should you tell your son about PE

Sorry guys but i totally disagree. Talk to them plants the seed indirectly that they are not big enough… not sure you have kids. Kids are very influential and self conscious.

Imho, you are setting up the child for failure and disappointment.

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This is a very good point, and one I had not previously given enough thought.

Here’s a quote from my progress thread:

Thinking about this again, I would much rather be small and confident than during my teenage years than a bit larger with a dick size complex. I had enough to worry about back then. On the other hand, one’s son already has a dick size complex or is able to take a mature and balanced approach to PE, then PE could be a godsend. This is a very delicate topic that depends mostly on the son in question but also the father’s relationship with his son.

Don’t put your size issues on your son. Simple enough.

Well put.

Also, if one’s son already has size issues and is mature enough to handle PE, he’ll probably find Thunder’s on his own.

Its not that easy to find thunders generally speaking. I believe that there are tons of guys with size issues who will never find thundersplace.
I found it by accident because i was searching about kegels.

If he has size issues i would probably tell him that despite the common belief, natural penis enlargement its possible and provide him some anatomy explanations.

In combination with the above i would point out to him that the right use of the internet can lead to great findings.

I would bring it up in regular sex education.

“Size doesn’t matter is how you use it, skills are much more important (which is absolutely true). The avg is 5.5 BPEL ( or whatever it is) Being a little bit below or above is normal, plus you are not stuck with your size you can safely improve it a bit”.

It’s better to know how big he is from me rather finding it out from porn and have a shattered confidence. I’ll tell him how porn is unrealistic and fake with size so he understands.

Just generally teach about safety, and how to be better at sex and PE could come up. If you end up giving him a complex about size then you have a complex.

Coming from a place of “you are ok the way you are and everything else is a bonus” will make him more secure.

I wish I even had someone to talk with me about this, shit had to figure everything myself(no father figure), well it worked out well in the end and I’m grateful for the internet.

When the time comes, i will tell my kids about PE and that its possible, and they would make their decisions by themselves.

I dont care if they do PE or not i just want them to know that IF they wanted to, they always can.

What if you have a daughter with a unit, so called shemale, should you tell her she can grow it too? I guess i’m joking. :)

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Absolutely. He might be small yet not care about it in the slightest. Or, God knows, he might even like being small. Yes, guys like that do exist.

That’s very true.

My father told me: “It doesn’t need to be big, 7 inches is enough for a female”.I was maybe 15 or 16 years old, and that sentence destroyed me because I was 6”.

As others also have, I couldn’t agree more here.

Children should be given unconditional love while being taught and shown by example how to overcome adversity and challenges. There should be an emphasis on both mental and physical health, knowing perfection relative.

Given the right timing and context, between adults PE can be discussed.

I will probably share the information with my son during ‘the talk’. But I have a specific reason for this, in which I will frame it in this way:

1. There are surgeries, pills, and lots of fake stuff out there. They’re a waste of money at best and dangerous at their worst.
2. There are ‘exercises’ you can do to that are effective, but there is risk here as well.
3. Focusing ‘downstairs’ is the LAST thing you should ever consider improving when it comes to impressing women or gaining confidence in yourself. Focus first on exercise and personality. Women don’t care about how big it is, but they will swoon for fit/muscular guys with strong personalities and a clear direction in life (career / goals / interests).

Basically, want to make sure he doesn’t try any dangerous surgery or waste time/money on pills or other stupid things and understand that working on the rest of himself (98%) is better than working on PE which is only like 2%.

Do most of you realize that worrying about your size is quite a mental disorder in general?

I don’t think you have to tell your son, because he might not have a problem with this and you could create it that way.

Anything taken to an extreme can be considered a mental disorder. However, simply wanting a bigger dick and putting in the work to get one is not a mental disorder. That’s like saying anyone who wants to lose some weight must be anorexic. Everything in moderation.

The irony of my comment is I do nothing in moderation and am closer to the mental disorder side of the PE spectrum at this point. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I think most people are closer to mental disorders, myself included. The TV and media has done a great job at pushing this down our throats, thus the reason telling your child is a terrible idea. If he asks then that is different.