The Big Why?

Sex feels better with for me every little bit of girth I gain. Feels better for her too. Win/win.

In the beginning, insecurity, I suppose, but I’ve grown far beyond that.

Perfectly said KV. Your number one reason is very true and motivates me a lot.

Recently i gained one inch bpel and i can touch the cervix even with 85-90% EQ. I was rarely able to do it back then even rock hard.

I want to gain more to recieve the “Wow” comments from girls. Its definitely a superficial goal but who cares…

I want to clarify on my No.1 (to save myself from being seen as a complete tool bag, thought if I zoom out enough i wonder if it can be helped)…..

I don’t think having a big dick or being rich makes you a good person, or really let’s you get away with being a douche. But there is a certain light that is cast on a person when the are rich and act humbly. You always hear it ‘hes loaded but he’s such a nice person’ … He’s probably not a saint but peoples perception of a stuck up rich person is in contrast with a rich guy behaving well. This will have an effect on the believers of the nice guy story if the rich guy ever needs something from you, or wants something to go his way.

Think about these:

A 8x6 stallion with lover prowess is faithful to his SO.
A below average nervous wreck is faithful to his SO.

Which SO feels luckier?

He’s hung AND he’s really thoughtful and intelligent
He’s hung AND he’s humble about it
He’s hung AND he’s a faithful man
He’s hung AND he’s respectful of women.

On and on.

I’m not saying that our value as people is determined by dick size. But the social experience that awaits us is flavored by a all the qualities we bring to the table, and how the population reacts and values those qualities.

I was researching the structure of the connective tissue in the linea alba (to do with my work) when I stumbled across TP. Having worked with connective tissues for years PE made sense and was a good experimental ground for CT stretching/modification. So I used my cock for experimentation! I just wanted to find out what methods were most effective and got addicted to PE 🤗

I see the current average which was my starting point as esthetically and sexually suboptimal. If my PE goal was average or even below, I wouldn’t care. But the most important to me is experiencing the adaptability of the human body, how my attitudes and my thoughts can change parts of me which are deemed impossible to improve that way. And how some intuitions about human’s nature and its most functional form can be more than mere ungrounded beliefs.

Me neither. People have reacted to my size and they have told others about it but nothing more then that.

I started PE because I already had a big dick and realised I can get a super large dick if I do PE. I don’t know if I would bother with PE if I had an average sized dick. Why I want to have a super large dick I really can’t say but I know it’s satisfying going to a nude mixed spa with loads of people, loads of dicks and I got the biggest flaccid at the spa. Probably the biggest erect one also.

I suppose it was because I knew I had lost half inch from my youth.

47 years young and my sick was shrinking what!!

So after a year on the penis pump regaining half an inch I thought hay seven would be awesome how do I do it?

Hence I found this forum and realised it can be done so hay why not.

Also having the wife have bigger climax who don’t enjoy that.

You like the interaction with lots of people with your big showy dick but you never experienced my no. 1? Would you get perks you receive now related to your dick if you had a 2 inch flaccid?

Maybe you just don’t know what it’s like to be lacking in the flaccid department. (Hint: it sucks)

I agree with everything about the status of a big dick, kavemonster’s analysis on the No.1 reason, the actual sexual benefits and, let’s be honest, that whole package is the main thing, but i think there’s two reasons that also play a big part for the continuation of PEing after someone has gotten into it.

1. (for some people) It’s very gratifying to achieve something on your own. Plain and simple. From guys who self-made their fortunes vs guys who were born rich, to the artists who create, there is something about working and achieving that is unique. Even if there was a way of just taking a pill every day and gaining, or a surgery that was not that expensive and 100% safe, you wouldn’t get that of which i am talking about here.

2. The time spent on each session is far from a mental waste of time. This might sound like school assignment talk, but at this age of screens, fast changes, everybody talking a lot and loud in social media, having a chill moment with yourself helps to clear your mind. This is very subjective of course, but i imagine it is true more or less for at least everyone that works and lives in a big city.

What i’m saying is that if it wasn’t for these two points very few would be doing it long term, i think.

Well it’s true that I don’t know what it’s like to be lacking in the flaccid department. It’s a good feeling being the biggest. People do look at it allot, they comment it and even ask about the size. Both men and women does it and it sometimes feels weird but that is a luxury problem I guess.

I understand what you mean with having a different social experience and the invisible crown but it feels a bit exaggerated. Sure people reacts to it, asks about it, comment it and they talk about it. But I do not feel it gives me a crown or advantages. I do not know what perks you ask about that you say I receive now. Do you mean the looks and the comments? Or that people sometimes have talked about my size? I don’t know if that’s perks but I haven’t experienced any other perks. Maybe a few less women would approach me at the nude spa if I had a smaller dick, I don’t know.

kavemonster — Not sure how old you are, but your flaccid will likely grow some as you age, and your penis gains elasticity. Thinking back, it seems that my flaccid was more like 4.5 to 5 inches when in my thirties versus 6.5 to 7 now in my sixties. (My erect length hasn’t changed, but it doesn’t need to expand as much to get there.) See that you’ve lost some weight, and it might help to lose a bit more. We are both 5’ 9” but I’m at 165 pounds. Never had a fat pad. So the difference between NBP and BPEL is less than an eighth of an inch. If you don’t already, get some light penis weights, and walk around with them for 20 to 30 minutes a day. Two years ago (soon after starting PE), did that for about six months (walking in my basement rather than in public) and added close to an inch in flaccid length. Wish you the best, and read the thread on raw onions —- an big increase in testosterone might do wonders for both of us.

In last post, meant to say that as a penis ages it loses elasticity.

I started PE almost 3 years ago because of ED issues. I was in my mid fifties, just started a new relationship, and things downstairs were a little bit off now and again.

I did not want to use chemicals so I did some research, found this site, and after a lot of time spent checking things out I thought I’d give it a try.

I’m glad I did. EQ is much improved, although understandably not what it was thirty years ago but really I’m thrilled with the results.

I also gained an inch in length and a half inch in girth. Frankly, I was very skeptical that I could even get bigger, but I have. But that was never the primary goal, although I do enjoy having a bigger dick.

I enjoy sex more because of the increased confidence and also the the increased sensation I’m getting during sex. This is due to better EQ and my larger size, no doubt.

And my girlfriend seems to enjoy sex more with my better EQ increased size.

It’s been a win/win for everyone.

I really enjoy everything about PE and I’m planning on doing it for life.

It’s not like a redcarpet welcome that I imagine. Having a big dick is like a feather in your hat. Like having leadership qualities, being handsome, being fit, having a financially comfortable life.

If you are perceived as having a small dick it’s a rough ride for you. Word gets around and you won’t even know how many sex opportunities you are losing, because they don’t even appear for you. Go check out /smalldickproblems on Reddit and you will get a taste of the horror that is living with a small penis. I read that stuff to keep myself in perspective.