Rethinking how much size matters to women

I agree mravg. I am making a generalization. It has just “in general” been my experience from the women I have been with that the more partners they have had in general, the more size mattered to most of them. I remember one girlfriend I had that I could not penetrate all the way because it hurt her too much. That was before I started PE. Not all women are the same I am making a generalization.

Mravg,

There’s a great deal of convergence between your views here and those I expressed in the other thread I linked to. I think this is a real key to understanding the whole “does size matter” thing.

Para, I just read your post in the other thread, and it seems I almost restated your thoughts, although I hadn’t seen it at the time I posted my last comment. Great minds think alike I guess.

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I totally agree with this. I was at a party and 4 girls I know were talking about dick size and what they liked (they didn’t know I was listening though). They were saying they like really large dicks and one even went out with a black guy for a while as his was huge. I know that all of these girls have been around ALOT (probably 60-80+ at a guess). My current girlfriend was amongst them and when I commented later she said “I don’t really like them really big though” which to me probably means around 8-9 inches but not more. She also said “yours isn’t THAT small”. I’ve had this said a couple of times by girls and it basically means it’s small but not really small!

Ugh. Just what a guy wants to hear. How did you take that?

Statistically, a 9 inch penis is huge, considering 90% of men have 5-7 inch penises.

Besides, I wouldn’t be surprised she considered a 7 inch penis to be 8 or 9 inches long. Women DO NOT know how to evaluate the size of a penis, they usually add some cm, especially if the penis is already bigger than average.

Where did you get 90% from?

The degree to which size matters to women is equal to the degree to which it matters to you.

Get to your own goal in PE. Personally when I got to 8”, I had a huge epiphany on penis size, and that was that the irrelevancy of any comments, insults, concerns etc etc etc made, heard, read, from any source becomes apparent when you reach your own goal. After that, it’s completely up to you and further gains will be much much sweeter than those inteded to remove your own insecurities.

Decide what you want, and work hard to get that, fuck everything else: it’s irrelevant.

That is true, I remember my Ex went around telling people I had an 8 inch cock. People actually asked if I had that. I didn’t mind it.

Not very well but hid it from her. I think the more you talk about having a small dick the less she will think of you. If a guy has physical characteristics that he doesn’t like e.g. small dick, is short etc but he acts like he doesn’t give a shit, this is better than whining about it like a little girl. It has also given me more PE motivation. I would have thought it was average at about 6.8 inches BPEL and 5.25 girth. I liked her comment “blah blah likes them huge and so does blah blah but I don’t like them “really” big” which means she likes them big. Shit if I was a girl I would be the same (why not!).

Your size absolutely is in the average catagory, at least (about the same as mine in fact). If a girl calls you small, I would suspect she is playing some mind games with you. You always have to wonder what the motivation is for a girl to say something so mean, even if you were small, which you are not.

I agree with yor philosophy though, just act like you don’t give a shit.

So this thread is still going? Well, this is a topic that will be debated forever.

I know the stripperweb.com poll has been discussed elsewhere here at Thunder’s. But I don’t think it’s been mentioned in this thread. It’s only one source, but it’s a frank discussion among women, some of whom are most likely quite experienced. I’ve consistently heard the same in my own discussions with women on the subject, and from my own eavesdropping experiences! I think the stripperweb stuff shows, as someone here has already said, (1) that size does matter to most women; however, (2) it does not matter to the extent that we are often inclined to believe. 7" is the winner. 6" is not far behind. 8" is in third, but it’s a reasonable distance behind 6" and 7". 5" is doing almost as well as 9", and, yes, 4.96% percent of the women (strippers!) polled do like them over 9".

So, yes, size does matter. But the "ideal" for many women is not far above the average size for men! It’s a goal that most of us can reach.

Note as well how much girth is stressed by these women. I think most of us here recognize that girth is often more important to women than length. Still, when these discussions come up (among women as among men), length is always the focus. Why do we do that? Why are we so much more obsessed with length, even when we know that girth is often more important to the ladies?

Regarding Stripperweb.com poll:
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, YES 29% favor 6 inches (as the second most popular size), BUT the staggering thing I get from this poll is that 65% of ALL THESE WOMEN favor a penis size of 7 inches or bigger.

Very very interesting considering the average erect penis size is only 5.75” long.

If this is, in fact, a decent sample (which could be debated either way) then this tells you that 2 out of 3 women would ideally prefer something bigger than 7” long. And that’s just the length side of their ideal. As motivated points out, a thick girth seems to be even more important.

I’m telling you this must be a sick joke by God. :D

That’s one way to look at it. But it’s also true that nearly 70% prefer a penis that is 7” or less! Given that the average size is somewhere around 6” (noting the controversies here), this means that the “ideal” for most women is well within our reach! So I don’t know if it’s a sick joke by God. God seems to want us men to work a little at it. But he’s made it very possible. Kind of like life generally.

Further, bearing in mind that even 8” is well within the reach for a good number of us, it is important to note that nearly 90% of women prefer a penis 8” or under! We can happily forget about the remaining 10%.

I bet it’s much the same for girth. Women rarely give measurements when discussing “ideal” girth. They just say things like “nice girth,” or “thick,” etc. But I suspect that the statistical winner is not that much thicker than the average of 5”, probably 5.5” to 6” range. But this is just a guess. I don’t know.

What’s really interesting is that only 3 women choose 10” in the stripperweb poll, but 9 women choose 11”+. There you go, size queens hold nothing back!

This is incorrect. According to the poll, only 32.64%, or approximately 1 in 3, prefer something bigger than 7”. And remember, this number really drops off after 8”.