Should I tell her? she told me something similar...

I hear you regarding the improvement aspect, but since I am a fairly private kind of guy I tend not to inquire or volunteer info unless someone makes a specific offer or inquiry. Just me. I also don’t volunteer my bank balance, my phone is unlisted, the better shape I am in the more covered up I tend to keep myself.
I don’t have a particular concern regarding my wee-wee size; as I said to supersizeit over drinks, I won’t post pics of my wanger regardless of it’s size. Meaning when I get my 9*7, no pics posted nowhere. I send tons to lady friends, but never for publication and never with my face. That’s just me.

Actually I wouldn’t comment either way, except to put it to her. But then I didn’t offer any response to body comments when I was a serious bodybuilder.
That’s just me.
And I too wish only well, I just don’t talk much about myself- there are for more interesting topics.

I don’t find PE at all shameful, and have turned a few guys onto Thunder’s when the topic has come up, at their instigation. My concern in re ‘others’ opinions’ is rather that since I do not live in a swinger/ nudist orbit, the revelation of my PE adventures will impact how I interact with others in both my personal and professional lives, and I can do without the hassle.

Would you go into a job interview and offer the fact that you PE as your personal introduction? Do you think that your potential employer’s opinion on the fact is a matter of ‘who cares’? Do you tell your mother about it? Would you demonstrate it to her?

I have no desire to be ‘open’ with people as a whole- I choose to whom I reveal parts of myself. I like being circumspect.
Again, just me.

Regarding XXs who may well use that info to attempt to damage someone they are on the outs with- in my experience women tend to be more vicious when they feel personally slighted, and rarely consider the long term impact of their words if not their deeds. Unless you are willing to tattoo on your forehead that you PE, I wouldn’t offer that info to a galpal.

That said, I have gotten a couple to help me along with some jelqing and stretching as an aid to my ‘Penis Enhancement’, and have found that to a sort of intro to discussions about kegels and their sexual response, a’la zaneblue’s input.

Thal- luck to you in your PE adventure.

Thanks. Well said.

Maybe it isn’t an “embarrassment” issue, rather it’s a “I just don’t have the time, energy, or inclination to have the argument issue”. Another viewpoint to consider as to why a person might not want others to know about PE activities is the “me too” variable. Granted it’s not in the spirit of this board, but, let’s assume that everyone found this “holy grail” and started to PE. The average measurements would be drastically changed, thereby nullifying, at least to some extent, the work that some people have already put into PE. This is of course a fantasy scenario, not many people are going to put an effort into much of anything, just take a trip to your local mall and look at all the lazy fat slobs sitting around for proof.

If my ex had known anything like this, it would have been used in court to demonstrate my perverted-ness, although she was the one screwing the 16 year old kid from across the street. Don’t tell her, or any other woman that knows your full name. It will come back to bite off all those gains and more.