Rethinking how much size matters to women

That’s my belief at least. She tells me all of her friends talked about their boyfriend’s size back in the day. If it didn’t matter then I can’t imagine why else they would discuss it. And her circle of friends were very conservative (I.e we’re not slutty by any stretch).

my wife is a low libido woman, she didn’t like dating or flings much before me, and I’m only her third for intercourse and 5th or 6th for giving a BJ. She is one of those women not interested in sex, although she gets herself in the mood to make me happy. While it kind of sucks that she doesn’t have a libido closer to mine, it is also nice that I really don’t need to worry about her seeking out flings—I think about this whenever I fantasize about her being a higher libido size queen sex maniac. The grass isn’t always greener and her low libido is made up for by being a good partner in other ways and good mom to our son.

Regarding size, she has said I’m the girthiest she’s been with (one guy was longer but she said the whole thing was painful and not memorable so I think he may have been ramming her cervix). She says I was her first vaginal orgasm. She says she would still love me with a small dick, but definitely is happy with what she got instead. BJs are already tricky for us

I had an older sister and I remember hearing a lot of her conversations with friends. It’s insane how often size came up. Yes it mattered, and these weren’t the typical mean girl beauty queens or anything, just normal chicks. It was a deal breaker, like sometimes they’d be complaining about a cute guy who was sweet but had a tiny one, or reverse, a douchebag who was an asshole but had a big one and therefore got more passes for being a douchebag.

It can really mess with your head overhearing this stuff as a teenage boy or at any age for that matter

I believe under the right circumstances most women if not any can be slutty. They just need that part in themselves to be unlocked by something or somebody. Of course we are talking about a certain power over that woman, that if used correctly it can be a beauty to witness, but if abused it can totally destroy her. Big power (or cock) comes with big responsibilities.

Absolutely. Anyone who knows my wife would never expect how much she loves big dicks and getting pounded. But I always treat her like a princess, warm her up with my tongue, and make sure she cums several times before I start fucking the living hell out of her.

I like your style! I think I may borrow it if you don’t mind :D

Go for it. In fact she just asked me for quickie to my surprise after a marathon session last night. :-)

Very well my friend. My wife after orgasm by oral sex doesn’t want to know about penetration anymore, her libido goes away. I really wanted to and make her cums with my dick

Trying fingering her with 2 fingers while you give her head but using a slow motion and pressing upwards (towards her stomach). That should warm her up for penetration and she will likely crave something bigger than your fingers.

Sometimes I like to tease my girl up to the edge with oral/fingers a few times and then throw the pipe to her. The orgasm after teasing her and then pounding her is pretty insane.

It also makes for some hot dirty talk when I back off and tell her she’s not allowed to cum yet. Sometimes I’ll even pound her up to the edge, pause for a second to make her think I’m just teasing her again, and then pound her home. That pause does something crazy

I like your style! I used to date a girl that I would tease like that. I’d only put the head in and tell her that’s all she gets today. Would drive her insane.

The more I think about this topic I really think size matters but only to a small degree and the main hype around big ones is definitely media and porn. With more women watching porn now too it’s easy for them to say oh I want a 10” one or become more curious about trying it since the girls in porn fake it and are always making lots of noise. I will say though a while ago I saw some romantic porn clip and the guy must have been 5x5.5 and was having the girl shaking like crazy. I think size helps but technique and the ability to be sexy and drive the mental hotness of sex to a woman might be key.

Okay you have your choice; you must spend 25 years with either one of these two women. Woman number 1;pretty,great body, great in bed, doesn’t really cook, not exactly a cleaner around the house, and a blah personality and not great at conversations. Woman number 2; cute, decent body, ok in bed, cooks great meals, keep the house nice, laughs at your jokes and is interesting to talk to. Pick one.

2 no contest

Then think about how women think; a guy with a big dick but he’s kind of a dick or a guy with an average one that is kind, caring, provides for her and helps her. There is far more to life and relationships than sex.