Separating Masturbation and PE

This is really a thread to myself, to encourage me to separate masturbation and PE formally. I need to delineate work-time and play-time in a much more meaningful way.

The issue is that wet-jelqing usually starts to feel pretty good, and masturbation after a good clamp is amazing.

But, even though it feels good, the thought of an orgasm wandering around the back of my mind during my workout, is much like considering a post-gym drink during lifts and a long run.

You cannot allow those distractions to interfere with your workout in the gym or with PE, nor with any activity you are working on for improvement. Your work must be focused, without interruption, or you will never achieve your goals.

So this is a message to me, from myself, posted here in the hopes that it will stick: Saul, you need to focus on your PE, especially your girth routines, and worry about masturbating later. I give you permission to jelq and squeeze when you are already masturbating, but the official PE workout needs to conclude with ~no~ happy ending. If you want to masturbate later, that’s fine, but give it at least two hours after your workout, in order to thoroughly separate the two activities in your mind.

They might both feel pretty good sometimes, but remember: masturbation is not PE, and PE is not masturbation.

And I need to separate these two things in my mind. Time to step into the ring with my own mental impulses…

- Saul

Every now and then I milk the tube until completion, that’s just how it goes sometimes.

I have done the same from the beginning. I tried to totally separate the two. In the beginning I did go over the edge a few times, but I got better at that. I also take at least a two hour break between PE and masturbation. I’ve seen better gains and better EQ if I don’t masturbate at all after my PE routine. So I try to only masturbate on my off days. But that’s a personal matter. If masturbation doesn’t influence your gains, then enjoy it.

Thoughts alone could change the penis behaviour on most, unleashing the perfect conditions for the masturbation and ejaculation.

Learning to avoid these thoughts could be a start if the excitement kicks in while doing PE.

My only P. E. At present is bundled stretches, which never have a “happy” ending.

Some time I cum at the end if my sessions. Sometimes I don’t. When it feels really good I do. This last week I have been experimenting some advice of Mantak Chia basically to only ejaculate once every 8 days for a man my age. I’ve had sex nearly every day, without finishing (she sure finishes though and she’s extatic about the focus on her). And my sessions are a challenge to not cum. But I feel like it’s giving me control.