The Big Why?

I was thinking about PE, myself and all of you. I was thinking about why we are willing to put so much time, thought, and creativity into developing our cocks… I know why I do it. There are specific thoughts and fantasies that are the target of my actions.

Some may be desperate for validation. Others well grounded but love high performance things. Others it’s revenge. Others it’s devotion, trying to be the best partner possible.

In this thread we say WHY we have taken up PE

Pretty straight forward for me, I wanted a bigger cock. I think my desire for this started way back in high school gym class when in the showers I had turtle dick compared to a lot of guys that were really packing. One poor guy always got an erection, but that is another story. :)

Orignailly to cure PE, secondarily to be bigger than my wife’s previous partners.

Trying to by the best partner, and see how much can i make it grow👍😎

My motivation for PE:

In no particular order:

1. I love the status that having a big dick brings you. People talk, once they know you are packing you get a different social experience. Itd stupid and we should all judge and treat people by the merrits of their character. But it can’t be helped, big dick ownership gives you a invisible crown that all who know can see. Kindof like being rich.

2. My partner: I want her to be as satisfied, filled up and we’ll fucked as possible. Now, this goes well beyond having a large cock, but having a powerful tool expands your abilities. I want the positive feedback cycle for her of being with a strong fit big cock man wanting her and making her feel sexy. It Spurs on life.

3. Other men: I want to win the dick swinging contest!! Dumb and egotistical I know, but I like being at the top of the heap. Gaining a big flaccid hang would satisfy many fantasies of being naked care free around other men. Better to be well hung (bigger than everyone) and humble, than insecure and tight assed.

I’ve never experienced your number one reason KM.

The other two certainly come into play.

A combo of things for me…wanting a bigger dick, wanting to be the best, loving a challenge, also my dick was very sad looking after I got clean and sober from the chemicals in my brain going back to normal.

There also WAS a huge insecurity issue that was brought up 20 mins ago by my wife. She didn’t bring up my dick, she’s a teacher and recent took a course on early education. Apparently trama in childhood, especially abandonment which I had a lot of at a young age brings out major learning issues, addiction issues and of course major insecurities in life. I have always felt the need to be protective of me and my things such as family and friends out of fear. Now as you go down the line you make the connection to feeling the need to be bigger and better out of fear of loss and protection. At this point in my life because I’ve made these connections long before my wife took classes on it, I’ve kind of changed. Yes I still feel somewhat insecure about my well above average size but I no longer NEED to get bigger out of fear, now it’s all about the above mentioned things, challenge, simply wanting it to be bigger out of vanity, most importantly penis health, etc.

Great thread Kave

Excellent KC!

Simply too see if it could be done no more and no less.In the grand scheme of things I really don’t think having a bigger penis really means anything at all.

Thank you T

Really? Maybe it’s just my perception. But I feel that there is a whole host of social tunings that happen when the meme if “KM has a thick cock” escapes… Maybe it is different in your community as it is expected to be big for black guys. I think I read in one of your very early posts that you thought 10” was where you start getting respect from black women. Maybe being hung is not as heavily weighted in the black community? Or there maybe is a womens culture of downplaying size to say ” can’t satisfy me” where as white women are more easily impressed I don’t know..(I’m assuming that you operated primeraly in the black community?)

Predominantly the white community and my wife is white as well.

That said the only women I’ve heard openly talk about size were black. “He better be packin if he thinks he’s going to get some” types of comments.

As is the case for Mount Everest, maybe it is simply “because it’s there”?

Actually, I started because I discovered at age 40 that it had shrunk. I had always been pleased that I had 7”, and was shocked to discover I could only measure about 6.7”. So I got started just to regain that lost size and then kept going!

Why? Because why not really. Personally I was willing to potentially waste some time finding out it didn’t work, in case it did work….as it would suck to know you could have done something, but chose to do nothing. That said, I gained, and was hooked to keep going until gains stop.

Also, I’d be lying if some of it isn’t ego driven. I started with a good size (around 6.8” BPEL and 4.9” MEG), but hey, if I can go from above average to really big or huge/monster, why not. Personally I’d love enough girth that it is borderline too much for most, and enough length that I can reach bottom on 99.99% with a tiny bit or more to spare.

I’ve heard that from black women too. It’s pretty intimidating. “If he not packing g at least 10” Might scare off white guys who don’t think theyre ‘packin’ enough.