Rethinking how much size matters to women

I’ll add my thoughts on this though this has been hashed and rehashed before:

1) Size matters more to women than they are willing to admit.

2) However it is less than we as men tend to believe.

Moral of the story:

Engage in pe untill you think that you have what you feel is adequate. At that point you can feel confident that you are there size wize (see #2 above). If you are confident and have sufficient size you will be a nuclear bomb in the presence of the ladies. Don’t be needy, clingy. Be clear that you are the man and have options. (there is plenty of willing pussy out there). You will live on your terms whether you choose a committed relationship, dating, ons, fuck buddy or whatever.

Inner game is king. Study the masters and model them. It helps if it is part of your core beliefs so as to be completely congruent.

The School of Higher Projection and Transference is now open. Come, get your learn on!

If one statement by a mean spirited bitch can alter a man’s perception of self-worth as well as his idea of all womens’ size preference, certainly the more common claim that “size doesn’t matter to women” should have a larger impact than he allows it to.

But no:
The statement “Your dick is the smallest I have ever seen” will crush ten-thousand “I really don’t care what size your cock is - it doesn’t matter.”
We will even go so far as to invent a perception and apply it to all women to suit our fears and insecurities.

How many “Women Like Em Big and They’re All A Bunch of Liars If They Say Otherwise” threads have to show up before a thought bubble appears over our collective heads filled with these words:
“Gee, women aren’t one dimensional creatures. Far from it. Hmmm, maybe there is more to a woman’s sexual pleasure than the size of the cock she’s being stuffed with. Maybe, in fact, it is very low on their list!”

Need more proof: Vibrators. Pulsating Water Massagers. Fingers. Tongues. Unreciprocated Blow Jobs. Motorcycle Rides. Washing Machine Rides. Cuddling.

Lesbians.

I have even heard it said that young women would reach orgasm - they would literally climax - during Beatles concerts in the early 1960’s.
Now, I don’t know how big Ringo’s cock is, but I can tell you that I watched those Beatles tapes and I have watched John Holmes’ tapes and I still have yet to see Holmes, with all that cock, illicit anywhere near the same ear-piercing, earth-shattering, brain-numbing, pussy-cooking screams the four lads from Liverpool did.
And all without laying a single inch of meat-pipe.

Cap

I’m impressed!

But you forgot about horse back riding.

Not to mention the women that like to horse-back ride while listening to the Beatles.

Very nicely said Captn.

Your seminar takes on even more meaning in a world of men that have no faith or belief in PE. We, however, have ability to change our size. We on this forum are a step above that and with changing ones size comes the confidence and the ability and improve all other areas (physical and nonphysical) of ones life therefore in this sense PE is only a catalyst for change and merely a stepping stone to bigger and better things. Besides that, it couldn’t hurt to be 8x6 :) and if there is a reasonable chance that one could do it—

WHY NOT TRY?

Need less to say but there’s more to life than just PE and I know that you would agree with that statement (as evidenced by your previous post.) If ones objective is to be more popular with woman then I think that you do need to look for change from within but the physical change has to start somewhere too. I believe that if you have faith in yourself and maintain a Holistic approach to this life and maintain a healthy attitude and makes the necessary adjustments in life whether they be physical or mental, then one stands a reasonably good chance of making woman scream like the four boys from Liver Pool.

I love those guys!

Close your eyes and I’ll kiss you
Tomorrow I’ll miss you
Remember I’ll always be true
And then while I’m away
I’ll write home every day
And I’ll send all my loving to you

I’ll pretend that I’m kissing
The lips I am missing
And hope that my dreams will come true
And then while I’m away
I’ll write home every day
And I’ll send all my loving to you

All my loving I will send to you
All my loving, darling I’ll be true

Close your eyes and I’ll kiss you
Tomorrow I’ll miss you
Remember I’ll always be true
And then while I’m away
I’ll write home every day
And I’ll send all my loving to you

All my loving I will send to you
All my loving, darling I’ll be true
All my loving, all my loving ooh
All my loving I will send to you

Thanks for sharing that bit of wisdom Captn. :)

Cap -

That’s one of my favorite posts ever.

I might as well add my 2 cents worth to this discussion. I’m 83 years old and still active sexually. In my life-time I have had intercourse with about 200 ladies - from ages 19 to 81. My erect penis is only 6.7 inches long and 5.7

around - sort of average - certainly NOT large. Only five ladies offered to say my penis was large - they were small Orientals. Many said that they liked my “staying power” and the hardness of my erection. All 200 had orgasms with me - and some had multiple orgasms and quite a few ejaculated fluid themselves, DELIGHTFUL !! No one night stands - all can back repeatedly for more……………… and more………..

I think technique and experimentation to provide complete satisfaction for the lady in very important - Try to give them what they desire including, oral

sex, slow or fast thrusting, deep or shallow penetration, DO Not hit her cervix, always have plenty of lubrication, stimulate her clitoris as she desires,

caress her labia - suck on them, pull them gently into your mouth - ENJOY!!

If you prematurely ejaculate - use your lips, fingers and tongue to bring her to orgasm - NEVER leave her “hanging”. If you follow these suggestions; size

really doesn’t matter much!!

riddick81,

You are my new Yoda!

Are you god?

I really think you are. No, I really do.

What about couples that want a well-endowed relief pitcher?

I’ve heard of that.

On the one hand, a woman was willing to marry a guy that didn’t have a certain size. But on the other, wanted (fill in the blank) for (fill in the blank).

It would be interested to know what that would signify? Maybe TT can diagnose?

If I remember correctly, Madonna specifically targeted NBA players as sex partners, at one point. She of course eventually had children and got married to non-NBA alums. Somewhat of a dichotomy. Where is TT?

That wouldn’t apply to all women of course. Still interesting nonetheless.

lol, I’m confused. But yes Maxtro does want to get laid more often, much more often that he does.

I really need to stop and think about what my penis means to me. Right now I’m ashamed of how small I am and I really wish I was bigger. It has hurt my self-confidence knowing that most women want something that is about two inches more than I have. So the obvious answer is to do PE and get bigger.

But the issue is that I don’t enjoy PE and I can only do it late at night after my Grandma goes to sleep. I consider it to be too much effort and for what purpose? luvdadus signature of “…no need to have a big dick if you ain’t gonna use it!!” is exactly how I feel. If I’m not getting laid at least once a week, I feel that I’m only wasting my time with PE. But now that I think about it, I should just shut the hell up and do the damn PE.

Anyways, getting a bigger dick is only one step toward me becoming successful with women. While I don’t like my dick it hasn’t stopped me from having sex and I’m not afraid to show it to any woman…..as long as she does not mention size.

BTW I hate it when guys say “I’m only 6+ inches.” Leave the only’s for the guys that are under 6 thank you very much.

Nice cap. Very nice.

I often find myself agreeing with supersizeit’s views. Thought the graph that supersizeit presented a good illustration to clearly make a point But as can also be gathered from supersizeit’s posts in this thread, it is more than just that black and white graph. Captn’s post jumps out as impressive also. This has really turned out to be a good thread as excellant points are brought to the table by not only many very wise vets showing up in this thread (like doctor luvadus), but also by non vets. Anna is the only female here so far and I know it must sometimes feel to her like she is up against a lot in explaining her viewpoints. I know many men like having her input just like I do. Not many women would participate in this PE world of all men like anna does and the other ladies here do. Anna has consistently jumped into the crowd and rubbed elbows in indepth discussions at Thunder’s.

Interesting thread. I just noticed it today, where have I been? Anyways, I’m tired so I’ll keep it short.

Its more fun being big, than it is being small. My current gf likes them big, no doubt about it. Reasons? It turns her on visually, and she likes when I hit the cervix, although she’s still adjusting to the discomfort.

Its hard to be mad at a girl for admitting she likes big dicks. Its the same as me liking big chests, and nice asses. Its easier to deal with when you have it, versus dealing with it when you don’t have it. I don’t really care anymore how much size matters to women in general. You’ll never find an exact answer, as every situation and opinion is different. I just worry about how much size matters to me and to a lesser extent, to my gf.

(Recorded Game 2 of the Finals, heading off to watch it.)

EZ,

A few months back, a saleslady that was taking my purchase, slowly bent down reaching for something behind the counter (I have no idea what it may have been as I was very distracted at this point), no doubt knowing I was going to get a full view. She did this despite the fact she was telling me about a trip she just got back from with her boyfriend. She took her sweet time showing them off almost completely. I’m only human and had to look, it’s not everyday a woman I hardly know does that in front of me. That did confuse me her doing that while talking about her boyfriend. All this talk about women that work at hospitals has got me wanting to increase my PEing to get as good a flaccid as I can in case I somehow wind up in a hospital bed one day. I may have a SO, but that doesn’t keep me from wanting to have a good flaccid for those bulgewatchers.