Rethinking how much size matters to women

Almost two years ago, I was 6 1/4. That is the size I used with all women except one. The woman I’ve used my current size with, I also used 6 1/4 with and every size inbetween. She can tell a difference, but not enough to wow her. Size does matter to her, but is not important. She has shown interest in me reaching 8”, and definitely wants me thicker. I know I should work on thickness more, but don’t want to interfere with length gains first. Besides, I have gained 1/4” in girth.

non bone pressed.

Stretchin, I’m apologize for my ignorance in advance but I don’t see your point.

I guess I’m trying to say that us smaller guys cannot experience the difficulties of being too large or the pleasures or being above average and we’re ashamed of our smaller units. The injustice of being “small” is a great burden to bear. We cannot relate to the above average or too large experiences and we want to believe that our size is enough when indeed it is not. We think if we ask enough times about our small size that we will be told that it is ok, but deep down we know it’s not.

Stretchin’

Stretchin,
I know you mean, but at least you are thicker and longer than I was. At 6 1/4 x 4/1/2, some people say that was fine. That it’s average (and some will even try to say that’s above average) and how you use it that counts. Not so in my case. I worked like hell at foreplay, but in the end it wasn’t ever enough to make me a great lay in their eyes. Simple as that. Sure, I might have been considered good by a few because of all the work I put into it.

anna,
I know you would go as far as to say you would choose average over big because the big guy often thinks all he has to do is show up. I still hold to the notion that average cannot get a 10 out of 10 rating no matter what he does. A big guy has the potential to get that 10 rating. Honest, that has very much been my life.

yikes, I’ve got 3/4 of an inch to go! *hangs more weights*

Beenthere, I was smaller than 6” in length and smaller than 4.5 in girth before PE. I’ve been at this off and on(mostly off) for three or more years. The depression and anxiety caused by my feeling of inadequacy has been horrific. My wife recently told me she was tired of hearing about “it”. She has told me repeatedly that “it’s” fine, but I know she’s she being polite. I can tell. You get to know some one after you have lived with them for a few years ya know?

Stretchin’

I need to change that statement a bit. If she truly doesn’t care about size at all, or if she is small made, then a 10 rating should be possible.

OK I’m going to tell it like it is based on what statistics I have absorbed and processed and my gut intuition. I hope I’m appreciated for it and not hated, i.e, don’t shoot the messenger, I’m just trying to add some light to the subject here and make some semblance of sense here.

Let’s first lay the ground work:

1)I’m assuming the woman in question have experienced the full or near full spectrum of sizes.

2)I’m also assuming that the men in question are about EQUAL in all other areas (you know—money, looks, personality and all that good stuff)

3) I’m assuming the women in question are of about normal tightness.

Having said that and with the exception of the women on this board, I can reasonably declare that:

You just cant trust women to tell you the real truth about this because the vast majority of them are compassion about the male ego (unless they are pissed—then the truth might come flying out of them in a fit of rage) However we also know a fit of rage can lead to spiteful and untruthful statements.

Suggestion: a few beers and some penile jokes might get the truth out of them by the end of the night. :chuckle:

Anyway back to the Topic:

I think that 6.0x5.0 NBP is in the realm of neutral territory ,i.e, you are about average and as far as size is concerned, there are no negative comments to be made about you but there are no positive comments to be made about you either (unless they lie)

But my best educated guess here is that the vast majority will of them prefer something

6.05x5.5 NBP or better as a bare minimum to satisfy them.

7.0x5.5 NBP will be a pinnacle of delight and satisfaction on just about all of them.

7.5x5.5 NBP will have women saying something like:

Oh dear God—YOU”VE GOT IT GOING ON!!!!!

8.0x6.0 NBP will have thinking you are a GOD and a DREAM COME TRUE. They will be literally be speechless and melt just at the mere sight of you!!!—She will go into a trance like state and form a sexual addiction to you.

Anything above these figures is just catering to size queens and cow pussies.

This is why 8.0x6.0 NBP is the ideal size and the Golden standard for PE.

I know a Nurse Practitoner, who is extremely frank
when it comes to talking about sex.
She tells me the other day, she would dump her
current b/f if he wasn’t so well hung, she says she measured it
and it was 11” long and she showed me how thick with her hands,
and her fingers didn’t touch by about a half inch.
She says, “Where am I gonna find someone to replace that”?
I said, “Don’t look at me” and we both laughed.

She has no idea about me knowing a lot about penis size
and all from TP, she brought it all up herself.

The guy is quite the loser, he’s been arrested twice in the last
year for dealing crack. She probably makes over $100,000.00
a year and lives in a beautiful house on the water.

She could get a more together guy in a heartbeat,
she’s cute, funny and smart.
She just can’t let go of 11”

id have to disagree with alot of you. I think size matters, but ideally i think we are slightly off in what yall say. Most say 8*6. I have been with girls that say they have had this and couldnt take it and experienced soem discomfort. Id say form my experince the best size to fit the most girls would be about 7-7.5 by 5.5 o so. Any more or less u will displease more though u may please more u may not before the cumalitive result is worse.

Hey Guardian,

How about taking a look at this link when you have a minute? Thanks!

>>>8.0x6.0 NBP will have thinking you are a GOD and a DREAM COME TRUE. They will be literally be speechless and melt just at the mere sight of you!!!—She will go into a trance like state and form a sexual addiction to you. <<<

LOL, in our dreams… :D

Great well written post supersizeit! Now I gotta go hit the girth work!

Yes, good post SSI, Philadelph thought it was so good we needed to read it again. :)

sorry :(