Sex and PE

Hi everyone,

So I’m using my PM every weekday for about 6 hours (taking breaks every hour). IN the evening I do about 10 minutes of jelqing in the shower (gonna add some manual stretching too).

My question is: Is it supposed to be difficult to PE the day after having sex?

Last night my wife gave me a bj and let me cum on the sheets (oh well…still hoping she’ll let me finish in her mouth one day). I had just finished my shower and jelqing about 30 miunteds prior and ealier during the work day, I did about 6 hours of PM.

Today, I’m kinda sore and feel that PEing is difficult after having and orgasm the night before. It is sore, generally. But I can take it.

Any thoughts? Should I take a break the day after?

Rambone,

This is just my opinion, but I think you should take a break when you feel you need it. That might sound like a cop out, but caution is better than injury. Of course it’s a fine line as you don’t want to be PEing for years to reach your goal.

My advice would be to experiment with taking breaks when you feel you need them, and keeping a detailled record of your PE actions. It really is useful, and enjoyable almost, to read old log entries to see how things were, what seems to be working, what not etc.

I think the above approach is one of very few viable ones, as several vets might reply and tell you what they do and what’s worked for them, but it might not be what you should do.

Rambone, is your first name Dick? :) I would say that you may want to wait an hour or so before you have sex after doing any kind of PE just to let things settle. I think when you orgasm too soon after PE your penis retracts when it should be in it’s stretched out state. I would also try doing kegals. Even if I did have sex after PE the kegals help to speed recovery up.

It feels like this helps in my recovery time. If nothing else do what Mr. ICM said and experiment. See how your body reacts. I know, I know, having sex is a tedious boring process but if it helps you with PE, I am sure you can make a sacrifice.

-Tom “Moby Dick” Foolery

Rambone,
I know that when my wife gets “heavy handed” and gets a little too rough, I am also sore then next day.
I guess my question would be are you sore because of what your wife did or because of the PE?
If it is the PE, then ICM’s advice is probably your only real alternative.

PS. I’m still waiting for the wife to let me cum in her mouth too (:

HI guys,

Thanks for the good replies. And no, my first name isn’t Dick, but I have one that is so far unnamed (I’m waiting till I reach my PE goal of 8.5 NBPEL or more).

Anwyay, I always have some soreness after any orgasm be it from intercourse, oral, or manual. That’s the way it’s been all my life. I’m using the PM and had it on for about 6 hours a day (taking breaks when needed.) I just find that the day after sex, my penis is extra sore and it is not as relaxed (seems to shrink back from the soreness). PM is more uncomfortable the next day.

I decided to go back to a shorter rod length on the PM but turn the screws out so that the length is about the same but maybe with a bit less tension. My experiment in the past week was to do this (backing down the rod length and tension) and I found that my comfort level and shrinkage was eliminated. I started getting good stretches to the point where I felt I needed more tension. Perhaps I jumped the gun again. Adding another inch to the rods and shortening the screws added a lot more tension but I think my penis began to protest the intensity again by shrinking from the discomfort again.

So today, the PM is 1 inch shorter and screws are all the way out. It feels like there’s too much slack.

<40 minutes later> I take it back, there’s no lack of tension here. Didn’t have any sex last night so my penis isn’t generally sore except for the skin around the glans rim. The problem is that even when wrapped I need to have the rubber strap of the PM on so tight (so as not to slip through) that it makes the skin sore.

The gains seem to have slowed… newbie gains in the begining I guess. I’m on my 4th week of PM.

Rambone

Take a break, if it feels sore, eat or drink some pineapple or p-juice, and tell your wife to not be such a wuss! :D

I’m just kidding, Ram.

Seriously, if you feel sore on the INSIDE of your dick, take a couple of days off. Being sore is a good thing to quote jailbird-soon-to-be Martha, but you don’t want to over do it. Give it some rest and time to heal. When you hit the shower in the morning, try to abstain from jelqing, just concentrate on your ligs for a couple of days. Do some stretching under hot water….