Rethinking how much size matters to women

But all other things being equal, which one would they pick. The big dick or the average dick?

Mrs Finisher is a 3. She has traits of both and I’m in love with that.

That’s a false equivalence. Nothing is ever equal.

My perspective is that making a woman laugh, and smile, regularly paves the way for all that follows, dick size aside. The most erogenous part of a woman’s body is behind her eyes and between her ears. Capture that and she will cum, repeatedly, as long as you don’t make it about you. It’s about her. Save your orgasm for the end….

From a man who in his 60 plus years has slept with way too many women, but who has had sublime long term relationships based on the above.

“If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything.”

- Marilyn Monroe

Truth!

Sure, I don’t think anyone would argue that. But the question isn’t “is size more important than personality, happiness, wealth, etc.”. The question is “how much does size matter”, which I think equates to isolating size alone and considering that one factor in isolation of all the other traits a male partner brings to the table. And if given the choice, I strongly believe based on experience that women would prefer their partner is larger than average if they could somehow wave a magic wand and choose their partner’s size.

Ok young guys. I’m now 59yo. @NYT is giving solid advice here.

You guys should look at the “Importance of Penis Size Relative to Other Attributes” from this:
hxxps://calcsd.info/preferences.html

This is on par with what I have experienced. A larger than average penis is fine, but not very important and especially not if we are talking long time relationships.
Penis size is (on average) as important to women (on average) as if you enjoy cooking or the color of your eyes.
My guess is that this apply to the “average penis”.. ie. if you are within average bounds most women really don’t care.
BUT, remember “on average” means that for SOME women penis size is important (look at the graphical representation).
Example.. 15% thinks penis size is more important than your wallet size (60% thinks your wallet size is more important).
and also BUT… being too small (or too big) can be a blocker .. ie. table on the left.. but there is a 3x higher chance of hitting a block from being too small than being too big!

That’s a great resource, thanks for sharing. Love the calculator tool they provide.

This is accurate from an evolutionary perspective. The size of human penis compared to other primates indicates it is a sexually selected feature. IOW, it is important enough to result in modestly larger penises over very long time frames, but not important enough to result in materially larger penises over short time frames. Indeed there are traits that are so undesirable that they essentially eliminate themselves within a couple generations. So if having a very large penis was that important, the average would still be growing.

But the fact that it is obviously sexually selected for modestly larger size indicates that it does have some importance. Simple evolution would suggest that any study throughout the evolution of humans would have women on average preferring penises that are just slightly larger than the actual population average but not using penis size as a primary characteristic in choosing a mate. Which is exactly what your linked studies show. Which, BTW, is the same for breast size in women. Men overall prefer breasts that are just slightly larger than average, and consider other characteristics (shape, firmness, position) to be more important and still enjoy all sizes. Similarly, human breasts are the only primate breasts to be engorged when not nursing. So we don’t need to wring our hands over this one. The answer is obvious.

I can say just this: my dick is not big (17.5cm / 12 cm) but I have had enough sex with different kinds of women. I guess I am a nice, intelligent and good-looking guy and those qualities perhaps attract some women. However, many women have wanted to sleep me after the first time (more than once, that is) and have asked me to come over just for sex.

My reasoning: size matters to some women, but at least I have met many women who have enjoyed sex enough to ask for more. Maybe also them would have preferred a bigger penis but does that really matter if they have wanted to have sex and it has been pleasurable to both?

(The above holds true when I think the issue rationally. Currently I feel that my dick is shrinking and I am sure that I am completely inadequate). That’s how it goes, unfortunately.

Women are the reason mens penises grew larger?

https://www.sci ence.org/conten … word-penis-size

Well, of course women are the reason. If they didn’t care, we wouldn’t either.

They have a good reason too. Imagine if you couldn’t never cum because women’s pussies on average are too loose. It would be the same perhaps, us men looking for a tight pussy in the sea of loose ones. Of course I tried to make an analogy to this statement so you can see it from this point. We can argue whether pussies can actually get loose or they are just highly accommodating. Nonetheless, the good thing is that we can actually do something about that size thing.