Question about the 8x6 legend

I guess you’re right. I mean I’m trying to get to 16x14 hopefully. I’ve always wondered what to do with those toddler baby shoes once they’ve been outgrown. Now I know.

I am a bit over 8 bp and have been for some time, and am working on girth now. I hit 5.5 mid-shaft with a Viagra bone (5.75 mid while clamped), and am around 6 at the base. But I assume the 8 x 6 figure is for MID-SHAFT girth, not base. So I gotta keep on clampin’ … . doubt I will quit at 8 x 6 though, even if I should … . the only thing better than sex with a girl is being too big for her!

I say that the measurement is NON BP, because I have an incredibly obese friend who says that his penis is around 3-4”, of course that is NBP, but he would have such a fat pad that he could have a 8” BP penis under that all, but if he has sex with some girl she isn’t going to feel the “Perfect, Legendary” 8” is she?

A note on the 8x6 and being in love with a totally honest woman. We have an 8x6.5 vibrator and she loves it. However, she can’t take more than 6-6.5 inches of it as far as length goes. She told me that she only had one lover in the past who was better than me (when we first got together, I’ve learned since then). He was only a little above average, about 7” long and 6” in girth. She said though that more important than the size was the way it was used…and he did a lot of oral…why am I now better? Because I do even more oral including giving “clitoral blow jobs” which she really loves with some 2 finger g-spot stimulation.

Back to the topic at hand, she told me about one guy who was way bigger than the 8x6 vibrator. She has no idea about the size, just that he made the 8x6 look small because he was so huge. She said it felt great for a few minutes then after that, it just hurt and was no fun at all.

So, the 8x6 is probably enough for most women. I know that the best orgasm I ever gave her was a combination of 4” of the 8x6 and my tongue working the clit. So keep working to build the legend, but don’t go too far that you will hurt your woman. Personally, I will not go beyond 7 in length if even reaching 7 is possible. If I can’t go balls deep, I don’t see what fun it would be to have sex.

That isn’t neccessarily true. A good friend of mine is obese as well, and we joke at our little dicks all the time. He was small when he was skinny, and he is small now. So even if your friend has a 4-5” fat pad, that doesn’t mean he has a 8”.
It means that if your friend has a 5” dick and a 4” pad, then it will look like he has a 1” dick. Otherwise, what you’re saying is getting fat added 4” to his cock.
He may be able to push more than an inch inside a pussy, but as far as looks go, it won’t look like he has what he actually has. So ask your friend if it was big when he was skinny and see what he says.

He was never skinny, he’s been obese since before puberty, also why do YOU joke about being small, what are you stats?

This is my #1 priority on sex. I 100% agree. This is why I think I might not even work length anymore and if it comes by doing girth then so be it. Grinding makes them go wild.

I’m just a little fella so I’m going for both. Girth being the most important. Due to my deficiency I’ve gotten pretty good with hands and tongue though. However, I keep hearing that it’s not the size that matters but what you do with it. What the hell else can you do with the penis besides put it in, move it around, pull it out, vary thrust depth and so on?

I am always looking to improve.

Give Her the Big O

Toolguy, that was a great read. I commented in that thread and will be commenting later about how it worked out, or worked in, or whatever.

[QUOTE=Mr. Happy]
All PE has to do with self-esteem.

There are different aspects and degrees of this.

The vanity question comes more into the picture when one is already plenty large, but wants to get larger for the sake of it. This is satisfying the ego on a very basic level.

If someone is starting out with a below average unit and has been struggling with their sex life as a result, then I don’t expect many of us would call that vanity. But it is about self-esteem: improving one’s physique and thereby raising one’s self-confidence and self-esteem to feel good and have a good sex life. This also has to do with the ego, but only to point of feeling normal, adequate and healthy. There’s nothing unreasonable about it.

Going beyond that it is a top dog/under dog game in one’s head.

Men are naturally competitive. Wanting to be the biggest (or at least very large) is synonymous with wanting to be the best. In reality this only goes so far, but not in the minds of some. It’s reasonable to question that.

Our self-esteem is important. Very important. Size is only important with regard to how it informs this. This is partly experiential, with regard to how a given size is received by the women (or men) in one’s life, but a more significant aspect is how we perceive this reception, and perhaps most significant is what we desire this reception to be.

Healthy function is what is most important biologically, but the self-esteem aspect ties in to the intimate side of our social interactions and our emotional selves.

A balance has to be struck.

One of the best review I’ve read here. It’s me.

Now I started out with the legend, and I didn’t consider my self big. Today I know different, But I still want to be bigger. Its a self esteem thing and I know I can be bigger.

The women I have been with have all wanted to have a bigger guy and enjoy the feeling, but there are women out there that would say “no way”. I have not had this happen to me, but maybe some day.

The women in my younger days were part the the reason I wanted to be bigger. They where happy with my size and most asked me if I wished that I was bigger, and of course “yes” wish I was longer.

It’s a man thing, Yes I can be bigger, and I’m lovin it.