Should I tell her? she told me something similar...

Okay here is the situation. I have been with my current girlfriend for a good while now and I can honestly say that she is amazing in every way. We have pretty much everything in common and I honestly do love her. Though we are young (19 we met at College) and I am not to sure about the rest of our lives together or anything like that.

Lately we have been having sex a lot considering she went on the pill so I no longer have to spend $10 every week and a half or so on condoms. She has DEFINITELY noticed that I have been getting bigger (I am around 7.25 BPEL now). And I have to admit lately when she tightens up she gets so tight feeling it is amazing. I was wondering how she was doing that considering I have only gained 0.125” in girth (she noticed but its not a huge gain). I never asked her about it.

Just maybe two days ago she tightend up (like squeezed her muscles or whatever) and it was just amazing. I told her how amazingly tight she was feeling lately and she confessed something to me. She said that lately (last month and a half or so) she has been doing exercises where she tightens up all the muscles in there. She said she does them whenever she is bored or gets the chance to. I thought wow! that’s really similar to kegels and everything. I know that really exercises probably wouldn’t make her physically tighter or anything (as in the tissue itself) but definitely it made the muscles stronger and grip harder.

So, I was really amazed that she was doing this (it surprised me) and I asked her “what made you want to do it?” and she said: “Because I wanted to make it the best experience possible for you.” :) . I felt really great after hearing this and I thought “should I tell her about my PE?” She has been thinking that my length and girth gains have just been a very late growth spurt. I really felt like I should tell her. But I choked up and didn’t. I got thinking about how we go to the same college (don’t study the same things) but all of her friends are my friends and if we ever did break it off I wouldn’t want them all thinking I was some sort of weird guy or something. (to me people knowing about my PE would be embarrassing… especially close friends.) But I feel like I should tell her… I know she would give me the “you don’t have to! I love your size” speech.. but after that I know she would be the type to want to measure and check up on my gains and she would get just as excited as me with any gains :) . So I know she wouldn’t freak out and her response would be positive (to an extent). And I feel that if she was women enough to tell me about her exercises to improve our sex-life I should be man enough to tell her about mine.

What do you guys think?

Don’t tell her. For many reasons.

Nah man

Here’s the thing. It’s sweet and all that you want to be upfront with your girl. But 2-5-10 months from now after you break up, and you are no longer the love of her life but the scumbag she used to date, it will be used against you.

Especially since you are still in college and surrounded by other kids I wouldn’t put yourself in that situation.

Definitely true… I don’t think I will… hopefully I don’t slip up and say it

NO, don’t do it. As the others said plus you put control into another person’s hands. Why would anyone ever want to do that so early on? You could really set yourself up to be hurt. Wait to see how much you gain out of all this first and reach a goal if you even have one and tell me if you feel the same way.

By all means ,keep this secret to yourself.The love of a good woman can turn to the scorn of a vindictive bitch in the snap of a finger.Protect yourself young man.

Now those are some true words.

Yes wow so true.. I guess I was caught up in an aww moment and I am glad I didn’t slip up. I have the rest of my life ahead of me and telling probably in the long run would be a bad move. This would have been a big mistake and I am glad I didn’t tell and I know I wont tell. I guess… it is a growth spurt ;) …

Don’t tell her unless you put a ring on her finger and say ” I DO “. Then on your wedding night, just get naked and PE right there in front of her. She will love it.

Dude, you’re in college… go to the infirmary and get the condoms for free! And while you’re there, you should both get HIV and other STD tests done before having unprotected sex!

Why would you want to tell her about PE?

If you feel like sharing with her; tell her the story about how when you were 5 you stuck Fruit Loops up your nose and had to go to the emergency room. OR tell her about how the first time you masterbated and came, you thought you broke your dick… something that has happened to everybody; not our PE secret. (:

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If you get married some day, then tell her.

Girlfriends get jealous and bitter, they tell everything when you break up.

And wife’s don’t? :rolleyes:

Your wife i s your partner for life… If she hurts you she hurts her self also, because you are one and same person with two bodies.

What planet do you live on? Have you seen the divorce rate lately?
An ex wife will be way more vindictive than an ex girlfriend.

With that attitude, don`t ever get married. Losers divorce.