Rethinking how much size matters to women

I’ve had this same thought, and it seems valid. It’s actually part of my mindset for PE. I’m making sex better for both of us. She’s comparatively tighter for me at the same time I’m bigger for her. We both win.

The placement of the clit is something of a cruel evolutionary joke. Our analogous part is perfectly situated for continual stimulation. Theirs is just barely on the sidelines of all the action.

Women can do exercises to tighten themselves up down there. I’ve seen threads on that here on Thunder’s, but generally I don’t think women are going to put the effort. For them it’s much easier to find a guy with equally good characteristics (personality, looks etc.) or even better and with much bigger dick than the current one, so why even bother. Of course, there will be gems who are ready to do anything for their husbands and are going to put in as much effort as necessary. Hopefully there are more of those out there.

The women could very well help us. I’ve been encouraging my wife to do kegels, but who said she does. I’ve been doing crazy things with my dick and she doesn’t do a simple 10-15 minute routine. I think if women help like that, girth won’t be a problem. I think even 5 girth would be enough for a well-trained female. I’ll insist with her to see if anything changes. In the meantime, I’m focusing on the length that has no magic to get around it.

Don’t count on it, lol. Most women would rather talk trash than put in some work

lol had one girl who was doing kegel excercises back in the day. 2003, we were young and had plenty of energy and we would fuck all day long. Once we had sex for 14 straight hours. My dick skin fell off the next day and was extremely irritated/red. But hey, it was good sex and she gave the best head ever. Addicted to it too. I wouldn’t be able to drive the car without her getting at it. Too bad I didn’t PE successfully back then. I’m sure she would have put the extra inches to good use.

In my experience females in the age range of 17 -25 Dick size matters and 26- up it matters less every year after. Young women will actually hunt down “tall” men that are well endowed and usually are DTF if you ask. I was with some female friends in my 20’s that where on the prowl and I was unaware of what they were doing till they told on themselves….we were driving down a back road looking to pick up a married man out of the woods that snuck out of his house so they could fuck him lol. They got slut shamed and where in tears when i got done with them for being homewreckers.

Ive had women beg me to let them sneak into my house to fuck them while my wife was sleeping…not a chance. Come to their house and fuck them while their husband was out or asleep then let him eat my cum out of their pussy…not happening. Females are very conniving and sneaky if they’re trying to steal you or in competition. If your to hung up on Dick size and not confident women will sense that and either build you up or cuck you out. What matters the most more than Dick size -which really doesnt matter-is being a good person, hard working, confident and dominant.

It’s interesting to compare that chart to the one here: hxxps://www.buzzfeed.com/peggy/the-authentic-womens-penis-size-preference-chart

Despite the differences, there are significant distribution similarities: most notably, there seems to be a “sweet spot” of length vs. Girth for most women, and there is a point at which gains in either for them have diminishing returns or are even not enjoyable.

I wonder if the differences can be chalked up to regional preferences. The page you linked seems to have more global sampling, whereas I’m guessing Buzzfeed’s source is more localized to the USA

That chart shows up here every year or so since at least 2004, and has been debunked many times. The creator has admitted to making it up. Use the search function if you want to track the history.

Ah. I should have known better than to trust something from Buzzfeed. Thanks for the correction.

From what I’ve heard and experienced, technique and connection matter way more than size, but some women have an “ideal” in mind.

Some tools simulate undressing through AI if you’re looking into ways to explore body differences out of curiosity. I came across one that simplifies the process in just a few steps, and you can check it out here

Let them hop on top and grind, once you’re balls deep they are getting heaps of direct clit stimulation.

Maybe this was how cavemen boned, the lazy way.