Stretching after cumming... Bib?

I made love to the wife at lunch today. Busted a very satisfying nut :)

Since then, all of my afternoon stretching sessions have felt particularly productive, feeling a really deep stretch throughout the tunica.

Do you think there is any reason why this would be so? It’s like I can stretch just as effectively with not nearly the effort. I’m wondering if I shouldn’t just whack off every am to test this out, although I’m not usually horney in the morning, so this would be tough :)

What I have read about PE is that if one does cum or make love or jerk off it should be 3 to 4 hours before or after the PE exercising. What does the other members think?

RB,

I never found it to make any difference one way or the other. I never let PE get in the way of sex.

Bigger

I think its time for me to stop lurking and contribute my opinions…

Im not sure about it either, but Ive noticed what RB is talking about as well.

Im not sure where exactly I read it, but I remember some talk about doing Jelq BEFORE stretching. The idea was that the milking would weaken the tunica or ligs or something, and then when you streched, it would take less force to cause microtears in the tunica etc.

Possibly the “activities” beforehand will therefore have weakened the tunica etc, and so I think this might give better effects from stretching. Im not really sure how to check this, because I don’t seem to get noticeable gains either way.

Also, wouldn’t having the blood in there act as a kind of warm up? The way my dick feels after a hot wrap, and the way it is after an erection has died down is quite similar…

Some people have said it doesn’t really matter about sexual activity, some people say it does. Can anyone clarify why its supposed to be bad? I’m presuming its something to do with recovery though…

IMO, the only reason guys think ejaculating and PE are not compatible is because, after cumming, things tend to shrink up. Naysayers equate this with some kind of loss. But, a couple of hours later, you are right back where you were, if not more “plumped.” Cum if you want. Or don’t.

I like to keep the libido “edge” going. Feels better and makes sex later, if you have it, something you go into with more enthusiasm, feeling still sort of on your edge when you haven’t previously crossed it.

sevenisheaven;
Thanks for giving up on lurking. You contributed something substantial to a notion that is pretty much an unknown and lurks, itself, in the limbo of “personal opinion.” Keep talking.

I also know what your talking about, there is a different feel to hanging or stretching if I’ve busted a nut that day. I think this is due to the PC muscle. DLD does his keggle/reverse before his blasters to wear the PC musle out. When having sex/jerking-it the pc muscle is hard at work so I think its less able to pull back on you when stretching….just a thought

I don’t know what or why it is, but it is very noticeable.

For the record, I have sometimes busted a nut (edged just a bit too close :) ) or not, and it has not effected my gains, unless perhaps I coulda gained more than 3.5” ebpl and 1.5” eg without cumming :)

I have noticed that for jelqing ejaculation beforehand makes the session less effective, but like you I have noticed that after ejac it is easier to keep a total flaccid for stretching and that the stretches seemed more profitable.

I think that a little blood in the cc and cs makes stretches less effective and ejac promotes more complete emptying.

I have noticed that masturbation does NOT give the feeling you are describing, but sex definatey DOES.

I think its due to the increased pressure and force on all angles (and the whole length) of the penis, thereby working it out similar to light bends would.

It feels great after, and the closest feeling that I get to feeling like my dick has just been to the gym ;)

The way I look at it, PE is designed to foster a more satisfying sex life by building better equipment. Now, in order to have a more satisfying sex life, you have to have sex, right? I’m not one of those who has more opportunities than motivation, so when the wife says “Fuck me”, I generally (at least every time so far) comply with her wishes.

This morning, I had just finished a 30 minute hanging set, walked upstairs for a break before the next set, and got propositioned by my wife. Now, I could have told her “Not now, I’m working out, but maybe in 3 or 4 hours …” No, I accepted the invitation and put my equipment to work. Did that set my growth back by some percentage? I really don’t care! Getting (and giving) more is what I think it is about.

When I used to do manual stretches as a full routine, I found that I had to wait a while to stretch after making love to my…….self, because the head was too sensitive. Apart from that I have not noticed a difference.

SS4

I was thinking about this thread the other night. (Do I have a problem?) I wonder if it is even better to stretch after sex as the penis is fatiqued and less likely to “resist” being stretched.

puff

He he.

Maybe I could get daily sex if I convinced my wife that it enhnced the effectiveness of my stretches. Hmmmmmmm.