One thing I tell guys many times is to get bigger for yourself. Otherwise if you chase someone else, you’ll always feel small. You’ll never actually catch your shadow.
No matter where you start it will NEVER end. The mentality of not being big enough can affect any of us. And it chased me till last year. That pain continually burns till you learn better. Regardless actual stats. *sighs*
As I was told when I was younger hanging out on the corner, by someone older with more life experiences…..”there will always be someone bigger, stronger, tougher or crazier, once you understand that you won’t worry about being a tough guy out of insecurity” ……that goes with a lot of different areas in life…..be the best I can be for me these days