Rethinking how much size matters to women

If she loves you nothing matter for her

Hi guys-

I’m brand new to the forum. I can only speak from personal experience as to me that’s the only reliable source of information. I’m on the larger side at 8”x5.5”. I’ve only been with 10 women but I can safely say that 9 of the 10 very much enjoyed my size and virtually all of them said size matters. The 1 who didn’t was a virgin and was very petite, but even she often commented on how big I was and once playfully told me years after we dated that I was twice as big as her boyfriend (now husband). I also dated a girl who had never been with someone above average and said she wasn’t a very ‘sexual person’ before me, and she turned into a freak that wanted to have sex any day/any time and let me do things she had never considered with another guy.

Last and most important is my wife. She dated a guy in college that she said was ‘huge’ and that all he had to do was put it in and she would orgasm. Both longer and thicker than me. I have point blank asked her how much size matters, and she said ‘the bigger, the better’. (Of course this is assuming everything else is equal, personality, etc.)

I know this isn’t true for all women and that one size does not fit all. None of the girls I’ve slept with were overly active sexually or “sluts”, in fact just the opposite. But I feel 100% confident in saying that all other things being equal, women will take the biggest dick every single time.

Does one need any more motivation than that?

Yeah, that’s definite motivation.

I have a theory. Perhaps many here have already realized this.

Research says that only 36% of women have vaginal orgasms.

I believe that these 60% did not have vaginal orgasms because they only had contact with a medium-sized penis (the vast majority).

I will try to verify this with my wife, her vaginal orgasms are rare, we had about 5 in more than 10 years of marriage. She’s only had 2 partners and I’m her biggest. I’m sure with more length and a little more girth she would have her vaginal orgasms.

FYI https://doi.org /10.1111/j.1743 … 09.2012.02917.x

“ Women Who Prefer Longer Penises Are More Likely to Have Vaginal Orgasms (but Not Clitoral Orgasms): Implications for an Evolutionary Theory of Vaginal Orgasm”

Several of the ladies I’ve been with had not experienced a vaginal orgasm before me, and my wife has only had them with me and her college boyfriend who was 9”+. So I think this is spot on.

The interesting thing is having a penis long enough to stimulate the bottom of the vagina for vaginal orgasms.

My wife cums very easily with clitoral stimulation. The few times she had vaginal orgasms were deep penetration. I’ll see a way to overcome this plateau in length gain.

With me my wife typically only has vaginal orgasms in missionary with her legs spread wide so I can get deep. In fact she always opens them even wider during the orgasm. However with her ex she had them in every position and once told me she loved to be on top with him the most.

Somewhere I read that per a survey women whos’ mates had larger penises tended to have more flings with other guys. I know plenty of guys (no idea about their sizes) whos’ wives aren’t interested in sex at all. So, I think women who genuinely put a high priority on sex want bigger while those who put a low (or no) priority on sex simply say “size doesn’t matter”, which, in their cases is true.

Penis Size Matters: Well-Endowed Men More Likely To Be Cheated On By Wife, Says Study

I would guess that there are other factors involved with those couples that are causing wives to cheat on their husbands.

With the caveat that porn itself is very distorting and sets ridiculously unrealistic expectations, I did watch a video interviewing a bunch of actresses in the industry asking their personal preferences for penis sizes. So we’re talking about women who have experienced plenty of different ones.

The majority of the interviewees said 6” to 8” was their preferred length. Smaller penises were not as satisfying to this majority, though multiple women said creativity and good use of hands and mouths could more than compensate for shortness.

Still, many of them were decidedly not fans of anything much longer than that, saying it often was uncomfortable or even painful. More than one said they did not enjoy really long penises and had a hard time seeing how the guy could enjoy it much, either, seeing as he could not fully penetrate them. Some also said such guys were not very good at sex because they seemed to think being long was enough for satisfying a woman and didn’t put much effort into it.

Nearly all of that same group, though, said that when it comes to vaginal intercourse, girth was an important (if not more important) factor. The more girth, they said as would be expected, the better.

That makes sense. Of course it depends on the lady in question. My wife has experienced someone who was both long and insanely thick and she said it was incredible. However she may be somewhat unique in that regard.

I think most of them are like that. Besides, the whole size thing wouldn’t be spoken about if there wasn’t any truth in it.