should you tell your son about PE

This makes me sad to read.

So take the opportunity, (not PE, just in general), to instill change. You remark with disdain about having “distanced negative and put-down” types of interaction. Your son will not profit by that. Would be a terrible waste to see you just give in and approach such an important issue with such a mindset. I have read many of your posts, and there’s much more to you than that.

Guess it'll have to stay like it is with my father and like past generations
It does not. Your relationship will be what you make it. Few things in your life will be more important, and nothing will be more important to your son.

I write this respectfully, don’t take offense.

/DT

I will tell my son (I don’t have a son yet) about PE at the age of 14 to 18. So that he can start at the prime developing age. I will guide him through and share all I have done in PE. I use an ADS designed by me. I will consider presenting him one.

For sure i will tell my son when he is about 12 years old. I dont think it will give him issues it will give him confidence. I will talk to him about all sorts of sex topics as well as life in general. My father was great but one thing he did poorly was talk to me about life. Every experience i had to have myself and there certainly would have been things i would have loved to have some coaching or a source of info on.

Maybe I am coming from this as a British man. I haven’t taught my sons how to mastabating but I know they both do. I think this regarding PE if my sons want to discover this they wouldn’t have to search that far to find this or other sites.

Two things make me say this my culture and knowledge that my sons won’t be too small. I might be different if I thought they only had a dick under 4” length and girth. I probably would be telling them and show them this site however it would be on their 18 birthday.

Totally agree.

I believe my boys took after me (seen them in underwear lots of times) so PE isnt something I want to plant in their head. When I was their age I bordered on 8” x 5” and had the same bulge.

Now, if they came to me asking, I’d tell them everything.

If we have sons, I will let them know. My Dad, a retired Navy officer, told me to stretch/pull a few minutes a few times a day. I think he presented it as a way to help me grow “big and strong.” I didn’t think anything of it because I looked up to him and I didn’t know about the joys of puberty as a 5 year old.

I think this may be a reason I was comfortable with my body growing up and why I experimented freely with other boys. Yeah, being gay was part of it, but I didn’t feel any shame comparing my body with other classmates. Only when we had communal showers starting in middle school did I notice other guys were self-conscious.

I ain’t married, no kids. I have been mulling to discuss PE with my nephew, a strapping 17 year old. But I have observed that kids tend to injure themselves more as opposed to the middle aged ones, around here. Their eagerness to get results overnight land them in trouble. That’s the reason I have kept my plan on hold.

I am 18 years old and I discovered the existence of PE when I was around 15 years old but I didn’t have either the privacy to perform the exercises or a way to obtain a device.
I only started PE seriously as I turned 18, as I was allowed more privacy and I got access to my bank account so I could purchase any device I pleased.

I kinda feel lucky for having discovered and started this early on, as I have obtained fast gains, probably due to the higher amount of testosterone.
I have performed PE responsibly without causing damage but I think many people my age would easily become impatient and risk their health to obtain faster results.
So I think that before telling any family member about PE you should assess their emotional maturity: think about how will he act if he doesn’t get good gains (think about how well does he handle losing, if he responds excessively it is a red flag), and if he is able to control himself properly (he may become obsessed if he is unable to control his feelings, what would end with him overtraining and probably hurting himself).

You should also be very careful about how to approach this subject. I would feel very awkward and embarrassed if my father talked about PE casually.
So I think you should only mention it if he asks you any question regarding PE or if you have a conversation about similar subjects (breast augmentations, surgeries or even bodybuilding) and you’re able to steer it into PE smoothly.

So in conclusion I think that not every teen would benefit from knowing PE (some of them may be too immature and prone to injuring themselves) but it can be extremely helpful for those who are having negative experiences in school for having a smaller than average instrument, as penis size is probably the most important thing for teens. At least here in Spain people with small penises are common joke targets and gossip about size is rampant. Personally, I had negative experiences in Gym class since I was an extreme grower to the point of avoiding showering after class, and completely avoided dating due to feeling insecure and inferior. So I would say that PE largely benefited me since I have lost almost all of these insecurities. So please if you can and he is mature enough avoid him the torment of feeling insecure and inadequate during the years where he could be enjoying his sexual life the most.

If they ask about the argument or talk about a particular sexual problem that worries them (especially their size) sure, why not.

This had occurred to me.
I have little sons, so plenty of time to think about it, but I’ve often wondered what would result from doing P.E. During puberty.
The body (that area in particular) does a lot of growing between 11-15 years old.
Would P.E. Augment that natural growth and result in an absolute hammer?

I can’t recommend it to any other boys (nephews, etc), since we don’t really know what if any negative effects might result. But I sure wish somebody had told me when I was like 13, because I’d have tried in on myself.

I don’t have kids, but would any of you approach it from a reproductive health angle?

Admittedly early in this PE thing I was obsessed with size as a shortcut to confidence, wish-fulfillment, the panacea, etc. Years ago my emphasis changed, partly because I’d came close to my size goals, partly due to maturity. I’m enthused about making sure my member is in an optimal state in terms of blood flow, hardness etc. Have to admit I’m very pleased that I’ve grown in attitude and orientation to this (and other things.)

Granted it’d be hard to play it this way as the mind seems to focus on sensational aspects. Coupled with an almost corrosive culture, means that this information could create complexes and insecurity where there needn’t naturally be any.

So more of a “Here’s some useful techniques that can keep the male member operating optimally. Oh and there’s the possibility of size increase should that interest you.”

I showed my oldest the site and he showed no interest. He may have read on his own, But that’s up to him.

My youngest has university to get through, So maybe after that.

That’s a bold and wise step.

Considering the amount of lies and disinformation aimed at young men in this regard, i think every good dad should enlighten his son if nothing else in the name of truth of non invasive PE. Lies: Penis enlargement - Wikipedia

Agree telling the boys around their teens. Regarding the girls, it’s a men’s thing guys. Not being sexist here. It is just not needed.