Should I Stop at BPEL8" or Should I Keep going?

I’ve posted a similar thread to this in the past but in the past it was more of a hypothetical question. Now it’s actually (on a PE time-frame) an immediate concern.

The gains I’ve made up to this point I made through hanging weights and using ADS.

Since taking a long break I’m jelqing properly for the first time and getting what appear to be newbie gains.

At the rate I’m gaining I should hit my length goal (BPEL8”) within a couple of months.

There’s a part of me that thinks I should just keep going, partly for even more length but also because since I’ve disciplined myself not to blow my load every time I jelq I’m actually finding the less-is-more approach to jelqing emotionally invigorating.

It so slow a process (I started in late 2004), and no one has seen my unit to comment on its size. Without some kind of reference for some reason I can’t seem to believe I’m bigger (like you can’t feel an hour passing while looking at the hour-hand of a clock, I don’t feel like I’ve grown). Sometimes I think it must be impossible, and that I must have always been just under a bone-pressed 8”. Intellectually I know that’s not true — I know I’ve at least gained almost two inches — but I just don’t feel bigger. Also I feel like I’m smaller than porn actors that are clearly the same size or smaller than I am.

My question is whether people think I should keep going.

A psychiatrist I spoke to in the past told me ‘it’ll never be big enough’. Now I think I’m beginning to believe him. I think I’m at risk of making it too big for practical purposes chasing something I can never achieve.

Should I stop at BP8”? Should I carry on? Am I big enough?

I’d keep going, my magic point would be 9bpel, but even then, who knows, my thing is that it would def get me to 8.25NBPEL, which is the maximum length in the optimal range on the penissizedebate website, and I realize that the methods for such a chart may not be the best, I do think its a good guide to look at if you want to build the “optimal” penis.

You don’t do PE then stop,it should be something you do continually for thes rest of your ablebodied life.

So just keep going and when you’re at a size you’re comfortable with then concentrate on maintenance & cementing your gains.That’s my attitude to it anyway.

I’m just starting out in PE but I don’t envisage there being a day when I turn around and say it’s no longer for me,no matter how large I get along the way. This stuff does wonderous things to your Johnson and I’ll never ever want to give that up.

You shouldn’t either.

:)

I think, you should stop with the length, at least until to put it to good use. Is your girth where you want it to be right now?

Just be aware that the more you go past 8 BPEL, the more you are potentially costing yourself some fun during sex, like grinding close together. Balls deep etc. It’s different for every girl, how far you can go.. but odds wise, the closer you get to 9 the more chance you can’t use all of your length. When I watch the monster pornstars that can only fit half in, it doesn’t look like much fun.

Especially if it’s cowgirl, and she has to brace herself with her arms or legs to restrict how much can go in (or pain). But the ego and confidence of having that much cock would be nice. There must be a size where it is a good balance between the two, but so far I don’t know exactly what it is. It must be somewhere around 8BPEL though (hence why everyone always talks about it). Every now and then I search google about it, other forums come up (or blogs) and for the average non porn star girl, there IS such a thing as too big. Where it’s more trouble then what it’s worth. Like man-of-10, you could put it your gains to good use, then decide if it’s enough or not.

Here is one of the random articles/blogs I was talking about.

The Times & The Sunday Times

I would go into maintenance mode at 8.5BP, and start to prioritize girth. Several sources state that length beyond 8.0BP is generally unusable, so the implications of another 0.5EL is likely to be only visual.

As has been pointed out earlier; if you do stop, remember to do maintenance and periodically check that you aren’t losing length.

Finally, you should fill out your PE statistics page.

I would stop as soon as possible as you may be too big for your partner.

Wait to see from the reactions of your partner before proceeding with each 0.20/0.50 of size!

Blah, do not stop,

I plan to PE the rest of my life. Who knows what is possible with 20 years of PE.

Stop, no keep going, I mean stop, no no wait you should keep going……..or maybe stop. Or better yet admit you can’t stop.

You need to take your dick for a test drive. No hands :)

You can pretty easily bury 9 inches of non-bone pressed cock into a chick. So why wouldn’t you want to do that?

You should keep going.

Then you can walk into a bar and smile at any chick. She will ask you, “why are you smiling so, Mr. Fantastic?”

And you will reply, “well, miss, I have 9 thick inches of non-bone pressed cock that I am going to bury into you after you buy me drinks all night.”

Don’t you want to say that to a girl one day?

I know I do.

Go for it.

Uhm, 8” BPEL ain’t all that big, highly doubtful OP is too big for, his partner. Yeah I know, “but its well above average”, but as far as “big cocks” goes, 8” BPEL is like the bare minimum to be considered to have a big dick, its far from being “too big”.

Keep on going. If it becomes to painful for the woman, try new positions. My woman totally loves doggy style when we’re fully on the bed. Lately because of my ongoing knee problems, I’ve had to stand up off the bed and do doggy which is becoming too painful for her because I get more in at a different, higher angle so I have to hold back and can’t go balls deep. Time to find a new favorite position until the knee fully recovers.

As far as being ‘too big’, it depends on the woman not the size of your dick. Some chicks can fist a fist in there whiles others can barely fit a finger. It’s not the size of the organ but the size of the cathedral.

I think most of you guys are entirely ignoring this guy mentioning the psychological issues he is having and concentrating on the physical alone.

He has said in four-five years no girl. He has said he has spoken to a psychiatrist. He has mentioned what I see as the dreaded factor I have discussed before, feeling no bigger despite the physical facts (something I also have felt).

The issue here for Mr F isn’t can he get bigger, should he get bigger, but rather is he becoming trapped in a bad place mentally.

Having a 10” dick is great, if you are majorily depressed and end up taking your own life, maybe not so great, hu? And that happens a lot to young men, more than it should.

To Mr F, I’d pretty much say stop given your post. It sounds to me like you are becomming addicted to PE for PE’s sake. Why exactly are you PE-ing? Would 9” be enough, would you push it more and more and risk injury? Your length is great and you can always come back to PE in the future. My honest thoughts would be use your PE time to expand your life/thinking and use what you have gained.

Putting all your self worth in your penis is a bad place to get stuck in, in my view.