Should I Stop at BPEL8" or Should I Keep going?

It’s more of a cosmetic thing, for the illusion of extra length, like shaving (shaving around the area makes it appear larger).

BPEL 8 is pretty huge and it is within most knowledge that unless your girl is a size queen then she probably will not be able to handle such length.

Listen to sta-kool’s advice but I also recommend against any more PE just use your unit and see the responses from the females!

That’s just funny, I’m at 7.5bpel and the last girl I hooked up with probably could have taken an extra 2 inches. 8BPEL is not small, I’ll grant you that, but females can handle it.

But in reality females handle childbirth, which is way bigger than anything a penis can throw at them!

I am 7.5 BPEL and the wife can handle it, not banging on the roof yet. Goal 8 BPEL and 6 EG. The girth is hard to get. I have 1/2 inch to go.

I’m around 7BPEL and I bottom out frequently. I have basically no fat pad. Depends on the girl really. It’s all about relevance my friends.

Childbirth is a process where the anatomy is changing for 9 months, the actual delivery involves tearing and an 8 to 24 hrs process of labor. It’s not the same.

A salient point djrobins.

The two things are entirely unrelated and it’s completely specious to link the two.

While it should be said that there are indeed women who can handle large and extra-large sizes it is not uncommon to bottom out on women with length’s of 7”+. Obviously the more length you have the more likely you are to bottom out.

It is also possible to bottom out with less than that, albeit somewhat more uncommon. As to HardbodyPEer’s idea that she probably could have taken an extra 2 inches… Well, we’ll never know, will we?

Pure speculation unless you have a speculum.

But let’s talk about bottoming out, shall we?

In my experience, very often bottoming out is not fun for the woman at all. Most of my experiences have included some variation of “ow” or the like and all the fun stopping for a bit. When recovery has been achieved, things started much more slowly and care had to be taken.

That said, the few that like it seem to like it a lot.

On balance I’d say that maybe we should reconsider trying to build great giant dicks with the goal of being able to bottom out at will predicated on the rationale: “the chicks dig it.” Not all of them do. For many hitting the cervix (or beyond) is quite painful.

Now some folks do like a little pain, others can get so aroused that what might otherwise cause pain goes unnoticed (until afterward, but that’s a whole other discussion) under circumstances of extreme arousal, and so on.

Lot’s of variations to this.

Be careful of buying too heavily into certain ideas about what it means to have an extra large dick. Good sex is specific, there is not a one size = the ideal for all.

A lot depends on what your partners like; they won’t all like the same things equally.

I remember on Loveline Adam Corolla invented a device to keep guys with really long dicks from bottoming out. It was basically a wide foam ring that went at the base of your dick to limit penetration. If I ever get too long I’ll have to make one for myself. Also, does anyone know if there’s a such thing as too long for anal? I figure length is less of a problem there than girth.

The simple point I’m making is the vagina is designed to deliver childbrith. Therefore, no Penis is ever “too big” in terms of girth.

There’s a times online article that suggests the vagina can stretch up to 200% it’s usual size (page 2)
The Times & The Sunday Times

And the simple points that you seem to be missing are:

1. Generally, women do not undergo childbirth for the pleasure of the experience.

2. To expand on djrobin’s point about the anatomy changing during pregnancy - there are hormonal changes during pregnancy that increase the ability of the pregnant woman’s body to stretch to accommodate childbirth. That is not a permanent state of being. So to the extent that the largest human penis (absent disease states) is likely smaller than the average circumference of a newborn’s skull, you are technically right, at least toward the end of full-term maternity.

Any other time, a penis can be too big in terms of girth for a woman’s pleasure. And let’s face it - I don’t care whether I am too big for women in general. I care about whether I am too big for the individual woman I am with. At that moment, the size of the population sample I care about equals 1.

Exactly.

Here’s the quote:
The normal vagina can expand by up to 200 per cent during sex, so size is rarely an issue unless a woman isn’t fully aroused.

The key words there are up to. This is true of our penises as well.

Erectile tissue can expand up to 200%, but does it always? In men’s anatomy there are show-ers and grow-ers. Grow-ers tend toward the upper end of this 200% spectrum. Show-ers, not so much. The same sort of variation and limitation can be found in the corresponding female anatomy. The idea is that it provides a wide range of biological compatibility.

This does not mean you should expect or demand your girl to expand that way to accommodate the giant penis you someday hope to achieve.

C’mon guys. Priorities…

I think the difference in the sexes is even shown right in that article.

Two people respond to the question "When I make love with my girlfriend it causes her pain. She says I’m just too big. Are there any positions you can suggest that will make sex less sore?" Dr. Thomas Stuttaford responds on page one and Suzi Godson at the bottom of page one and page two.

Dr. Stuttaford says:
Don’t be concerned about your girlfriend’s comments. The causes of pain on intercourse in women are legion.

He goes on to say why and make a good point about relaxation but "Don’t be concerned about your girlfriend’s comments." ??? Really?

I think the Dr. might be thinking overly clinically and his bedside manner probably needs improvement. Just a guess. Don’t let it happen to you.

Compare that to Suzi Godson, who says:
Sex shouldn’t hurt.

I think she speaks for most women. Yeah, yeah, I know "C’mon baby, make it hurt so good" blah, blah, blah. Thing is it takes a while for women to get there - even the ones who are willing to go.

Just because something can, potentially, expand 200% doesn’t mean it will or it should.

Mr. Happy is always spot on.

I will add however, that there may be a difference between a “girlfriend” and a long term partner or wife. It has taken my wife time to adjust to my gains, but according to her it has been well worth the effort. We are talking about months, maybe even years to adjust.

Now I am not saying to “just get used to it baby”. Nor am I saying that every woman will adjust as well as my wife. (Evidenced by those two wives who invented that spacer thing in the article.)

If a man and a woman want to be together in the long term, they should not split because his penis is too big any more than if it is too small. A way will be found, whether it comes down to technique, lubricant, simply not sticking all the way in, having the woman adjust over time, or getting some of those “spacers”.

Having said that, a single man with a big penis having casual sex is going to have problems with some women. It is going to be too big for some, just right for others. But a single man with an average dick is going to have the same problems.

If I were single, I would still do PE all the way as big as I could get, but I would understand the limitations this may mean for casual sex, and adjust my technique accordingly. When the right woman comes along she would love me for the entire man, my penis size being a small part of the entire package, no matter what size it was.

As a married man the situation changes a lot, because she has already made her “purchase”. PE has been really good for me and my wife, but I can easily see how it may not for others. My advice would be to stop when she says stop. Then see if she adjusts completely to that size and revisit the topic. Newbie gains can be difficult for her as they can happen fast.

I will also say that in my most personal experience, and from reading posts, that there seems to be some sort of threshold at around 7-7.5 inches. Under that or over that, and there are few problems, but right in that zone seems to be where most of the complaints occur.

If a girl needs to take an epidural to tolerate your dick then you are “TOO BIG”.