Older guys

At my age a woman in her 40’s or 50’s are much more sexy than a young

dolly. The older woman are more settled, sophisticated and more

at home with her sexuality.

Interesting question, Klayton :up: I’m curious to hear more guys’ experiences. It’s something I consider when I think about aging.

This is a good perspective thread. Thinking about it, I have a good job, I don’t have to fight daily to survive, and I should take happiness out of things. However, in your 20s you are always thinking about the future it seems. If we could learn to live more in the present perhaps we could enjoy the satistfaction that older people seem to figure out.

You are only as old as (the woman/man) that you feel.

I’m one of those fortunate guys who seems "ageless": most people think I’m in my late twenties, but I’m actually in my late 30’s.

Oddly enough, when I was in my mid-20’s, people thought I was in my early 40’s. Stress sucks. I "started over" in my late 20’s after losing a small fortune, and it’s weird to be going through the process of "re-establishing" myself while my contemporaries "settle down" with their families (even though I feel that I’m settling down somewhat too, in my own way).

One of the best aids I had in understanding the phases of life came via our own tt:

Erikson’s stages of psychosocial development .

GM

I like this quote

” You do’nt stop playing because you grow old:
You grow old because you stop playing.”

I’m 37, married, and don’t cheat. But recently something similar to that did come up with that exact response. The girl was 19 when I met her, we became friends, and she got interested in more. I wasn’t and even though she’d turned 20 by the time she was expressing that interest, I reminded her that I have a 17 year old daughter and getting involved with someone that close to her age would just be too weird so even if I wasn’t completely into the love of my life it just couldn’t happen.

Yeah, it would have been like dating my daughter, same interests, same music, same attitudes…too strange to even contemplate.

Anti-aging should start as soon as one realizes one is aging. Admittedly, late teenagers and people in their twenties think they are immune to the process.

Start with your skin. It’s what everyone sees first. I had lunch with a bunch of people recently, one of whom is a dematologist; none of us was under 45. He says that the best indicators of age are the hands and the neck when you first meet others. (We all began looking surrepticiously at each other’s hands and necks!) He suggested that we never take a bath or a shower or swim in a pool without slathering some good lotion afterward like Lubriderm on our faces. I’ve been doing this since I was in my forties. It has worked.

There’s a good and safe product in the US called Nivea for Men; a mini-facial peel. Use it once a week. Some weeks later, you’ll notice that you have planed off some of the laugh lines around your eyes and your jowl lines.

On the other hand, so to say, I have a woman friend who is my age (66) who says: “I’ve earned every one of these goddamned wrinkles. They are _mine_!”

Thanks for the thread. It’s difficult to find a forum for serious discussion about sex and aging. It’s either too medical or too maniacal. I’m 60-ish and I don’t think I’d pick a younger age to be if I were given a choice. I’m looking forward to retirement and doing some things I’ve always wanted to do. But I’m here because I want to keep virile and that gets more difficult as you get older.

Well that’s good news.

So… if you’re feeling a variety of them do you take an average?

It does. But there are now so many good and safe crutches for us to use when that happens.

Would you believe I started PEing at 69? And would like to exchange viewpoints on this subject by pm with any of you, older PEers. My experience has been fabulous. Both in gains on size and sexual performance. And that start was 4 years ago! Through PE I overcame ED (erectile disfunction).

perca, that’s awesome and inspirational. 73 and overcame ED. I found PE accidentally while doing PH work to overcome it myself, but am only 37. If I make it that long, I certainly hope to still be able to get it up at 73.

I would like to hear what advice some of your older guys have for us about life in general. What have your learnt over the cause of your lives? What is important? What should us youngers guys really be concerned about?

Big subject.

Can you zero in a little on specific areas?