Surgery

I was reading all through this and thought up loads of answers to the different questions and forgot most of them now, lol.
I am not really insecure about things, it’s just this topic.

I am 20, I have an extremely high erection angle. I have been doing PE since I joined this site - I didnt lurk. Um… I have gained a little in length but no girth and have damaged my dick way too much to even consider jelqing or squeezing again, lol. I stopped everything for months and nothing has gotten better at all. Maybe the surgeon can fix it at the same time?

You guys have definately cut down my hope in surgeons, and I will make sure to analyse the risks. I was gonna buy a pump - but the injury just made me change my mind on that - worried that if it was a thrombosed major vein then the pump will explode it or something.

I am gonna remain calm and take it slow, I aint in a rush to get huge. Just wanted surgery to get me a head start, so I could do the exercises here to maintain or increase a size I can handle.

You’re welcome, even though you put words in my mouth. Thank God, only words. :D

What it sounds like is that you tried doing advanced techniques too quickly. That would be the cause of your bruising and other injuries. You, like many people starting out, want big gains real fast. The best thing you can do is work into your routine. This will build up your tolerance for the exercises, especially the advanced ones you so desperately want to use. If jelqing is causing bruises, then don’t use as much force. Give that a shot for a couple of weeks.

If you have a thrombosed vein or similar damage, seek help for that separately. If you have that kind of damage (I am not a physician) I would imagine injecting fat or whatever for girth is a bad idea until it is all sorted out and healed well in advance of any surgery.

There was a guy here on Thunder’s who had girth improvement with subcutaneuous silicone (whatever that means) and - no offence meant - from an aestetic point of view it looked strange, because he lost the proportions between glans and shaft. Personally I would not want to risk the aestetics of my dick.

It seems to me that you should sort out the injury first and make a decision after that. Judging from the horror stories I have read about, there are plenty of surgeons in the aestetic field whom I wouldn’t trust with taking out my stitches, much less putting a knife in my flesh.

So first have your girlfriend type down your PE history and current routine, and then have her do 500 kegels hours daily for the next 3 months. If that doesn’t improve your girth, she is doing something wrong.

I almost forgot. Get rid of your girlfriend, if she really loved you, she wouldn’t see you as only a penis. A good relationship never revolves around penis size.

Hey, thanks for the info guys.

I can’t leave my girlfriend, been with her for 2 years and we LOVE each other big time. She doesn’t see me as a penis at all - she couldn’t care less, but I asked her a million times for a straight answer and she gave in and told me. I respect her for that, a lot… Afterall, it is the truth - I can feel that I am not making much friction inside her.

I feel a lot better about myself, just the injury doesn’t seem to be improving and the hair on my penis is getting uncontrollable, heh.

If the injury isn’t improving I’d see a specialist.

As for the friction part, have you had her lie on her side in bed and you on top, as if you were aiming for missionary and she was trying to get out of bed? That way, her legs are together and you enter from behind on the side = better friction. Not a deep penetration, as I recall.

And of course have her do 500 kegels daily for 3 months. If she asks why, say it’s because you don’t want her to go all floppy after you have kids. That should scare her into doing it.

She has had 2 kids, and she kegels a lot, don’t seem to make any difference, maybe she won’t get no tighter. The position you said is great for making myself appear thicker, but I aint got a long enough dick to do that - her ass isn’t tiny and I am only 5.7 inches.

My goal in PE is just to get to the high average size, that isn’t asking too much is it?
Just want to be 6 inches long, and 5 inches girth.

Obviously I wouldn’t mind more, heh.

I AM GONNA REACH MY GOAL SOMEHOW!!!!!!

PEst,

If 6 x 5 is your immediate goal, I’d really work with manual methods for awhile before jumping into surgery. While I’m sure there are some surgery success stories, are you really willing to take the chance and be among that group for whom penile surgery failed catastrophically, resulting in a shorter penis and/or permanent deformity? Even for lengthening surgery, months of post-surgery hanging is required anyway.

I can understand where you’re coming from. If you look at my starting stats, they certainly made me ponder the question of yes or no to penile surgery. But I made the longterm commitment to PE, and here I am today, probably longer and thicker than any penile surgery could have given me. My investment was my valuable time and a few hundred dollars of various PE tools. Good luck to you whatever your choice.

Peforeal

Thank you Peforeal, nice post.

I will continue with PE for now, but as I mentioned - I have a major injury that don’t seem to be improving at all. I am worried that if I get a pump - it may explode, lol.

PEst,

Have her put a pillow under the side of her bum, to lift her up towards you, and pull her knees up towards her chest a little. That gives you better access. Have her hold her kegels while the two of you go at it. If she can’t get a good grip of you then she needs to practice with those bouncing eggs or whatever they are.

And do see a doctor, please. You make the injury sound awful.

By the way, read this: Knee up stretch

I’ve tried this out for the last 2 weeks (static grip, locking my hand in position by placing my foot on the bed so that the distance stretched stays the same) and I find the results encouraging. Not measured yet though. I try to do them in the morning before I get up and in the evening before I go to sleep.

Thanks for the link, but I can’t even do simple stretches right now. I get a horrible ache just under my glans even if I softly masturbate.

Then why the **** aren’t you at a doctor’s clinic???

Let’s rephrase that: “Thanks for the link, but I can’t even take the dog for a walk now. I get a horrible ache just under my kneecap even if I walk slowly.” Will you go see a medical professional now?

I suppose, lol.

I am just afraid of the results, don’t want the git to amputate it and sell it to a small family of seagulls.