So I told my girlfriend about PE...

Just hope she doesn’t turn on you if you break up and tell everyone that your a penis pulling insecure freak that’s so upset because you have a real tiny dick.

You aren’t any of those things except a penis pulling freak like the rest of us:) , but remember a bitch can get real nasty when they feel wronged.

How often does that actually happen?

I’ve got plenty of mates who’ve been through bad breakups but I’ve never known a girl to actually make a concerted effort to get revenge on a guy simply because their breakup was messy. Most people in breakups I’ve known have pretty much wanted to keep such things to themselves. Is this an American thing, to get back at your ex?

Well she’s the type of girl that would never do such thing and I’m the kind of guy what would never provoke such a bad breakup where ex would seek revenge.

Last week my wife commented about my growth saying that it has gotten bigger. This was the second time she made that comment so I decided to tell her about PE. She was surprised that these exercised really worked, and she wanted to help do them. Last night she asked if I did any exercises I said no not yet do you want to watch. Her reply was how am I supposed to watch the bachelor if I’m helping you. So I did them on my own and had sex an hour later. She said last night if I can’t get my hand around it there might be a problem. It is nice that I don’t have to sneak around anymore and she likes the results.

Started 2006 (6.75 BPEL now 7.12-7.5) (4.8 EG now 5.12-5.25)

I think if they say it’s gotten bigger than why not tell them. She was pretty interested in how big it can get.

Hey BerverPooh it’s not so simple, dick size has a point of saturation for woman (this depends of the woman) so you may got to a size where it become negative to sex, I know this is hard to believe but it’s true man.

I told my gf too a few weeks ago; if it weren’t for this thread, I’d have forgotten.
She was really not that much interested - amused, I’d say.

Like the OP my gf is not by any means interested in size. Actually, she already complain about pain in some positions (I’m 6.5”x5.5”, but she’s tiny). I’m not very consistent myself; while I’d like a few extra lenght/girth, I think it’s just not that important to me to justify the consistency in PE.

I told her just because I didn’t want to invent lame excuses for PE consequences (gains or temporary physical signs), nor I’d want her to be shocked if I’d ever forget somewhere PE tools. She didn’t even questioned, understanding it’s a personal fetish (more about the feeling of filling her up rather than becoming a porn superhero), and as I expected she just asked to be careful.

I don’t think I’d do PE in front of her, anyway; mostly because I’d get excited very quickly and we’d switch to some more ‘entertaining’ activity.

Yesterday I explained PE exercises to my girlfriend (warming up/down, manual stretches, V-stretches, jelqs, clamping, pumping, hanging, ADS and even those advanced ones that I’ll never do like horse, uli or slinky) and she was amused both by variety of those methods and my dedication to it. I showed her clamps and rice sock as well. She really respects my will to do it and won’t try to stop me. Once again, I’m 100% sure as I gain she can enjoy my tool only more than before. I told her I want to fill her up as much as possible. She’s comfortable with it. I’m so happy now. :)

Today I casually asked her does she have an idea where to buy steel ball and she immediately asked am I going to hang it from my dick. XD At first I laughed it off and said no, I just saw someone else asking that and figured I have no idea where to buy such thing in city where I live, but later I decided to tell her the truth that I’m making a DIY steel ball with magnetic anchor. To my big surprise, she was okay with that as well. I expected she would tell me not to do it, that I’ll hurt myself, that it’s unnecessary or something like that, but no… She said that’s cool.

My girlfriend is the best. :) Her support really means a lot to me.

Yes revenge was invented in America, in other parts of the world everything has a happy ending:) .

That’s why in Europe we don’t have so many guns.

But there is some Lupara somewhere. :D

I’m American and I only date Europeans. They really are less vengeful.

Although they lie just as much as the next chick.

My girlfriend noticed me getting bigger and actually smiled and said: “what are you doing to your penis? Make sure you don’t hurt me. This is DEFINITELY bigger!” And she smiled so satisfyingly as she began to blow me.

Then she noticed discoloration and she said: “Will you stop with this penis enlargement nonsense! I don’t like big dicks! How can I convince you to not do anything to your penis anymore?! I hate big dicks! Please stop!”

Geez, chicks are so easily knocked away from their goals. A little discoloration and she thinks I’m going to pack it in?

Yeah, best to not even get started with PE and your girl. I recommend you keep it in your back pocket.

Especially since her opinions about your bigger size may become biased if she wants to manipulate your PE’ing.

If you want her honest opinion: Don’t mention PE and pay careful attention to her body language as you fuck her with a bigger dick.

Sound like a good idea?

I tell girls that my penis has continued to grow throughout my whole life, they typically wont believe you, but if they do notice the gains then they will believe you, just say you don’t understand why, maybe its the way you masturbate. I don’t tell girls anything that could be used against me, even long term gfs, or my wife if I was married.

I told my girlfriend about PE a while ago. She took it really well. I told her is was beneficial for a number of reasons. Fist she asked why I would do it? As I already had a large penis. I would get harder, last longer and get bigger. And I would be able to satisfy her better. And that is was good to maintain the general health of my penis. She got a little excited about the idea but was a little sceptic.

A week later she got her period and after that went on vacation for two weeks. That gave me the time to rally practice. Afterwards she noticed my gains and was amazed!

By now she asked me politely to stop gaining length. We like rough sex and I have gotten to the point that more length would get uncomfortable for her. I asked If she would like more girth. Are you kidding me? She smiled. I love girth! She thinks I am huge already but likes what’s coming.

My point is. Be frank with your girlfriend. And make it clear you do it for the both of you. To get better, not to fix inadequacies.

HappyToPE, your tool is already pretty huge, guys with below average dicks that are doing this come from a very different place than you, and the information that they PE could be used against them.

For you, it can’t really be used against you… ie: After you break up and your girlfriend is gossiping about you, all she can say is “He is really hung and he does exercises to make it harder and bigger, I feel sorry for the next girl he gets with, having to take such a big penis!”… All the girls giggle and imagine being that next girl …

For the guys with small ones the ex gf gossiping with her girls says, “He has a small penis and is so insecure about it he actually spends an hour a day pulling it hoping it will get bigger!” … all the girls laugh hysterically at the poor guy.

So if you really do feel the need to tell your significant other I would definitely focus on the exercises improving EQ and stamina, tell them they are exercises for sex just like any athlete would exercise his muscles for the sport he plays, its like kegeling for girls, your girl does kegels, doesn’t she? …

I would NOT tell them you are doing it because it might increase your penis size, if they do notice gains after you have told them about your penis exercise program then you could say, “Its probably a side effect of the exercises, I’ve read it has happened to some guys”. Also, what happens if you are a slow gainer, or one of the few guys who never gains anything, then your girlfriend will see you as a failure, which is never good for a relationship.

stereomike, good post, but I broke it up into several paragraphs for you. One long solid block of text can be hard to read.