’s unit) but for the sake of discussion let’s concede that with the body being as hideously complex as it is, that something may indeed be affecting blood flow and/or some other non-tissue related factor is in play. Be that as it may, stepping back in these circumstances always helps and it can also help to rehearse to oneself that time is on one’s side as in you have literally years to pursue this hobby.I have wrestled with serious EQ problems while simultaneously seeing BPEL negatively affected but again, when the issues were dealt with (in my case, too much porn & being too aggressive with my PE program), my BPEL had ultimately not diminished. In your case we just don’t know the root of your particular issues so something you may find helpful is to switch to a BPSFL measurement to track progress (if you don’t already?).
I found this helpful at a time when I couldn’t get it up to measure (or have sex for that matter) but at least I could still track ongoing progress at a time when it would otherwise not be possible. I’m confident you will figure this out as you remain patient with yourself, listen to the cues your body & mind are feeding you and discipline your mind to be relaxed yet hopeful in regard to PE. Good luck friend.
QL
You’re completely right. In fact your entire post has taken a spot for me for one of the best.
Time is on my side I guess, i really shouldn’t try to rush so much. I’ve actually temporarily suspended my routine until it returns to what it was, taking a short break and hoping things work themselves out. Lately i think my EQ is dropping too, its usually a 9.5 at worst but last night, it was a 7. Something isn’t right.
I am relieved to hear that your BPEL “loss” was temporary. I hope this is the same for me, if its not in fact the lig thing i mentioned.
I admit i have been abusing porn, i find edging with it after a PE routine to be very pleasant, but I think viewing it 6 days a week may indeed be harmful. This is a relatively new development for me, i was off it completely for a while. At the same time, aggressive routine? Maybe i should hold my hand up here too.
I don’t usually use BPSFL because i find it hard to take a good measurement this way. I usually take around 10 attempts and see which number i can most accurately agree with (i like to be very precise). At this point, it seemed to be 5mm longer than previously, but i would say this with only 80% certainty. I wonder if there is a correlation here.
I really appreciate your answer, you’re a benefit to the community. I hope to see you around more often :)