The Legendary 8x6

Here’s another example:

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And Cub’s sig puts him at “Lastest: 7.625” BPEL x 5.625” EG on Aug. 07/06”

I’ve also seen posters on other threads reporting that they start to run into a lot of occurrence of discomfort in partners around 7.5” BPEL. So I question whether the 8” of the often-referenced 8 x 6 may be excessive for a lot of long-term female partners, even as a BPEL (versus NBP) measurement, and so carries with it a significant downside that PE’ers may want to give serious consideration in terms of the personal outcomes that they want from PE.

Plus if I read it right, ZaneBlue and Kitten have posted here that 7” is a pretty satisfactory length, if not actually about the most that’s comfortable. So it looks to me like 7” to 7.5” BPEL is what experience shows is about the maximum that really suits most women, given that there will be some size queens (including women who have been stretched by giving birth), and women whose eyes are bigger than their pussies (as has been cited in the stories of the purchase of large dildos that turn out to be undesirable).

While I appreciate that some guys have reasons for setting large goals, I think it’s important to understand and be clear about the point at which size has downsides.

FF

As far as I know I’m the only guy at thunders who’s overly concerned with finding out just how big is too big. I’ve posted threads and posted to threads on just that topic, and while I’d love to think that a bp7.5” was the ideal size (since it would mean I’d probably never have to do any length work ever again (only maintenance work)), I can’t help but think that it’s a bp8” that’s really ideal. 7” might be satisfactory, but satisfactory isn’t what most of us are aiming for (after all a bp6” can be satisfactory). Zane herself has said that her ideal size is a non-bone-pressed 8”

Most of the stuff I’ve read points to a bp8” being the ideal size, but I’d like to see an argument for both lengths: bp7.5” V.s bp8”

I was going to suggest it might be a good idea to start a thread called BP7.5” Vs BP8” where both sides of the argument could be put forward, but with things the way they are at the moment it would probably end up being me doing all of the reading.

Oh, I’m just as interested. I’d like to hear from are well endowed members ( ;) ) and find out what’s best. I’ve even asked a few in private conversation. bp 8x6 comes up alot.

I only care what my wife thinks. For her oral is no problem but she is rather tight between the legs, and we use quite a bit of lube and “slow and steady” starting. Feels great for me, but sometimes it hurts her, seems to vary with the phase of the moon.

BFLR

My current girlfriend has no problem with my 8.25X6.50. She loves to perform oral every chance she gets. I do bottom out, but she loves the feeling. About a month ago I put her legs over my shoulders and got into a position that allowed me to FINALLY hit her CDS. The look on her face said it all! She’s by far the tightest woman I’ve ever been with. She’s told me numerous times that she love’s my cock. I’ve even entered her right after coming out of the pump with no pain on her part. I have no worries about her being able to accept more.

Mr fantastic, I can tell you that you are not the only one that wonders about that. I really think most that say “oh women can handle anything as long as they’re warmed up” have not been with many different woman. I’m not hugh I’ve been anywhere from 5.8in NBPEL to 6.5NBPEL and girth from 5.25 to 5.5in and have been with lets just say a lot of women. Here are a few experiences. My first wife couldn’t take the 5.25 girth. After 2 years of being married she would still bleed some times. I think she was a rare case though as none have been like that other then her but most have to start slow at 5.5in girth. I was with a black girl who couldn’t take the length at 6.5 NBPEL. Again she was an exception but still. My current woman is a 5’2” thick black woman (just how I like them) and we were at the store not long ago and she got a 10”X5” jelly dong as it was called. We had a bet because she though she could get it all in. At about 7.5 it started to hurt but she kept on shoving it in and got to about 8 maybe just over and stopped saying it hurt way to bad and she didn’t want to hurt her self just to win a bet. So there are just a few examples of different women for you. Hope that helps some.

You can count me in.

I tend to be conservative, and I have a personality that wants to avoid displeasing anybody. So I really want to know what length I can aim for, that doesn’t run much risk of causing discomfort to partners, or limiting sex positions or frequency.

And, I think it’s important for this site to have some realistic information about the limits at which size does start to have a downside. This site seems to me to based on providing really good information, and that’s part of it.

FF

Mr. Fantastic,

My wife takes my 7.5 bpel with only an “Oh” once in a while. Her facial expression is more intense nowdays but she handles it. However my fatpad is 1”+, so I don’t think she’s getting all of 7.5. Maybe 7” at the most.

GonaBeBig,

Do you think she was pushing her bottom walls backwards as far as it would go? Or was she pushing into her cervix, which could happen if she didn’t allow about 20 minutes of arousal (warmup/foreplay) before the test so that her cervix had had enough time to fully tilt out of the way. If she was pushing into her cervix that would have limited her depth. Also, if she wasn’t fully elasticated yet that would have limited her bottom wall more so. Thought I would ask just to clarify.

The cervix moves after arousal? Huh? I thought you just go around it and hit the CDS.

Well I didn’t get out the gyno tools and check ;) but the was a lot of arousal before time and a good amount of sex first. So I would say 7.5 or around there hit as far as you could ever hope to get in and around 8 was at least .5in into the pain part not “oh that feels good I can take that” put pain. The look on her face showd she was just trying to win the bet. Oh and for anyone wondering she has had a child also.

"Do porn guys really have bigger dicks?

Some of the guys do have monster weenies, but most of them are around 6-7 inches. It's more important to have a reliable dick than a big one, as proven by Randy West. I personally hate big dicks, and I won't work with anyone 8 or more inches if I can help it. Most of the girls in our business agree, when shooting a long sex scene or more than one scene in a day, smaller is definitely better! You can reach my G-spot just fine with your finger, so anything else is redundant!"
http://www.asia … com/faqs.html#2

She’s seems unaware of CDS orgasms and the advantages of a nbp8", wich is a shame, since she also states in her faq that she’s "one of the 20% of women that climaxes vaginally, instead of clitorally" so it might be worth her wile looking into that.

But it does say something for guys with shorter units— maybe just aim to target the anterior fornix (which is apparently even more sensitive than the posterior fornix) and work on girth. Good girth with pelvic contact along with stimulation of the anterior fornix is going to be just as good or maybe even better than hitting the posterior fornix. It’s really just public perception and the psychological stimulation of the idea of a bigger dick that makes a nbp8" more attractive than a girthy four or so inches (or at least from what I’ve read that seems to be the case).

I’m sure she has had enough big dicks to know what what it feels like. She knows what she likes. Women don’t have orgasms based on what the text books say. They each have their preferences and individual body responses. I think it is a big mistake guys make to think, “hey I’m doing this or that, now you are supposed to cum!” You learn what pleases a woman from that woman, not from theory.

Good link though. Thanks. I always thought Asia was one of the hottest porn stars ever!

Also— she might just be saying that to make her fans more responsive.

Absolutely. Kobe Tai is absolutely hot too, and Guage (Guage is awesome). Ally Sin — way hot (but unfortunately impossible to find with a google search (only one gallery comes up at time of writing and it’s not her :( ).

Appologies— I got the spelling wrong, it’s Allie Sin