Real Size Vs Perception

It’s on my mind 1,000 times a day, at various inflection points like you mention.

I kind of look forward to old age, as a way to put the obsession to rest once and for all. Not kidding.

Who you calling old?😜 My grandpa had girlfriends into his 90’s….my hero

At least Im amongst like types here.

Every time I open a banana or cucumber or any object (I saw my wife holding the tube of the dyson vacuum while dumping out the dust and was like, whats the tube circumference I wonder?)

Its really not a problem that we obsess so much but it somehow does bother me that This condition links to insecurity. Im a confident guy, but I wonder sometimes what it all really means.

We all have to remember if a child can come out of there is no real way we can ever fill it with our units. We all just have to work what we got. And your wimen play a big part in keeping sex feeling great too. They need to strengthen their pelvic muscles to increase sensations for both her own and your pleasure.

My issue is body dismorphia. I have a need to have proportions just right. My journey started because my thighs were gaining size making my penis smaller in comparison. I never compared my unit until I started PE. Now almost everything that can be compared I give it a second feel in my hands and make a measurement assessment. 😆

Yeah, I’ve measured thee girth of hot dogs, sausages, cucumbers, carrots, a lot of things just to see how I measure up. I don’t think it’s normal, but it is what it is.

I did that a while back with the salt shaker, season salt bottle, vitamin bottle top, etc. But only to make sure I don’t get too big to get a BJ. That’s a real fear of mine.

Actually, this is one of my life questions.
I’m a short guy, at about 5’7, ectomorph type. I consider myself small, or at least a bit below average in terms of body size (small hands, small wrists, small foot size, etc), so, my dick is about 5.5 NBP / 6.7 BP with a 5.3 girth, so body proportions seem to be ok. Sometimes, when I get few extra pounds, I even check my appearance in the mirror and my dick looks small.

So if we keep this body proportion idea, those 6.7 tall bulky guys should pack 9-10 inches? Or even average 6 feet tall people, (80% should be bigger)
I keep thinking about this. At some point, I got an answer that organs develop differently than the skeletal and muscular tissues. HOWEVER, whenever I get to do some ultrasound for some cardiac issues, my physiologist is always asking about height / weight to determine the average size of the organs.
So everything should match the body proportion idea.

Also, those average studies seem to be bullshit. If 5.13 is the average (bone pressed) then most of us should report 4 inches NBP.
But most members on thunders report around 5.5 - 7 NBP, meaning 6 - 8 BP.
So, this is my second question? If medical measuring means bone pressed, and medical reviews have shown an average of 5.13. Do you believe this?

Concluding, how big are the big guys dicks? :)

I suspect all on Thunders have, to varying degrees, some dysmorphia. For me, it was likely a result of the classic foreshortened view we get from looking down at ourselves. As mentioned by many, I just assumed I was on the small side. Regardless of compliments from women. Growing up I would see older guys standing at urinals peeing hands free, and I assumed they could do that because they must be bigger than me…as I have always had to hold mine up as it extended too far out my fly…of course I now know that’s because my flaccid is far above average. Yet, still I (we) want more. And, to your point, I have been in a few group settings, a number of threesomes, and it does seem most are as large or seemingly larger. I do not directly interact, my focus is on the woman. But, it also may be that men who participate in groups are generally larger?